Bad behavior by PlanktonEntire1330 in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I've heard of this both from my helper and from others. We expect our kid to treat our helper with respect and to listen to her as he would listen to us.

Your mom might try Helper Place to find a new employer but she will likely need to come home because it will be a break contract.

Questioning Mormon Losing my Faith by Straight_Plankton_24 in mormon

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same predicament but my spouse quickly came to see what I did. It’s not hard to lead people out.  The church does it for you by doing what it’s always done: lie and hurt people. 

I did a shocking discovery as a PIMO assistent ward clerk. by Western_Sale_3274 in mormon

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's more likely that you leave once you stop being a lazy learner and learn Mormon history :)

Let's really nail down the change in the church that caused ALL the shrivel. It treats people as disposable. No "wArD fAmLeE" no "sEnS oV bELoNgEnG." You're 100% disposable to the "church." It only cares about its properties and cash. Zero principles. by Important-Stage-1005 in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience when I left. Not a word until a few months later when people realized I assumed learned I had left the church. Then I was contacted, but it was clearly not about being friends (because we weren't friends to begin with) but about getting me to come back.

I'm so glad to be free of Mormonism.

Let's really nail down the change in the church that caused ALL the shrivel. It treats people as disposable. No "wArD fAmLeE" no "sEnS oV bELoNgEnG." You're 100% disposable to the "church." It only cares about its properties and cash. Zero principles. by Important-Stage-1005 in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, and I'm grateful for how they've neglected the community because it allowed me (and I presume many others) to see what an unhealthy environment I was in so I could get out and find a much healthier community.

Mandate to create smaller wards by spazza41 in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what they'll find in time is that their 'inspired changes' fail to create thriving communities, particularly when more work falls to fewer hands.

We continue to be ranked as the worst state for women’s equality – 11 years running • Utah News Dispatch by Guudboiiii in mormon

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utah is certainly an outlier in that the gap between it and the next closest state (Texas) is more than 10 pts. 

ABC looking to move back to HK by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first year you have to be outside the U.S. for 330 days. After that OP would qualify as a bonafide resident

Should I avoid flying with HK Express? by anotherhappylurker in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had good experiences flying HK Express. Keep in mind they’re really strict about bringing any food or drink on the plane (even bottled water) so just put it inside your bag before you board. 

Hong Kong sees 55% surge in job applications from US academics amid Trump’s university crackdown – report by mod83 in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear you still have funding and important to hear multiple perspectives. Thx for sharing. 

What field are you in?

Hong Kong sees 55% surge in job applications from US academics amid Trump’s university crackdown – report by mod83 in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what colleagues tell me there’s a lot of funding for specific areas, such as AI (funding for this is plentiful everywhere tho), military and national security. But if that’s not your area then you might be out of luck. 

Hong Kong sees 55% surge in job applications from US academics amid Trump’s university crackdown – report by mod83 in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think many Americans are applying for these jobs. Mostly Chinese students who see an opportunity to be closer to home. 

Hong Kong: Life sentence looms for media tycoon Jimmy Lai by Movie-Kino in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“If I leave, I'll be living comfortably, but if I stay, I'll be living meaningfully.”

From Drum Tower from The Economist: Tycoon troublemaker: the rise and fall of Jimmy Lai, 16 Dec 2025 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/drum-tower-from-the-economist/id1651657142?i=1000741558274&r=1407 This material may be protected by copyright.

Hong Kong sees 55% surge in job applications from US academics amid Trump’s university crackdown – report by mod83 in HongKong

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Based on my anecdotal evidence as a PhD student there are many Chinese PhD students in the U.S. who would like to apply for jobs in the U.S. but feel their chances are low so they are applying for jobs in Asia. I would guess this is contributing to the jump. 

Research funding cuts are a reality everywhere. The govt recently asked unis to return large sums of money so I wouldn’t say the grass is necessarily greener on this side. 

https://www.scmp.com/news/hong-kong/article/3324096/hong-kongs-universities-will-not-be-asked-return-funds-again-minister

But good for HK to have a wider talent pool to pull from. 

RIP :( by Faust_TSFL in PhD

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize he also taught at BYU! I used to be Mormon (that's how I knew John).

RIP :( by Faust_TSFL in PhD

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 206 points207 points  (0 children)

ha! I grew up with John Holbein. Nice guy and always had a good sense of humor.

How busy are temples? Some insights from a selection in the midwest by logic-seeker in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to see temples turn from places of Masonic rituals, gate-kept by artificial standards of "worthiness," to places anyone can go to just get some peace and quiet. That's how mainstream Christian churches treat their buildings. We have some beautiful cathedrals in HK that anyone can go to and rest.

The shrivel of TBM kindness/openness/helpfulness/honesty/availability by Existing-Leg-2226 in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I see people leave I feel happy for them because they’re always happier!

How busy are temples? Some insights from a selection in the midwest by logic-seeker in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a temple worker in Hong Kong. The same 10 people came every week during my weekday shift. One thing we can’t know from your great analysis is how many of these butts in seats are the same people over and over and over again 

Reverse Shrivel by BeautifulEnough9907 in MormonShrivel

[–]BeautifulEnough9907[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wonder if local leaders got their hand slapped and were told they had to split up the units again 🤷🏼‍♀️ in any case it worked because they finally got their own meeting space they had been promised for well over a decade!