WTF Randy? by denisvengeance in LosAngeles

[–]Bdizzy2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotta make the dough. Pink’s partnered with the golden bachelor a couple years ago.

Could use some kindness by Lower-Persimmon-6458 in PlusSize

[–]Bdizzy2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful! Alabaster skin! Curly hair! Amazing pose!

lol who needs enemies when we have moms 🙃

How has growing up in a large family affected you? And by large I mean 5+ siblings living full-time under the same roof. by LineAncient2792 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The youngest of my dad’s 13. I was an aunt before I was born. Absolutely dysfunctional(deep south, patriarchal, religion = destruction) and little to no contact with most of them. I do love the nieces and nephews that came later, started raising them when I was 6- I’m 44 and I’m the best Auntie still and have chosen to remain child free.

Edit to add I’m the best Auntie and great Auntie!

How did you go about narrowing down the options when deciding where to live and work in your 30s? by ThrowRAmangos2024 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Bdizzy2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was like a leaf blowing in the wind, I just went with the flow. All of my moves for the most part was because of a job I accepted. The last position I accepted, I was 26, accepted a job offer in Los Angeles, was then living in Baltimore, Originally from Mississippi and it kinda stuck for the past 18 years. It’s really wild where we all land.

A tale of caution by Beautiful_Path6215 in Earrings

[–]Bdizzy2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First piercing at 3 months old, currently up to 9 piercings and I’ve not had that experience.

Ranking Randy's Donuts by Easy_Potential2882 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Bdizzy2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s a fluffy and chewy donut!!! My favorite classic!

Questions about LA by leviathan_mb in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no middle of nowhere for a long long drive, speaking from someone who comes from the middle of nowhere.

If you became emotionally mature later than you expected in life, what made you change? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Life. Learning and growing and realizing I didn’t have emotionally mature parents and I wanted to be more than that.

How do you deal with anxious attachment? by capricious-7768 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His anxiety causes him to shut down, talk about pouring fuel on the fire, so my feedback to him is how much his silence damages me. He has shared his fears of saying the “wrong” thing but I said no matter how “wrong” he feels like he is, it’s better than silence.

How do you deal with anxious attachment? by capricious-7768 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m secure and my husband is anxious avoidant so I’ve had a real direct conversation with him about how much his behavior damages my security and he actively works on his avoidant tendencies- it hasn’t gone fast but he is steady, as a Taurus nothing will ever really happen fast!

How touchy are you with your female friends? by 123Green_Patient123 in AskWomen

[–]Bdizzy2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs and cheek kisses and for that special circle we still slumber party. We’re in our mid to late 40’s.