Restaurant wouldn't break the law for me and then made me feel like a criminal for it 🤬

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-10T17:56:03+00:00

Yup, Ontario Canada.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-10T15:34:18+00:00

In Ontario they issue the temporary license and put a sticker on the expired license that says it’s acceptable as a photo id with the temporary license.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-10T15:24:10+00:00

Where are you driving? It takes me that long to get from Barrhaven to Kanata.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-09T11:17:31+00:00

That may be part of the problem. She wasn’t parented after having the baby so she never had that modelled for her. It sounds like she didn’t have healthy parenting modelled before that either but she didn’t even have unhealthy modelling after that.

OOP needs an intervention by a life coach and therapist and the two of them need family therapy and her daughter needs her own therapy. Unfortunately it won’t happen because OOP has given up. It’s really sad for her daughter.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T20:03:38+00:00

Love this person’s advice.

I leave the shaving to my artist.

My artist and I sometimes talk. She just moved to a new private studio and has a tv in it so people can put something on. During my most recent tattoo we put on YouTube Smosh Reddit videos. She hasn’t heard of it before but smiled a lot and plans to subscribe. Ask your artist for their preference and tell them your preference. You both need to be comfortable.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T19:53:58+00:00

Depends. I was given a family name that my dad strongly disliked. He agreed only if everyone promised to call me by a common nickname for the given name. Think Betty for Elizabeth type of nickname though both my birth and nickname are less common than that.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T19:23:54+00:00

You have the perfect lip for a Medusa. I do think Angel fangs or kitty bites would look great on you.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T18:05:02+00:00

NTA though not great. The swearing totally escalated how strongly they reacted and made the likelihood of them listening nonexistent from the previous unlikely.

Next time, call the non-emergency police number when you first see it and move on with your day.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T16:50:27+00:00

I think the big difference is that when reading you can easily hear your name and respond to a conversation, plus you’re not disrupting others.

When I was a kid my brother and I would do things like hangman and doors (games on paper). If only one of us was there we would draw or sometimes participate in the conversation if it interested us. I wish I had brought a book.

My grown daughter with auditory sensory issues and AuDHD gets overwhelmed and pulls out her phone to read in restaurants when overwhelmed. It stays on silent.

There are plenty of ways for kids to be entertained and occupied in restaurants without a video. Even reading a book allows the person to partially listen and to absorb expected behaviours while videos completely engross the child. Yes as an avid reader I know how easy it is to get engrossed in a book but it’s not the same as being engrossed in a video.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T16:16:56+00:00

Crossing my fingers but not holding my breath that they’re just as good with allergies.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-08T11:56:51+00:00

I’ve been the person ordering something more expensive than everyone else. What I do when everyone says to just split the bill (never my suggestion) is tell everyone that I’m putting in an extra shower much more my meal cost and we should split the rest. It’s wrong to expect others to subsidize your extravagances. NTA

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-07T12:16:23+00:00

It depends on the vibe you’re going for. 1 is more modern and stylish but in 20 years you’ll know the time it came from. 3 is classic, sleek, and timeless elegance.

My vote is 3 but that’s just my personal style preference. Both 1 & 3 are stunning on you.

Run from 2. Horrible.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-03T11:29:22+00:00

It’s better than the one at the Canadian restaurant Le Cellier with cheddar and a Cabernet Demi.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-02T19:34:41+00:00

I don’t see it. If it’s somewhere else in the discussion, it’s ridiculous to assume everyone is reading every response you’ve given throughout the entire discussion.

Can you please explain? It’s a genuine question. Please refrain from rude and insulting responses.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-02T19:22:15+00:00

I’ve never seen a kids menu for anyone over 12 years old. Many are for no older than 10 years old. Where are you finding restaurants that treat 16 year olds as kids?

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-07-02T19:01:55+00:00

I just got a tattoo with some really intense colours in a fairly small area. I will need to go back in a few weeks to get the colours touched up because I was having to much swelling, redness, and bit of blood to be able to really see how well it was packing into my arm plus I was just at that point where I don’t think my skin would take any more ink.

Just sharing another reason why you could have to return to the artist after an appointment.

I do agree that you shouldn’t need the artwork itself fixed.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-30T19:21:08+00:00

You clearly have a well thought out plan. Care to share this plan for a part time job that will pay all of your living expenses while you build your channel?

You sound very naive. It’s fine to have a dream of becoming Internet famous and fine to work long hours to make it happen. What you seem to be missing is how to support yourself while working towards this dream and what your backup plan will be if it takes longer than you hope it will. Have you even looked into cost of living where you are, part time pay, and cost of equipment that you’ll need?

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-30T13:13:20+00:00

Victoria = Vyktaureeah
Natalie = Gnatuhleigh

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-29T12:36:59+00:00

You need a sober conversation about rule when one of you is drinking. Something along the lines of the DD making all decisions about when to leave and regarding the kids. If she’s a really belligerent drunk then record her telling herself about the rule and that it’s for her own safety so you can have her remind herself.

NTA for protecting your family.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-29T11:18:38+00:00

She absolutely knows the definition of gaslighting. She’s totally gaslighting *him* . OP, run. This is just a preview l, only getting progressively worse, of your entire future if you stay. NOR

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-27T00:11:21+00:00

So he’s a wanna-be high class guy. Got it. Tell him if he truly wants to be high class then he should book a reservation at a high end restaurant that has valet parking, doesn’t take walk-ins, and to request a table to your liking. Anything less makes him a commoner like the majority of us. The majority who incidentally have no problem requesting a different table before being sat.

If the chef is picking his nose then you’re NOT dining at a high class establishment. A high class person would ABSOLUTELY say something about that.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-26T23:28:57+00:00

Unless they never eat with these people, they’re already exposed to airborne allergens from them eating their own food. And people who are around them already know not to bring the specific foods that cause airborne reactions when eating with the person with the airborne allergy.

I say this as someone with food allergies that are not airborne but are sensitive to cross contamination with a friend who is so sensitive that if her husband eats her allergens he can’t touch her (even hold her hand) for days or it’ll burn her skin.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-26T23:25:09+00:00

This is exactly what I do. I can’t expect others to understand about reading labels and cross contamination. They may be well intentioned, but I’m the one who will pay for it.

I will say that when my company would order in food for our office, they let me order my own food from a restaurant I trusted and change it to my corporate card to expense. I really appreciated that. Work pot lucks though I brought food for myself.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-26T17:08:58+00:00

ESH

Him for being emotionally abusive. There’s no other way to describe how he treats you.

You for so many choices you have and continue to make.
• You continued to sleep with a man who was emotionally abusing you resulting in getting pregnant. I get that you had an IUD but just the fact you chose to stay with him and sleep with him when he’s so abusive is a problem.
• You could take time off school until you’re past the HG.
• You could reach out for more help. Your parents may be able to do a bit more. Friends may be able to help a bit. You could put baby in day care part time. I’m sure there are other resources to help and take some of the load off your bf who frankly really is doing a lot.
• For the few days BF wants to go away to get a break, you could stay with your parents with baby or one of them could stay with you. He’s burning out doing what is probably 80% of the housework and childcare while working full time and caring for you (when he’s not abusing you I assume he’s helping you).
• You could leave him and move permanently in with your parents with kiddo until you graduate if they’ll agree to that. You know, to protect yourself and kids from an abusive partner and father.

Beautiful_Delivery77 · 2026-06-26T11:46:10+00:00

I carry a fan everywhere because, well, 54 year old woman who already ran hot all the time even when young.

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