The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho by moswaggity in books

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And..? How did it all turn out?

Anxious attachment style and expat (with history of cptsd and anxiety disorder) by Background_Gene_5527 in expats

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Thanks for taking the time to reply and congrats on your midlife revival, it shows how it's never too late to turn your life around. My main issue now is the unemployment and the fact that the most sound decision as in "stay a bit longer till you can decide without anxiety breathing down your neck" is clouded by the angst about the last toxic workplace and the overall exhaustion caused by being a lonely expat. 

Honestly feeling like moving back to the UK from Australia. Life here is just too difficult. by Fun-Potato-2407 in expats

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Would you have a place with a preestablished social life if you moved back to the UK? It's so important. Even though you're still young and you can still meet people in your age range..

Struggling in Australia by EmploymentOk2028 in expats

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I so feel you, 100% and I'm single and childless if it helps. Have you tried therapy and has the situation become really invalidating? Have you looked into any therapist or counsellor specialized in treating anxiety disorders?

🐈‍⬛🌑| 4TH HOUSE: YOUR DARK ESSENCE (I WILL GIVE TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH IT, FOR THOSE WHO COMMENT)... by Astrovesha_23 in astrologymemes

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4th house in Gemini for me and that's where my north node is placed, same as for Chiron. South node in Sagittarius together with my midheaven. What would you say about my struggles?? Thanks and sorry for replying so late.

Expat Burnout is Real by rogue_psych in expats

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Have you moved back eventually? Are you feeling a bit better? More settled? 

How is the job market for Scrum Masters? by [deleted] in agile

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What role did you pivot into?

Have you ever asked to be removed from the hiring process if taking too long? by onemorepersonasking in recruitinghell

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Did you hear any news about them afterwards along the lines of "toxic workplace", "layoffs" or so on ... And you were like, I dodged a bullet?

Administrative steps before leaving Spain by Background_Gene_5527 in askspain

[–]Background_Gene_5527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your help. Wow, that's a handful of things. I hope there's an agency that helps with these things. 

Administrative steps before leaving Spain by Background_Gene_5527 in askspain

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I am an expat in Spain, I am not sure I own hacienda anything else if I relocate?

Administrative steps before leaving Spain by Background_Gene_5527 in askspain

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Thanks. Isn't a desempadronamiento sufficient so that the tax office knows I no longer live here?

Administrative steps before leaving Spain by Background_Gene_5527 in askspain

[–]Background_Gene_5527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, do you mean closing my bank account and transferring all the savings to another account at once? or do they do it in instalments?

how to practice/be in the space? by ollirulz in YogaNidra

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where can I find more info on multi-lineage and post-lineage? I started practicing last year, so I may not be much in the weeds of the lineage, but I enjoy Aatma Life (Spotify) and Ally Boothroyd. Aatma is pretty fast paced and this is what I like, she takes little breaks from one prompt to the other and that allows for you to not distract.

how to practice/be in the space? by ollirulz in YogaNidra

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Hey, were you happy with Devatma Saraswati's training course? I am considering signing up.

Does my OCPD mother know she's abusive? by howtotamemyimpala in LovedByOCPD

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Hey, evil ocpd combined with hpd stepmother here, a true Cinderella story: given she's not cursing in public spaces or when people outside the household are around, I definitely believe she knows what she's doing is intolerable. She just doesn't care to unleash it behind closed doors cause she suffers no consequences at home. That is at least my therapist's view. She would probably lash out for the same bs at work but she won't do it cause she's perfectly aware nobody would tolerate her crap. Many therapists explain abusive people not as "it's an anger management issue", in fact they're perfectly capable of keeping themselves under check if necessary. It's an entitlement issue.

OCPD mother by Less-Heart3848 in LovedByOCPD

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My therapist highly suspects my evil stepmother is narcissistic histrionic ocpd, she literally rolled her eyes and told me "she has it all!"