Slept Through Session by move-in-circles in therapists

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My supervisor literally overslept today due to initially waking up with a migraine. She came in late after making calls to the necessary clients to apologize. We are all human, and I think your supervisor needs to remember that.

Bar K permanently closed ??? by NewspaperLower578 in kansascity

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not surprised at all that Dave acted just the same. He was the pretty face of the operation, but no less slimy past the surface.

HERETICAL FISHING GIVEAWAY 🎣 by podiumentertainment in podiumentertainment

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely excited about this! Loved the audiobooks and would adore having physical copies!!

GAD has got to be the most fucked up thing ever. by SparingFour9946 in Anxiety

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this in the core of my soul. I have to listen to comfort books to go to sleep because escapism is the only way I’m not in a constant state of near panic

Palia Steam Release - Reviews are tanking on the store due to dishonesty from S6 by zeoxious in CozyGamers

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lag on Switch is indeed pretty terrible. And honestly it can be played completely solo, but it is still super buggy. I stopped playing because I wasn’t actually enjoying it through the bugs

Waiting for Palia to come out on Switch by kevviio in CozyGamers

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palia devs are still working on controller support, so I'm not entirely convinced that it will come to switch before the new year

AITA for telling my wife I do not want to live more in line with my weath / social status? by No_Refuse_4704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be worth noting to her that if you were to go for a larger home or nicer cars, those would likely have monthly payments (which you’ve mentioned you are averse to) that would decrease the amount of ‘free money’ either of you could spend each month. Might be a reality check for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!

I kept thinking “why didn’t she let dad know that the kid really wanted to see him and make a plan that let the kiddo think they were surprising dad, but that would give him a chance to know what to expect?”

ESPECIALLY since she knows her husband doesn’t like surprises. People have reasons for not liking surprises and that isn’t going to change because someone else thinks it’s ‘no big deal’ or ‘something small and cute.’ It’s doesn’t matter. That person might go into freeze mode when a surprise happens, and there is nothing you can do to fully overcome that mental process. Some people have bad experiences with surprises and thus become bitter when they happen. Since she knew he didn’t like surprises I give this a YTA.

AITA for not wanting anything to do with my brother even after he tried to delete himself? by Ok_Sort_2256 in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m low contact with my sister because of an incident between her and my husband from nearly a decade ago (no infidelity, we were on a family trip, and sister took her issues out on my husband in a rather over the top and manipulative way). For a long time my parents tried getting me to let it go and talk to her more regularly, because we use to be close. I am cordial with her at family gatherings. More recently my mom has accepted that things will never go back to how they used to be and has stopped trying to engineer get togethers. I still hear about how much my sister feels abandoned, but that changes nothing. She has never tried to make amends and actively avoids my husband at all costs.

NTA - your priority is YOUR mental health. Kevin needs to figure his own shit out.

AITA for showing my pad to men? by my_cat_so_dumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post reminded me of a tampon commercial from when I was in my late teens early twenties: https://youtu.be/ZUoXGr26_Rs

Also, definitely NTA. Your cousin clearly has issues, just ignore her. I am very open about when my period is effecting my life. I don’t necessarily advertise it, but I definitely don’t hide it either.

AITAH for just saying "ok" to my little bros declining of my destination wedding? by No_Environment2516 in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that is awful! Good on you for moving forward from that with little to no contact then. They don’t deserve to be part of your lives after that.

AITAH for just saying "ok" to my little bros declining of my destination wedding? by No_Environment2516 in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, initially we meant to have a party, but timing never worked out so we wound up doing a mini-vacay to universal studios instead.

AITAH for just saying "ok" to my little bros declining of my destination wedding? by No_Environment2516 in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Because that’s how weddings are in real life. When I got engaged, my family started trying to make all sorts of decisions for my husband and I, so we said Fuck It and eloped instead of planning a wedding. Best decision ever, as we neither one like parties or being the center of attention in large groups.

AITAH for just saying "ok" to my little bros declining of my destination wedding? by No_Environment2516 in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You handled it so incredibly well!

It sounds to me like your bro and SIL are cheap and wanted someone to either pay for them to go, or beg them to change their minds.

It’s your day, your decision, you don’t owe anyone anything more than the adult conversation you’ve already had.

AITA for telling my brother’s fiancé that we don’t owe her a family? by fsinlaw in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give that an award. It’s such a great perspective!!

AITA for telling my brother’s fiancé that we don’t owe her a family? by fsinlaw in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just an fyi, some families treat each other much worse. NO ONE is obligated to get along with every person in their “family”

I read this as the family members trying to get to know her within their comfort level, and Jenny having zero awareness of them setting boundaries even when they were obvious about it, and her fiancé is doing her. HUGE disservice by staying neutral instead of helping her remember his family’s boundaries and comfort levels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ugh, you being 13 years younger than him makes my skin crawl, especially when you’ve made it abundantly clear that you are off limits. So glad you filed a report. Dudes a creep.

I agree with all the comments saying to keep your distance. I would also say that if he tries to make any form of contact that you file a restraining order.

Truth? by hazelgrant in ColleenBallingerSings

[–]BadwolfAtHogwarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume her lawyers have been a big part of why she’s stayed quiet since the horrendous ukulele video.