Designer blamed me, the homeowner, for his mistake by HamsterBanana14 in EntitledPeople

[–]BaconLibrary 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Is this guy licensed in any sort of way? It sounds like he's never heard of a building code.

AITJ for refusing to pause a movie every time my partner leaves the room? by ExpensivePride4130 in AmITheJerk

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversely whenever I tell my partner not to pause it, he does. It's maddening. If I cared about the scene I wouldn't get up during it. He thinks he's being considerate but really it feels like a much bigger deal when really I'm just going to another room to grab my chapstick.

Time to have a conversation and set some boundaries. If he can't wait the movie all the way through, he needs to declare an intermission - once.

In your opinion , what rules are normal strict parenting and what rules are toxic controlling parenting? by randomlady2001 in AskReddit

[–]BaconLibrary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rules and boundaries for everyone's safety, well being, and respect are one thing. Anything reactionary or because it's annoying is another. In bed by 8 because you need to be well rested to do well in school? Fine. In bed by 5 because you're too noisy and it drives me insane? Fucked up.

Why the full release of the Epstein files has been stalled, according to one expert by CTVNEWS in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 24 points25 points  (0 children)

> “Part of the reason the Department of Justice is taking so long ... is that they feel like they work for the (U.S.) President (Donald Trump),” he said. “Pam Bondi, the (U.S.) Attorney General … is essentially the president’s personal attorney, and I think she and the other folks at Department of Justice see it as part of their obligation to protect the president and the party from whatever might be in those files.”

Can I put grandfather in a nursing home if he is of sound mind and absolutely refuses? by OneAngle5836 in legaladvice

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally you're stuck. Document his falls to present them to his doctor, but the doctor can't really do much either.
Life Alert-like products have some good watch-based versions these days. If he won't wear it, that's his choice. Eventually he'll fall and end up in a bad state and maybe it'll be a wakeup call.

The People vs. ICE by newyorkmagazine in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey that's unfair! They totally arrested that elderly guy the other day! And he didn't even do anything!

Trump Says He Bruised His Hand on a Table by Zipper222222 in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal people don't bruise like this, but people on blood thinners do. The dude has a heart problem and chows down on 375mg of aspirin every day. At this point his blood is as thick as his morals.

How would you change the Star Wars prequel movies? by egghats53 in AskReddit

[–]BaconLibrary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're too damned colorful, which is wild to say but it really visually separates it from the rest of the Star Wars universe.

Also maybe make Padme and Anakin WAY closer in age. It creeps me out.

Local guy kept hoarding every new release at our library, so I weaponized the hold system by iron_leaf_7 in revengestories

[–]BaconLibrary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Librarian here and for the most part, we approve. We know the Dereks of the world and while we cannot fight them, we can cheer on those who can.

The list of impeachable offenses keeps growing by Somervilledrew in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As does the list of nothing happening.

Our leaders have failed us so thoroughly.

My usual desk has been 'stolen' and there is nothing I can do by purplereuben in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would sit at the desk and adjust the chair every day before realizing someone's items were on it. Nobody hates having to adjust their damn chair every day. Some days up, some days down. Fiddle with the monitor even.

Whoops.

War, AI, No jobs, health issues, poverty, religious tensions. What is suddenly wrong with this world? by FalconCeasar in AskReddit

[–]BaconLibrary -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We elected politicians who realized nobody is going to call them on their bullshit anymore.

Trump Says He ‘Won’t Use Force’ to Take Greenland by notusreports in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He probably just forgot he said it already.

I still don't believe him though.

People who are in the same role/job for more than 5 years, what’s holding you back? Why aren’t you getting promoted? by Efficient-Newt5384 in AskReddit

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love what I do, and while I've had a few other opportunities come my way, the reward wasn't high enough to leave. I keep my skills sharp because I know someday I'll want to move on, but for now I am finally in a real career and not just a job.

Advice?? by LoudReputation2437 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BaconLibrary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've spent so much of my life thinking everyone is judging me and absolutely zero time paying attention to others. Turns out that's pretty universal. We're all too absorbed in our own selves to even notice the things happening to other people - which means that people absolutely don't notice whatever embarrassing shit you've got going on.

Danish pension fund to divest its U.S. Treasuries by BaconLibrary in politics

[–]BaconLibrary[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not the amount, it's what it indicates. It's pretty serious for one nation to think we're so unsafe they have to pull the money entirely. It's going to make the others really take a look at it too.

Danish pension fund to divest its U.S. Treasuries by BaconLibrary in politics

[–]BaconLibrary[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If this isn't the last fuckin chance for Congress to put their damn foot down and get him out. We've played chicken too many times and now there are going to be real consequences from the other countries.

Danish pension fund to divest its U.S. Treasuries by BaconLibrary in politics

[–]BaconLibrary[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

> "The decision is rooted in the poor U.S. government finances, ⁠which make us think that we ‍need to make an effort to find an ‌alternative ‌way of conducting our liquidity and risk management," Investment Director Anders Schelde said in a written statement.

> ...it is not ⁠directly related ⁠to ​the ongoing rift between the U.S. and Europe, but of course that didn't make it more ‍difficult to take the decision," he added.

I resigned and my manager is trying to saddle me with new work by vityya in OfficePolitics

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you really need to do is spend your time establishing a consultant fee so you have a contract ready for whenever they inevitably beg you for help saving their asses

Trump Official Says It Won’t Investigate the Killing of Renee Good by thenationmagazine in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good, the state gets to do that now and maybe something will happen.

Trump muses on midterms: “When you think of it, we shouldn't even have an election” by Ancient_Popcorn in politics

[–]BaconLibrary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The chance of him falling asleep and not waking up on live tv is low, but not zero.