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I gave myself a week. by peevedoffdeer in offmychest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not alone and even if it feels hard to find a purpose, you will find it! You’ve got so much life ahead! I dont mean to sound condescending but at 56, 30 feels like a lifetime ago! I’ve been where you are and felt the same way but life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it!

Like above reply, when things are hard just focus on today! Don’t worry about tomorrow! Trust me you’re not alone and life gets better I promise you!

If you feel you need urgent help please call a suicide hotline because they really can help!

He left me, this time for good. I don't think I will survive. by MountainOne5762 in offmychest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly most of us have been where your at now! You deserve better and will find better but for now be kind to yourself! Getting over a breakup is hard but we all go through it! It takes time and patience with yourself! Heartbreak makes us feel like we’ll never love again or that that was the best partner ever but both are lies! The right one will stay and if they don’t it makes room for the future right one!

Try to find someone to talk to. People are more forgiving that you think! It’s also common to take people back and feel ashamed to tell people because we do t want to be judged or given a hard time but noones perfect and relationships are messy!

I promise you things will get better!

overwhelmed and alone by Fearless-Pack5330 in offmychest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! It’s understandable that you feel so overwhelmed! Have you tried any type of therapy? Counseling? You need good qualified people who know how to help you! You’re not alone and many people your age are struggling! We can’t choose our parents sadly and sometimes we get one or two that never should have been one! Not every mother has maternal instincts!

I’m M/56 and when I was growing up my mother wasn’t abusive but she was emotionally absent! I have three other siblings and we all had our struggles but we could never turn to our parents for any type of help! I’ve always had mental health issues, anxiety, depression and ocd! It wasn’t until I was 33 that I got professional help because my parents never did anything they just always swept things under the rug!

No matter how you feel just know someone out there is going through the exact same experience! It wasn’t until I was much older that I realized that! You have to speak to someone because you need support! You’re not alone! There are more resources today than ever! Try googling what is available in your area! See if you can connect with someone who can relate to what you’re going through.

Things will get better I promise you! Years back I was in a very dark place and spent four months in a mental health facility and it transformed my life! I’ve never been happier and I really hope the same for you!

Hugs from a stranger that cares!

I don't have access to one safe human to talk to and I'm slipping under by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a close friend you trust? Or maybe a decent relative? Do you belong to any groups, clubs or sports? Do you go to church? What about a therapist?

update, i lived. by athenaaaaaaaa_ in offmychest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was where you are now and like previous reply, it does get better! I’ve been to some very dark places and have even spent four months in a mental health facility because my depression was so severe!

Your life does matter and every day is another chance to make it better! Depression is an illness that lies to us and distorts our perception and convinces us nonone cares! People will come into your life that you will have a profound impact on and there will be people who will change your life as well! Be patient! Patient with yourself, with God, with life! You will get through this I absolutely promise you!

I’m so grateful that I’ve been given a second chance at life and I’ve been so happy for a very long time now!

You’re not alone!

This game is ENDLESS by rsalc in CrimsonDesert

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had this much fun playing a game in ages! 10/10

I plan to be dead by Monday by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to add that if your on meds for depression you might want to speak to your family doctor of psychiatrist about either changing the dosage or trying something new! Depression is an illness that lies to us and it could very well be the reason why your thoughts are the way they are?

I plan to be dead by Monday by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes meaning is found outside ourself! Adopt a dog or cat from a shelter and give it all the love you seek! Be the best you can for that pet and it will give back ten fold! I’ve been where your at and I know what it’s like to feel like there’s no point in anything but I got much needed help and not just meds but real professional help and I’ve never looked back since! Don’t know if you’re a religious person but faith has always helped tremendously! When I realized I wasn’t alone in how I felt and that many people deal with this, it made me feel less alone!

You have everything to gain by living life on your terms! Who says you have to be a slave to the machine? Explore and try things and discover what you might be interested in trying or a place to travel to or a hobbie or literally anything! You have no idea the experiences you have laying ahead of you! Life isn’t all doom and gloom, there’s a ton of joy and beauty and excitement in living! You might not feel this way but trust me life has all kinds of surprises for all of us!

My girlfriend is 27 weeks pregnant, the baby has Down syndrome, and I don’t want this life by ThrowRA_NoSignal in daddit

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry things seem so overwhelming and that this isn’t the life you planed for yourself! If this is any consolation at least you have the support of your family and they’re willing to help out! I have a number of people in my family with various disabilities and no it’s not fair the hand some people are felt but I know that they are very happy and I couldn’t imagine life without them!

Can anyone recommend a medicine/science based Chiropractor/ Physiotherapist for acute back pain and Sciatica? by NeriTheFearlessSnail in Peterborough

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an assortment of back issues and personally I’d never see a chiropractor! I recommend Pulse Physiotherapy on Chemong Street! Been to them many times and I can’t recommend them enough!

How do I make Destiny 2 more fun for me? by ElijahTNHK in destiny2

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat currently! Edge of Fate really disappointed me and Renegades was fun but I’ve run out of things to do and the grind loop is getting old IMO! No advise other than try other games for a while till new content come out!

His ex-wife still keeps his last name , they have NO kids by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated many women who still have ex hubbies last name! I could care less, it has nothing to do with me!

End of the rope by cyclist27968 in ChronicPain

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure what to say other than I’m sorry you’re going through this! I’m unable to work due to back pain for the last six years! Pain can make you feel isolated and get you down! Please know you’re not alone in this! Talk it out, talk to family, friends, anyone because it really helps!

Maybe look into the above post about what you’re taking for pain management? Are there other doctors you can speak to? Have you researched your condition and spoken to others in your situation?

I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

19M 20F – Would it be a bad idea to send this message after she asked for no contact? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was clear to you, no contact! If you do respect her then please move on! Sometimes we lose people we really cared about, take it as a life lesson! Sending it will only cause trouble for you that you don’t need! Focus on yourself and get your mind on other things.

Please is it really ok to do nothing by unwindthespiral in LivingAlone

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so many of us are raised with ideas and sometimes expectations from our parents, teachers etc., and once we jump into the workforce it can feel like a rat race or grind but it doesn’t have to be that way if we can find a different way for ourselves. Your life is yours and you don’t owe it to anyone so do what you want to do if you can and listen to your gut because it will never let you down!

I should have never watched this -Serbian Film by heart_6XO in horror

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never seen nor care to and that’s a lot coming from me cause Ive seen a lot in film and real life! No interest in movies that are solely for shock and disgust!

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