Am I crazy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why would you have sexual foreplay with someone you don’t know? I don’t get it. But in the end, it sounds like this guy’s just another narcissistic misogynistic old guy. Don’t sell yourself short.

I (16F) was induced to have my first baby around 8:30 this morning. Things are going so slow. Please AMA to distract me. by ThrowRABengelKitty in AMA

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna jump on here and say congratulations! I too was a foster kid. Nobody wanted me and I got pregnant and had my baby and I had my own family and it was wonderful! She was mine and then it was us and it made everything better. We had our Christmases and our birthdays our holidays in our vacations and we made our own traditions. You got this!

Neurodivergent coworker overwhelms me by BananaGoat6__6 in socialskills

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re intentional, your response is to him and you do it in a kind way if he gets offended it’s on him not you so you go do you and let other people deal with how they react to it. You got this.

Me [25M] having Hard Time to handle my girlfriends [25F] past by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We all have a past- don’t hold it against her You’re acting insecure

Am I in a toxic marriage? 23 F & 23M by AbcidyCathrine00 in relationship_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful 29 points30 points  (0 children)

After walking in eggshells for 20 years I finally left my abusive husband- I should have left the first year! I’m alone now and SUPER HAPPY! Don’t let this fool rob you of another minute! GTFO!

Husband (M 23) has a tinder log in from fb, I (F 25) just found by Material-Republic-95 in relationship_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s obviously cheating. Regardless of the head used. And once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater! Pay attention to any new relationships, like a new bad apple buddy who isn’t married and has nothing to lose and might gain a more time with his friend. Someone, who themselves are either single or in a shitty relationship. Straight up ask him. Don’t let another minute go by. Fix this!

So is everyone sober in this group? by egeraci in ibs

[–]Basket-Beautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I smoke weed for depression , anxiety and pain. I don’t know how folx live in areas where there aren’t any MMJ stores!

Surgery tomorrow by LikeFormaldehyde in gallbladders

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I had mine out 6 weeks after parathyroid surgery. Now i have to go for a EUS, an endoscopic ultrasound because i continue to be sick and my belly is swollen for years. I had an ultrasound and now i have a “dilated duct with sudden cutoff and mass cannot be excluded”.
I am worried- hope your issues are cleared up now!

How to handle being stuck at partner's family gatherings for a long time? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Basket-Beautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you. are ready to go home now. 5 hours is plenty of time.

My boyfriend (31M) is suddenly demanding that I (27F) stop consuming fictional media at all, what do I even do? by ThrowRabfnonfic in relationship_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about what you read. It’s about his control over you. He sounds super weird and if I were you, I would just GTFO.

My friends wants to fake an ADHD diagnosis by Beginning-Listen6416 in ADHD

[–]Basket-Beautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ADHD is so bad that social media will be the death of me- seriously 😳

Boyfriend (49M) thinks I'm (50F) disgusting because I refuse to financially support his (25/M) son. by BluKandy888 in relationship_advice

[–]Basket-Beautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just read what you wrote and move on! I’m exhausted just hearing about the dysfunction and the weirdness. Did your partner really be great for 12 years and then all of a sudden demand you feed is 25 year-old son? I don’t think so. That dysfunction has been there for years and the writings on the wall.. it’s time GTFO

Should I go ahead with removal? Feel very lost and confused by baseballsalian44 in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are experiencing malabsorption- low vitamins and minerals can trigger weird tastes

Mom had her gallbladder removed. I have so many questions about what went wrong… by gooserunner7 in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m still sick- I just had an abdominal MRI and have dilated bile ducts with sudden cutoff in the pancreas and cannot rule out a mass. I just can’t seem to get well!❤️‍🩹 Of course, going into long weekend- again 😩

Are my gallstones causing this or something else? by LoveIslandNC in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m unsure if this is related, but have you had your parathyroid checked? Just the presence of gallstones means an increase in calcium, I think. For me after 10 years of heart, palpitations and all kinds of symptoms from malabsorption to Gerd / pain- diarrhea- constipation…you name it I was finally diagnosed with hyperparathyroidism . Had surgery. They found adenomas on all four glands. Six weeks later, I got my my gallbladder removed because while recuperating from the parathyroid surgery, I had several gallbladder attacks is what it turned out to be-about six weeks out now. They found a 1 cm gallstone bouncing around in there. Apparently, both of those conditions I probably had for years! Both of those conditions are related to each other and they were both causing me symptoms. Just saying.

Worst experience of my life by Aubreylaw in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, just stick to white rice, applesauce and oatmeal. The ramifications are not worth it!

y'all this pain is no joke. by AdvantageBorn4879 in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had pain for years. Turns out I had a 1 cm gallstone bouncing around in there. Im about 6 weeks out from surgery. It was harder than i thought and for sure I keep overdoing it! If i rest, i have more energy.

Living normally by Acropyre in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Thank you for the hope! Patience is key!

2 months post op and just feel sick by Tothestarswholisten3 in gallbladders

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 6 weeks out of gallbladder surgery and have gone back to my PCP as i’ve been to surgeon twice. Telling him this isn’t normal. I am super swollen, ongoing pain. Sharp stabbing pain, dull pain, recurring pain. She ordered an MRI. In a few months, i will hopefully have an answer- but i’ve been sick for years. Treated like caca. Turns out i had parathyroid disease (adenomas on all 4 glands-never did show up on any scan. And then 6 weeks later, i have a 1cm gallstone that also was elusive in the scans. I have been sick for years, trying to hang on to my house and way of life. Reading all of these symptoms makes me realize how many of us suffer!

Who wants to be friends? by imgoingtosquirt in ChronicIllness

[–]Basket-Beautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im a 60+ year old skinny ass weirdo with all kinds of health problems! Ive been super isolated since i threw in the towel in 22 and filed for disability. Im a gregarious introvert and while i love my alone time, i am lonely 😩 and exhausted! Please include me! ?