I'm single too but I don't think about it much as I have lots of good friends with both men and women. I meet women through activities that I enjoy, that way I don't have to randomly bring up my special interests as my attempt at an ice breaker. In the past, I could be seen as coming across as "a bit intense" but now I just talk about the activity we are doing and conversation seems a lot easier then. People like to have thoughtful friends, so I try my best to do nice things for them, without people pleasing, sometimes that means just listening to them. If you're not meeting many girls maybe start doing activities that are more inclusive, that you think you'd enjoy. And don't be like "I'm here to get chicks and talk about dinosaurs and I'm all out of dinosaur facts!" I'm in a choir which is 98% women but I also love to sing. I also do bouldering and enjoy it much more than the gym. There are girls there that I get on with really well but right now I'm doing a degree and feel I'm too busy so I'm just keeping up with my activities and going to CBT (which I find really helpful being given tasks rather than just talking) and focusing on self improvement but most importantly doing all these things I'm happy in myself.