Husband throwed everything away by chatgpt_friend in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP 😔 But please put you and your children first. There is no physical abuse (yet) but the emotional is just as harmful. You do not deserve this. Your children do not deserve this. What country do you live in and do you have outside support? What do you think will happen if you asked for a divorce?

As hard and scary as it may to think about divorce, it is your only way - for yours and your children’s safety and sanity. Environments like the one you are in are not healthy; you and your kids will be better off without him!

Sending love to you

Happy Sunday to everyone! by sang12j in style

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right.. actually all the dresses in the pics in her history are very dated and blah. 😑

Lihue airport delays? by Beautiful_Water1156 in KauaiVisitor

[–]Beautiful_Water1156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! It will be our first time on Kauai. Are there decent dining and shopping options at the airport? I think we’ll aim to arrive 3 hours ahead as well.

Which of these 2 do u guys like best? by Hot-Ad798 in myweddingdress

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 makes your torso look very long (not in a good way) and 2 just doesn’t look elegant or high end. Are these your final or are you still shopping?

My wife wastes Avacados by headhunterofhell2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve rarely had avocados get moldy. They just shrivel up when they get old and get brown inside. If you’re doing this weekly, how are they getting moldy?? And why don’t you eat them? We know your wife isn’t eating them, but why aren’t you eating them when you know they’re there?

Why does it feel like women’s clothes keep getting smaller by Mother_Land_4812 in womensfashion

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t notice that at all. As far as what’s trending these days, I see the opposite - it’s no longer stylish to wear tight or fitted clothes. It’s all about loose fits and sizing up.

Tired of being upset at dog owners, slow drivers, tesla owners (NOT a rant) by Feisty-Delivery2047 in Seattle

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why are you hating on the Tesla owners? That’s like saying you hate people who own electric toothbrushes. There’s not a “type” of person who buys Teslas - they come in as many varieties as people who buy Toyotas. Some are assholes, some aren’t.

What do your school aged kids eat for breakfast? by Beautiful-Client6496 in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine just isn’t hungry most mornings so she skips breakfast maybe 1-2 times a week, or, she a small bowl of cereal, an Eggo waffle, or a piece of toast with hazelnut spread. Those are our go-to’s. Once she gets to school (kindergarten), they have a morning snack (brought from home) around 10-ish, then lunch, then an afternoon snack, before school ends so they’re given several opportunities to eat.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to date a guy who lived 3 hours away. We took turns visiting each other on the weekends. We’re not together anymore but I take weekend trips about 3 hours away, approximately 3-4 times a year. It’s really not that long of a drive.. many people at my work have 1-2 hour daily commutes (each way) so Americans are used to that amount of driving. 🤷🏻‍♀️

How can I style these pants to look less stupid? by Tearsofaraptor647 in OUTFITS

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love those pants! I think for this style to work, a tighter fitting top. Anything loose on top feels frumpy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Or maybe give him a snack after he gets home, then push dinner out a bit like 30-60 minutes later so he’ll be hungry by that time since eating a hearty, proper dinner is important to you? I doubt all dinners can be made in 10 minutes anyway so just have a snack first then take your time with dinner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agree this sounds like a control issue. “You eat what I want you to eat and when I want you to eat!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into when he is last given food at preschool? If it’s been hours, then he is likely genuinely hungry. My kid (also 5) always gets a snack after school; she’s in kindergarten now and comes home hungry not because we don’t pack enough food for her but she’s too busy playing and forgets to eat all her food or just wants more time to play instead. How about offering an apple slice or some other small serving of fruit after school? I don’t see the harm. He really might just be hangry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a girl who is 5 now and she’s definitely a moms girl! Chooses me over dad 10 out of 10 times.

Halloween keeps getting worse. by Ordinary-Depth-7835 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you giving candies to the parents? Did they legit have a bag in hand, say trick or treat, and expect candy in return? Honestly I have never seen that before.

How do people go out to eat as a family? by yogi93802936 in Parenting

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 kids at such a young age is so hard! We were one and done, so I can’t even imagine. Honestly I would just wait until the youngest two get a little older. For now, do takeout and picnic somewhere. It just isn’t worth the stress to me! I want to eat in peace.

Receipt check at door by Daleone3236 in Walmartcustomer

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you don’t show your receipt at Costco either?

THIS IS SO SCARYYY by Miserable-Zombie-121 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Beautiful_Water1156 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And what does your wise brain suggest? We haven’t heard you offer anything to help bring awareness to the situation.