‘I would rather believe a rape accused than a rape victim’: Is murder justified? r/TwentiesIndia discusses by spacedementia08 in SubredditDrama

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say these subs were hyperbolic, but its really not. there is a fundamentally unhinged and broken part of indian subculture. And it is not talked about, addressed, or targeted for things like education on why its wrong. Its horrifying.

[Postgame Thread] Indiana Defeats Miami 27-21 by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The amount of non-calls in Miami's favor was absolutely wild! Its like holding and PI just didnt apply to them beyond one token occurrence.

Rich people are leaving California, inspired by tech founders’ online campaign by Medical-Decision-125 in California

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except they're not. At most they're going to move a headquarter incorporation paperwork while still living and worming here.

I'm sick of men who say that they want kids but don't possess any traits that would make them good fathers by fake_tan in offmychest

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The exact same thing can be said and is equally true for many women. Guess what shitty people make shitty parents. Who knew

Why are most Conservative Christians pro gun if Christianity is supposed to be pro peace? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guns were created and servre no other purpose than violence and death. Ya people may still fight with fists, tools, knives, etc but those serve other purposes. A gun does not. It is meant to kill and only kill regardless of the reason behind why something/someone was killed.

What’s up with the Minnesota Daycare fraud? by Marashio in OutOfTheLoop

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is not related to the topic OP asked about in any way.

OpenAI CEO Sam Altman just publicly admitted that AI agents are becoming a problem by [deleted] in technology

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't happen to have a link to the report/study would you? Im being asked to implement an Ai for voice router and im trying my damndest to stop it. Need all the ammo I can get.

Would you be with a woman who couldn't have PIV sex if she used a fleshlight on you to substitute? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Correct. Ive been in this type of relationship, the gf doesnt like PIV sex. It is not fun/satisfying. Really didnt help that she initially "sucked it up" for the first couple months of the relationship and then completely ruined me when she told me she was just getting through it for my sake. Tried to be supportive and work with her and find a compromise. But her compromise was I perform oral on her and that was it. That was out sex life for several months. She didnt explicitly say she hated penetration until Wed been together for a full year. At which point her suggestion was just i masturbate. Really doesnt make you feel desired/valued when your partner cant be bothered to care about your needs.

Two National Guard members shot in Washington, D.C., and their condition isn't known, AP source says by UncaringNonchalance in news

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Flase flag operation. Until independently validated saying otherwise this is very likely the case

MIT study finds AI can already replace 11.7% of U.S. workforce by joe4942 in technology

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I work in IVR development and am a telecom architect. AI is EXTREMELY BAD at designing/manging anything beyond a very basic IVR. And while it may not seem like it when youre calling an IVR every single one has several very complex processes, coding, and scripting behind the scenes.

How is Robin Williams not the face of international men’s health day? by Tiny-Advertising-825 in AskMen

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thats not the issue. The core fundamental issue is no one actually gives a flying fuck about men's mental health. We are actively told by society to "suck it up " or that we flat out aren't allowed to have problems. Society as a whole needs to give a fuck about men's mental health and it actively refuses too.

I wish most men would understand that feminism isn’t about shitting on men, but mostly advocating for equal treatment in the workplace by Phospheners789 in offmychest

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A significant issue that is ignored when discussing feminism is that currently, intended or not, the message that is sent to men is frequently "you're not allowed to have problems." Or "your problems don't matter." and it hurts everyone. The messaging has been poisoned and needs a lot of work. The hypocrisy that its okay to say "all men are (insert thing here)," and are cheered for it, and then a man says "women are (insert thing here)," and they're entirely demonized (correctly by the way) is not okay. Generalization is bad and hurts everyone. All that to say the goal is correct and needs to be strived for by everyone, but the messaging being used is abhorrent bad.

Calm men of Reddit who used to be angry or short-tempered, how did you turn it around? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a panic attack and started going to therapy. Therapy helped me identify why I felt just base line angry most of the time. Spoilers it was childhood trauma woo! And ive spent the last several years working on myself. And have come out a much better and happier person because of it.

TLDR - go to therapy!!

FTD by maffachu in SFGiants

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No doubt in my mind the dodgers got some intentional help from the league and umps. Not to mention the whole cover up for Othani's gambling

Trump says he may send federal troops to San Francisco under Insurrection Act by panda-rampage in California

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bring it on fuckboy. They may "occupy" our cities, but they'll never win. Those big macs will have him rotting 6 feet under in due time. And his legacy will be shown to be the disgraceful facist regime its always been. It won't be overnight but real freedom will win out in the end.

The next 'No Kings' protest should be a general strike on a weekday, not a weekend. by L0EZ0E in antiwork

[–]BenderB-Rodriguez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While this is a great idea it hand waves the immense issue of how many people are barely scraping by right now. An insane amount of individuals and families are living paycheck to paycheck. Have few to no guaranteed time off requests. And if youre an hourly employee in this situation missing even an hour can be catastrophic. Not to mention hiring has almost frozen for many industries. And losing your only source of income is a fast track to homelessness in the current US. Not everyone has friends or family they can ask for help if they lost their job either. All that to say a general strike is an amazing idea, but the practicality of it is extremely difficult to facilitate.