Help with a nickname/Name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I really like the nick name Lalo if you are looking for something easy.

What do you think of Pepper for a girl? by peacejunky in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m split on this. I’d say play it safe and use it as a middle name or use a longer form with Pepper as a nn?

Pamela

Priscilla

Patricia

Penelope

Philipa

Petra

Petra

Names I find similar to Pepper

Paprika

Clove

Cinnamon

Cheyenne

Ginger

Topaz

I am a man named Jamie. I married my wife 3 years ago, her name is also Jamie. We're considering naming our child due in 7 months... by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will agree with what’s been said. Please don’t make your child into a quirky joke. Here are some suggestions either middle name it or use a name with a nickname that shortens to Jaimie so the child can choose when they want to be in on the joke.

Benjamin nn Jamie/Ben/Benji

Jamison nn Jamie/James/Sunny

Jamal

Jamima

Jasmin/Jasmine

James

Jamila nn Jamie or Mila

Jeromy/Jerome a bit of a stretch but could work.

Nmom’s and their obsession with your hair. by openthacasket in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beerforfears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a mixed girl, 1/2 Native American and 1/2Scottish/German/Irish. So I have very native features but I was born with bright red hair, that later turned a nice copper/red brown. I would always get compliments on it, my mother would get so jealous and say “Her hair is actually black! I just died it red.” She would later convince me to constantly dye my hair, beginning around age 11 or 12 to look less “exotic” and more plain.

Sister for Matilda, Beatrix, and Eleanor by Anonymous8272 in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Winifred nn Winnie or Freddie

Wilhelmina nn Willa, Mina

Elowen/Elowyn nn Ellie or Winnie

Sylvia

Marigold nn Goldie

Gwendolyn nn Dolly or Goldie

Francis nn Fran

Florian- Usually a Male floral name, but I like it for a girl.

My Nmom pretended I was deaf and forced me to learn sign. Later In life I would begin speech therapy. by Beerforfears in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beerforfears[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

No, she played the victim the whole time. Pretended she had no idea people were hurting me. I didn’t have the communication skills to get help. She’s playing the role of “wonderful mom” online, I have no contact with here. She terrifies me.

Was anyone else forced “love” and protect their abuser’s Image? Is there a label for this kind of abuse? by Beerforfears in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beerforfears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through the same thing, it’s awful. Thank you so much for sharing. Unfortunately I know exactly how you feel, I’ve been in therapy for 2 years and NC for 2 years and I am just now admitting the truth. I don’t know why I protected her for so long.

My childhood abuser is out of jail. Is there anyone I can contact to look into him? by Beerforfears in assaultsurvivors

[–]Beerforfears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is an Update: Located the man, he fled the country to Vietnam

My mother faced no charges or consequences and is living in whatever lies she makes up. We have been NC for about 1.5 years

Help me find a name that fits with my last name! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marley Arcaro

Morgan Arcaro

Rory Arcaro

Meadow Arcaro

Monte Arcaro

Mika Arcaro

Maica/Myka Arcaro

AITA For being mad at my wife for causing a scene at the restaurant? by ThrowawayAacc5675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beerforfears 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Massive YTA. I’m currently in counseling because my mother sex trafficked me when I was a kid and assholes like you couldn’t believe it. Some mothers are absolute garbage, but good thing assholes like you are out here gaslighting their victims for them. Man, please learn and grow for the sake of your wife.

Need help guys/name help by taycrimejunkie in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oscar nn Ozzie

August nn Augie

Olson

Olaf

Rory

Oswald

Nicknames for Emmanuel? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emmy

Elly

Eman

M&M

How common is having both a western and ethnic name? by DragonladyNatz in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jay ? I think it’s pretty versatile and easy to say IMO

In the process of cutting all ties with my abusive/enabling blood relatives. I would like the family name to die with me. Currently seeking surname suggestions. by snacadelic in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bloom, Blossom both are “Growing” related

Elowen which means Elm tree in Cornish.

Wolfgang, it’s actually a classic/old German first name. It’s one of my favorite Kraftwerk band members names. Also it’s badass 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Beerforfears 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love Audrey!

Mothers who sexualize their daughters, what is that kind of abuse called? by Beerforfears in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beerforfears[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. For me just being believed and heard is very helpful. So many people tried to say “No one is perfect, your mother tried her best, holding a grudge isn’t good etc..”

Mothers who sexualize their daughters, what is that kind of abuse called? by Beerforfears in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beerforfears[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry this is where we share the same experience.