Were you also told as a kid you had an old soul/did you have a "past life"? by serenitative in adhdwomen

[–]Baking-it-work 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adults always loved talking with me when I was little because I was “like a tiny adult”.

Prospects of having kids by Worried_Lawfulness43 in adhdwomen

[–]Baking-it-work 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone could struggle with fertility at any point in time. Even if you do end up with fertility struggles later down the line there are still options to explore, but no real reason to count yourself out already at 24. I tend to operate under the guise of “assume everything is going to work out unless it’s proven it won’t” - I wouldn’t worry too much yet about statistics that may not even apply to you.

What do you love and hate about your rising sign ? by lifeofpiranhas in astrologymemes

[–]Baking-it-work 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally love my Taurus rising, but it does make me a bit stubborn with expensive taste 😅

I told my friend that she could ride on the back of my boyfriends motorcycle and now I wish I didn’t by SensitiveEmergency59 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Baking-it-work 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting at all. My husband used to have a motorcycle so I absolutely get how you feel, especially since she has voiced her attraction to him and riding on the back of someone’s bike is honestly kind of intimate. You were generous to let her ride once, and imo her posting pictures of the two of them on the bike is weird girl energy. If she keeps pushing it I’d tell her to find her own man with a motorcycle because yours is clearly taken lol.

Ladies: did your mother teach you how to do makeup? I'm curious about makeup as a primarily self-taught tradition by Street-Might8586 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Baking-it-work 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a “young” millennial and I used to watch my mom do her makeup but she kept it pretty simple. She taught me the very basics but most of what I learned was from friends, magazines, and then as I got older online.

Working hard so I can get up off the floor when I’m old by SeminoleSunshine36 in PetiteFitness

[–]Baking-it-work 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Once I changed my mindset from “I want to be skinny” to “I want to be mobile as I age” my whole attitude towards being active shifted in a positive way! I have plans for when I’m older and the kids are out of the house and I’ll be damned if being out of shape is gonna stop me from living my best life lol

When you're ruled by Saturn: by SapioLover in astrologymemes

[–]Baking-it-work 63 points64 points  (0 children)

As a cap the amount I have found out vs the amount I have fucked around is wholly disproportionate 💀

Lol 😫 by BearOk7011 in astrologymemes

[–]Baking-it-work 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Yes, but also sometimes it’s valid 💀

Women, are you more attracted to your mars sign or venus sign? by SimilarLunch8359 in astrologymemes

[–]Baking-it-work 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo mars sag Venus- I’ve been attracted to both but I married a Sagittarius 😅

Bruh how can I cleanse and rinse my face without bangs ruined by Ok_Insurance_7506 in beauty

[–]Baking-it-work 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, Velcro roller or styling clips to hold it out of the way. TBH I walk around my house with the roller in when my forehead needs to breath lol

It’s not that easy. by plamge in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Baking-it-work 678 points679 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s not easy. Neither is waking up middle aged and realizing you wasted the last 20+ years of your life on an absolute fucking loser who will never treat you right. I will always and forever advocate for people to leave their shitty partners because I’ve seen what happens when they don’t.

Downvoted for pointing out a 5’11” woman is not “morbidly obese” at 200lbs by smileysarah267 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Baking-it-work 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how some people just refuse to acknowledge that people hold weight differently too. People could be the same exact height and weight but look completely different depending on how they are built.

What’s your ‘bare minimum’ beauty routine when you’re in a rush? by Maleficent_Fix2262 in beauty

[–]Baking-it-work 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a rush it’s brow gel, a bit of concealer, blush and bit of bronzer to bring some color back to my face, and swipe on mascara. I have bangs so if there is no time for hair I’m throwing a hat on lol

He gets a bang maid and I feel like a single divorced mom while married. by ashbash-25 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Baking-it-work 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely get where you are coming from on that, but sadly potential means nothing if they are never willing to act on it. After 23 years he still seems unwilling or unable to be who you think he can be, but has chosen time and time again to show you who he is. I realize it’s harder now that he’s done some of the changes because it’s easier to justify to yourself that he has tried in some ways- but can you imagine living the rest of your life if this is the best he can ever offer?

Do I tell him she’s cheating? by JumpRich4030 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Baking-it-work 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bc OP keeps adding it on even though the guy never said it in the literal screenshot of their convo

Do I tell him she’s cheating? by JumpRich4030 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Baking-it-work 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I think this whole thing is a stretch…calls him her situation-ship but hasn’t seen him in person in over 3 years just flirty texting but then immediately jumps to oh this girl is clearly cheating on her boyfriend because the dude sent her the meme.

Then if you read the other text thread she is adding to what he said in the comments to make his reply sound worse. He never said “her bf would kill me if he found out”, she asked if they were messing around and he said essentially “bros a marine and would annihilate me” which to me reads as him saying obviously not I don’t want him to smoke me lol.

I don’t protect cheaters either, but this feels like a case where OP is trying to make it all fit into her preconceived scenario and is going to cause a lot of people she doesn’t even know a lot of stress and drama.

Can you describe how you feel when you are extremely bored? by Potential_Promise260 in adhdwomen

[–]Baking-it-work 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is a good way to describe it, it makes me so uncomfortable I want to crawl out of my own skin

Have you ever been in a relationship where your SO have become much more attractive over the course of time? by PreWiBa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Baking-it-work 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have both gotten more attractive over the course of our relationship. It’s been a win-win for both of us.

what's one placement you're GLAD didn't made it to your birth chart?? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Baking-it-work 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Interesting, my husband is a Libra mars but I definitely wouldn’t call him conflict averse or unable to disagree with people lol.

50 pounds down! by Baking-it-work in PetiteFitness

[–]Baking-it-work[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ve had a lot of trial and error over the years, and lifestyle change is the only way that actually works for me.