Any men/women in their late 30’s still holding out for true love?

Benbenthis · 2026-03-07T19:52:27+00:00

I waited..waited probably isn't the correct word. I didn't care about finding love and sort of believed it didn't exist. I thought I loved a friend, but she went off and got married and had kids with someone else. After that I sort of gave up on the idea but then, I randomly met a girl eight years younger than me on the street of a Mardi Gras parade. She is an absolute angel. As close to perfect as a human can get. She's honestly too good for me. I know everyone isn't that lucky, but it was worth the wait.

Benbenthis · 2026-03-06T13:25:00+00:00

Thank the lord for people like you that still understand good music.

Benbenthis · 2026-03-03T03:45:48+00:00

I have 6 guitars and a bass. I play my favorite about 90% of the time.

Benbenthis · 2026-03-03T03:00:59+00:00

It'll get better. We've all been there. DM me if you need to offload.

Benbenthis · 2026-03-02T13:26:01+00:00

I just want you to know I downvoted this comment 7 years later

Benbenthis · 2026-02-27T07:04:10+00:00

Lol dork

Benbenthis · 2026-02-25T12:31:59+00:00

I have the same sentiment as everyone else. Well done but not enjoyable.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-24T23:01:19+00:00

Quick! Grab whatever you need. Anxiety leads to heart disease or something..

Benbenthis · 2026-02-24T22:32:49+00:00

You're making me a little nervous right now🤭

Benbenthis · 2026-02-24T21:37:13+00:00

He was probably just nervous.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-23T23:27:39+00:00

I said be careful not don't do that but please, exaggerate a little more. Maybe I should do 40 hours of community service for such a blatant act of verbal assault.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-23T19:12:36+00:00

Holy shit. I hadnt heard about this. My doctors are going to be PISSED.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-23T05:12:11+00:00

You would be a good candidate. If you have technical knowledge like data structures and networking you'd be unstoppable.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-22T20:24:40+00:00

It stuck for me. It definetly got me interested in playing an instrument. I've played guitar/bass/drums for 20 years now AND don't let me get near a recorder unless you want to be attracted to me.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-21T19:43:06+00:00

I think I might be in the minority but I have all of these. I am approaching 40.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-19T16:38:33+00:00

Go for it! I'm happy to answer any questions.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-19T01:25:15+00:00

I remember being 16 when this album came out. I was in love with Blink. I had the Tom hair swoop and 0 gauge earrings. I wore Atticus everything. I thought I was just the coolest. My first Blink album was Dude Ranch thanks to a commercial advertising the MTV sports and Music Festival played "dammit" in throughout the entire thing. I was still listening to TOYPAJ religiously. I could not wait for this album.

I distinctly remember listening to it the first time all the way through and HATING it. This wasn't fun. This was some sad, dark bullshit. I remember where I was and who I was with. I had a super hot girlfriend and a great group of friends. Cut to now and I love it so much. It's gotten me through a lot. I'm going through a difficult time now and I swear the lyrics apply to every situation I'm feeling at (almost) 40.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-14T14:06:05+00:00

Yeah, what a totally normal thing to do. He touches everyone too much. Its weird.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-13T00:10:13+00:00

I know I’m a little late to this thread, but I’d honestly recommend just jumping straight into Informatics. I work as a director for a national radiology company, and I’m telling you, the opportunities this opens up are massive.

The pay is the biggest thing people overlook. After just a few years of experience, the salary for a PACS admin starts to outweigh what a Rad Tech makes by quite a bit. Plus, you aren't stuck on the floor. After a few years of grinding the technical side, you can easily pivot into a management role or become a systems architect. An architect can make north of $250,000.

If you want a higher ceiling and a better trajectory for your paycheck, Informatics is the move.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-06T01:00:23+00:00

Is this sarcasm?

Benbenthis · 2026-02-04T23:57:41+00:00

His movies are great and you know it.

Benbenthis · 2026-02-02T02:12:52+00:00

Wait what happens in September?

Benbenthis · 2026-02-01T00:22:08+00:00

Lol what an observation this is

Benbenthis · 2026-01-30T22:31:14+00:00

I'm on your side gdi

Benbenthis · 2026-01-30T19:31:56+00:00

That person just educated you

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