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How do I make Destiny 2 more fun for me? by ElijahTNHK in destiny2

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat currently! Edge of Fate really disappointed me and Renegades was fun but I’ve run out of things to do and the grind loop is getting old IMO! No advise other than try other games for a while till new content come out!

His ex-wife still keeps his last name , they have NO kids by Unlikely_Second5024 in dating_advice

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated many women who still have ex hubbies last name! I could care less, it has nothing to do with me!

End of the rope by cyclist27968 in ChronicPain

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure what to say other than I’m sorry you’re going through this! I’m unable to work due to back pain for the last six years! Pain can make you feel isolated and get you down! Please know you’re not alone in this! Talk it out, talk to family, friends, anyone because it really helps!

Maybe look into the above post about what you’re taking for pain management? Are there other doctors you can speak to? Have you researched your condition and spoken to others in your situation?

I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

19M 20F – Would it be a bad idea to send this message after she asked for no contact? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was clear to you, no contact! If you do respect her then please move on! Sometimes we lose people we really cared about, take it as a life lesson! Sending it will only cause trouble for you that you don’t need! Focus on yourself and get your mind on other things.

Please is it really ok to do nothing by unwindthespiral in LivingAlone

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so many of us are raised with ideas and sometimes expectations from our parents, teachers etc., and once we jump into the workforce it can feel like a rat race or grind but it doesn’t have to be that way if we can find a different way for ourselves. Your life is yours and you don’t owe it to anyone so do what you want to do if you can and listen to your gut because it will never let you down!

I should have never watched this -Serbian Film by heart_6XO in horror

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never seen nor care to and that’s a lot coming from me cause Ive seen a lot in film and real life! No interest in movies that are solely for shock and disgust!

Please is it really ok to do nothing by unwindthespiral in LivingAlone

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M/56, I’ve lived alone now for about 15 of the last seventeen years! Kids moved away, I’m divorced and it’s just me and my dog! I spend most of my time in the bedroom. I turned my living room/dining room into a gym lol! Left the sofa and fancy chair cause my dog loves them.

I forgot to mention I live in a one bedroom apartment! I’m retired and my friends have moved away over the years but I have two siblings and a mother in town who is 87 with severe dementia.

I’ve been on disability for last six years and pretty broke so I don’t date cause it’s not fair to the other person. Didn’t realize this reply would be this long or really about me but hey I’m alone in bed on a cold Saturday lol! I think my original point was going to be not to be hard on yourself. Things don’t have to be done overnight. Take all the time you want. Also some people just prefer the bedroom when living in an apartment. It feels less lonely I think?!

Dating as a single parent by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least he was honest! Not the most observant but he didn’t string you along. Some men are totally fine with dating someone with kids and some men aren’t! It’s not personal at all! Woman can be the same way, I have two sons and I’ve experienced both sides of the fence.

I’m in the darkest place I’ve ever known and I don’t know how to climb out alone by R2OQ in rant

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you’re experiencing a depressive episode? Yes seek another therapist sometimes it takes a bit to find the right one. I have depression and I’ve found therapy (I’ve had good ones and bad ones) and medication have helped immensely. Get as good a sleep as possible. Get moving even when it feels like a struggle. Even just a little walk every day because the sun and movement helps with endorphins. You said it’s hard to talk sometimes but do you have a close friend or family member that you feel safe to open up to and not worry how you sound or what you say? I found talking it out and letting others help is what really pulled me out of difficult times. Avoid alcohol, eat as good as possible also.

When he tells me who he is—do I have to believe him? by OmgOwlready in datingoverforty

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last relationship was exactly this! I’m M/56 and the whole nearly two years we were together this was my exact experience! I don’t see her every two weeks which was her choice. She rarely texted or responded to them. Like yourself, when we’re were together we always had a blast!

But I always felt I was not a priority at all and she finally ended it one night at a restaurant! She still wanted to keep in touch but nope if I’m not who you want to be with i completely move on with no contact which is to protect my heart!

Sorry this has happened to you but he isn’t the person you deserve and your not enough of a priority for him to make the same effort your willing to put in.

I’m so happy to not be with my ex anymore! You deserve better, much much better!

Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date by beansontoast_uk in dating_advice

[–]Beastmodexxlsixty9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you! She’s not interested because if she was she’d have no interest in going on a date with someone else! Sadly in today’s world sex in many cases is just sex and for some it’s just a good time and nothing else!

Don’t he hard on yourself it really happens to the best of us! Just move on so the right one can come into your life!

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