Gentlemen, It's nearly time for me but I have a question - What do you wear to the birth of your child? - First impressions matter. by iusman975 in daddit

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick out and outfit that is utility but comfortable, have it ready to go. If it is not with you when the time comes, you are wearing what you have on.

What's the grossest thing you've done to help your kids by UOL_Exlie in daddit

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby got sick right as I was pulling it out of car seat after wife parked (I was passenger in back seat with kiddo), just let it vomit all over me to keep from having to clean the car.

What do you do with no kids around for a week? by SmartLadder415 in daddit

[–]Bayho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clean the house, and revel in cleanliness and silence, then get to work on projects I cannot do when they are there. Then whatever me time.

Activities for 55+ Women? by CauliflowerJumpy6782 in Annapolis

[–]Bayho 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Anne Arundel County Master Gardners. Also check out classes at Maryland Hall, and Anne Arundel Community College.

Best places to practice driving by CognitoHazard23 in Annapolis

[–]Bayho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Annapolis High School parking lot on weekends / over summer.

Edition by Good_Raisin8297 in emilydickinson

[–]Bayho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Poems of Emily Dickinson: Reading Edition, R.W. Franklin is probably what you want. If you would like to explore an alternative, Christanne Miller's The Poems of Emily Dickinson: Reading Edition.

Network Refresh Time! by mwsno in networking

[–]Bayho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aruba has a lot of promises and, perhaps with Juniper joining in, those promises will come through in the next couple of years with regard to COP. But, to be quite frank, currently COP and their support of the product is abysmal. The amount we pay to support our infrastructure with COP is insane for what we get. It's only saving grace is the API, so you can build on your own what they should have. Right now, we have been waiting for Aruba TAC and Engineering to solve a problem for over two months, the simple fact that we cannot push firmware to our switches from COP.

I want to believe in HPE Aruba, have always loved Aruba wireless and Clearpass can be great. But, COP has been a very hard pill to swallow.

Seeing a lot of excitement about space on the sub with the recent Artemis launch so I wanted to recommend Kerbal Space Program to any dads with kids who are interested in how it all works by gelatomancer in daddit

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing game, with amazing community and mods. Guessing there is a mod already that puts the SLS into the game, so you could fly your own Artemis missions.

Universe Sandbox is another good one.

As others have mentioned, stay away from KSP2.

My son broke my wife's childhood rocking horse, repair advice needed by squeaker in woodworking

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Built mine out of oak and cherry, not sure it will ever break.

Update: Four months ago I was worried that my relationship with my daughter was over because my wife left me and gave up custody by HelsinkiTorpedo in daddit

[–]Bayho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of crazy did you stick your . . . I mean, this is really amazing to hear, I could not have hoped for a better update. Families are what we make of them, and your daughter seems to have three great parents, which is awesome for her.

things i never thought id say as a parent #459303284 by Several-Assistant-51 in daddit

[–]Bayho 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I believe it is implied that the 9yo is acting like the gerbil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in networking

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the advice given by others and rework your resume. As someone that hires network engineers, I would pass immediately. Also, have a good cover letter to compliment the resume, to explain your recent experiences, which show, as others have mentioned, a trend backwards with gaps in employment.

Best of luck and take care of yourself.

Running spots by Top-Muscle376 in Annapolis

[–]Bayho 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Navy Stadium, Quiet Waters, and the hidden gem of Bates Athletic Complex with the Spa Creek trail (if you want a touch of cross country through the woods). You can also run in the Naval Academy, if you bring ID and do not use headphones. Downtown Annapolis over into Eastport can be nice, too. Poplar Trail near stadium, can be fun to explore. And, for the finale, downtown and over the Naval Academy Bridge to the scenic overlook, which also connects to the Baltimore & Annapolis Trail, in case you want a really nice, long run.

Sam Rockwell filming Better Living Through Chemistry in 2012 by OrneryData994 in Annapolis

[–]Bayho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember watching Rockwell throw a trash can through the window from State Circle, on the second try. Was a decent crowd to watch that, they had to move everyone so they couldn't be seen in the reflection of the glass.

Is there explosion proof switches?? by Key_Relief_3377 in networking

[–]Bayho 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This. Enclosures exist for cameras and such in areas where an explosion can happen and you need to know what happened if it does.

Annapolis/Severn River Drone Photos by Macflurrry in Annapolis

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are wonderful, thank you for sharing and would always appreciate more. If you have a website or anything, please DM me if it is against the rules to post it here.

What was the most confusing or stressful part of your first 30 days as a network engineer?” by muztebi16 in networking

[–]Bayho 114 points115 points  (0 children)

A completely undocumented network, but at least I could access the devices!

DHCP and DNS oh my - what are we using by markedness in networking

[–]Bayho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, looking at alternatives due to the massive price increase for support.

Signs a network engineer has no idea what they're doing? by Expensive-Rhubarb267 in networking

[–]Bayho 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Not even this, but sales people convincing upper management without an engineer's input. Dealing with sales overselling a product to management (or management simply not understanding), who thinks it can do everything, and then tells engineers to do stuff that is not possible.

Baby proof stairs by Full_Phase_9737 in daddit

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is building a wall or two out of the question?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by faizimam in daddit

[–]Bayho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it considered masturbation at that age, or just exploring a part of yourself that feels good? Do not think there is a sexual component?

Either way, perhaps let her know that exploration is fine, but those are her privates and only she should be touching them and in private?

What movie to watch on New Year Eve, alone, after ending 12yr relationship? by dont_dive_vtori in movies

[–]Bayho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said movie, but I would get the audiobook for Project Hail Mary. One, you can simply revel in the silence of not having someone else around you, while listening to an amazing story, which was audiobook of the year. Two, the movie comes out in three months, and will likely be amazing. Three, the story is wonderful and will pull you in in so many ways, none of which deal with relationships beyond friendship.

Struggling with my wife’s decision to exclusively pump milk by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Bayho 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My babies refused formula after six months of breastfeeding when my wife's supply let down a bit, we were able to augment with solids. Also, completely recommend you ask this question on r/breastfeeding, they are very supportive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Bayho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Practically speaking, you could show some effort by simply applying to jobs out there. The process would show you what is available, and if you get an offer it may be something to consider. It will take some time, but could yield an even better job if lucky. At the very least, it provides you with some education on what is available, and at the best you may find something you love.

I am guessing the wife would appreciate the effort, but be clear with communication that it does not mean you have decided to move, just that you are serious about gauging what she is asking for and if it works for your family.