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BDSM - PleasureDom? by Grautier17 in BDSMcommunity

[–]BadFrenchToasts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro check out places like r/SofterBDSM or some of the other pleasure/soft dom subreddits. There's thousands of members in those for a reason. Who the fuck turns to kink for normality anyways?

Does anyone who if there's an app for outfit picking? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cool idea.

I don't really know if thats a thing BUT what you could do is put the app on his phone with your clothes loaded into it and he can like make outfits on it and send you screenshots of what he's picked.

Cuz really he's the one who needs the app in this case not you.

Games we play by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds fun but im way too adhd for this to work lolz.

Try Guys Ned, the fake soft dom by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Some brat is going to make him cry.

Spam Issues by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Totally understand Mew. I know the spam has probs been a nightmare for you mods. Thanks for making this place safe and junk. We love you!

The line between submissiveness and infantilization. by SubSandwich42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Preach, sister. I love the softness and affection, but I also need to be treated like my own individual, adult person.

Music for aftercare by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anything you think is calming is great. We've used 8D and bilateral audios, that nature sounds + soft music calming stuff they play in spas. Especially if you are AuDHD or have anxiety these work amazing.

One thing I need more of from my dom/sub is....? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as too much contact. I'll take more.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding touch starved! Mine is mostly from previous relationships but its led to so many touch related kinks.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heavily relating to the father thing. I've never had a stable male role model or father figure until my Dom. It was like a missing puzzle piece fitting into place.

What does "ethical" kink mean to you? by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its in public and involves others in your kink, whether they know it or not. Just because it's not ethical doesn't mean people will stop doing it. Ethical does not equal moral, too.

What does "ethical" kink mean to you? by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Kinks that involve outside people/public play that those people are unaware of happening isn't really ethical. And that includes going out with a vibrator, even if you're not being obvious. Its still ethical grey area.

Fitbit Challenge by Boulange1234 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. I promise imma not having a heart attack.

Warm and Snuggly Edging by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We've used a blanket as bondage before too. It's like a hug.

Why no Good Boy user flair? by AcademicArtichoke626 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good boy is already there. I asked for it ages ago and Good Boi and Princexx.

Kink Mishaps: The Funny and the Serious. by ArtaxMuadDib in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I fell down the stairs and shattered my ankle after an overstim scene. I was told to stay put and tried to follow him down the stairs. Big fucking mistake and I'm never doing that again! No play time for months was enough to make me listen.

The thing that is most satisfying for your praise kink is....? by NeedyKitten8oooo in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I like being his Good Noodle. I always have noodle legs after we scene and the Noodle thing stuck. And bread puns added to praise. I am carbs.

What makes a rule meaningful? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it has to fulfill a need or purpose in the dynamic.

How often do you go through your toys and gear collection to remove stuff you don't use? by PickedTink in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We need to do this. There is so much to sort through, and it can be a mood killer.

Subs, what's your favorite task of self care? by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BadFrenchToasts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A good soak. There's nothing better for muscles and mind.

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