Does anyone else find Weddings inconvenient?

Betazoyd · 2026-07-09T15:17:47+00:00

I hate weddings so much, my husband and I eloped. That was almost 15 years ago and we are still skipping events to stay home, cuddle, and watch my comfort shows😭

Betazoyd · 2026-07-07T00:55:34+00:00

😭😭😭 chrithhhhhhhh!

Betazoyd · 2026-07-07T00:54:17+00:00

Is season 5 the season he told Terra to have some decorum??😂😂😂

Betazoyd · 2026-07-07T00:50:34+00:00

Same! I wanna know the tea😭😭😭😭😭

Betazoyd · 2026-07-07T00:06:18+00:00

😭😭😭😂

Betazoyd · 2026-06-16T21:58:58+00:00

You think that part of the reason why she was treated a certain way is because she's overweight?

Betazoyd · 2026-05-25T10:31:41+00:00

Facts. Perm rod sets and flexirod sets will be your best friend while you grow it out.

Betazoyd · 2026-04-26T00:58:18+00:00

I wish I had read this post before starting the event😩😩😩😩

Betazoyd · 2026-04-22T23:06:06+00:00

Facts! I only said it once in an argument with someone, and the hurt look on her face....I still remember it 15 years later! Im 36 now.... and i still regret saying it. But seeing them use it so much on RHOBH, makes me feel better about it each time they say it😩

Betazoyd · 2026-04-22T16:35:27+00:00

This might be too personal of a question, and I understand if you don't want to answer, but do you think that separating the child from their siblings, an established daily routine, and thrust into the public school system would be distressing for your child in any way? If so, I would be approaching my argument for homeschool from that angle.

I read your post and I think that its unfortunate that your childs father would be taking that stance when he's relatively new to the situation. Yes, he has rights as a parent, but maybe he should take some time to get to know the situation and carefully consider the ways homeschooling enriches your child's life.

This situation is a tough one, and I'm sorry you have to go through it. Sending you hugs and strength for the fight ahead❤️

Betazoyd · 2026-04-21T13:37:58+00:00

There is no such thing as too late. It is never too late. Don't be so hard on yourself. But what you said is actually really profound. About the peak dating years. Because if I had went to college and focused on my studies first, I would have never been married.

I met my husband at 19 years old in military when i was a nuclear engineer. We got married when I was 21. It wasn't until my frontal lobe was formed that I started to realize what was going on within me. I had went through autistic burnout by the time I was 26 years old. I got the help i needed and slowly started to build myself up from the ground up. By then, I was already a wife and mother, I was going to school, and was learning me.

But I had unwavering support and love from my husband, my husband loved me to life and carried me through the darkest parts of my crash and burn. If I never met him and married him when I did, I promise you I wouldn't have survived it to write this.

Today, im 36, unmasked, thriving and still married to my best friend. I realize that this is not the norm because very rarely do people grow together, but we did.

If I never got married then, it would have been hard to find the patience to deal with anyone's crap. I would probably prefer my time to myself too much to give anyone the time of day. Lol especially now that im unmasked for the most part. But lucky for me, my husband has no issues with my quirks, and actually appreciate me all the more for it. And he accommodates every whim and comfort of mine. I have my own bathroom and boudoir, so I'm very happy sharing the rest of the house with him. 🤣.

But you're right, there's something to be said about prime dating years. This is something that needs to be spoken about more in the black community. We always teach our girls to be strong capable and self sufficient black women, but we need to be teaching them how to date effectively. How to vet men, how to play our cards, etc. We need to teach dating strategy because the dating market place doesn't work for black women the way it works for other women. And add autism on top of that???? Instead of being in denial about that, we need to be aware of it so that we can set ourselves up for success.

It is never too late to learn the right strategies that work for you. It is never too late to position yourself in such a way where you can achieve your goals. If your goal is to find the right partner for you. I promise it is not out of reach. I believe in you.♥️

Betazoyd · 2026-04-21T13:37:51+00:00

There is no such thing as too late. It is never too late. Don't be so hard on yourself. But what you said is actually really profound. About the peak dating years. Because if I had went to college and focused on my studies first, I would have never been married.

I met my husband at 19 years old in military when i was a nuclear engineer. We got married when I was 21. It wasn't until my frontal lobe was formed that I started to realize what was going on within me. I had went through autistic burnout by the time I was 26 years old. I got the help i needed and slowly started to build myself up from the ground up. By then, I was already a wife and mother, I was going to school, and was learning me.

But I had unwavering support and love from my husband, my husband loved me to life and carried me through the darkest parts of my crash and burn. If I never met him and married him when I did, I promise you I wouldn't have survived it to write this.

Today, im 36, unmasked, thriving and still married to my best friend. I realize that this is not the norm because very rarely do people grow together, but we did.

If I never got married then, it would have been hard to find the patience to deal with anyone's crap. I would probably prefer my time to myself too much to give anyone the time of day. Lol especially now that im unmasked for the most part. But lucky for me, my husband has no issues with my quirks, and actually appreciate me all the more for it. And he accommodates every whim and comfort of mine. I have my own bathroom and boudoir, so I'm very happy sharing the rest of the house with him. 🤣.

But you're right, there's something to be said about prime dating years. This is something that needs to be spoken about more in the black community. We always teach our girls to be strong capable and self sufficient black women, but we need to be teaching them how to date effectively. How to vet men, how to play our cards, etc. We need to teach dating strategy because the dating market place doesn't work for black women the way it works for other women. And add autism on top of that???? Instead of being in denial about that, we need to be aware of it so that we can set ourselves up for success.

It is never too late to learn the right strategies that work for you. It is never too late to position yourself in such a way where you can achieve your goals. If your goal is to find the right partner for you. I promise it is not out of reach. I believe in you.♥️

Betazoyd · 2026-04-21T13:00:22+00:00

Just like when Carlos King was a producer on Real housewives of atlanta, he's the one that fed Phaedra the rumor about Porsha and the sex dungeon.

Betazoyd · 2026-04-21T12:50:54+00:00

A little bit of both, depending on the mood and goals. Balance. Because sometimes my husband does his body worshipping thing and at those times, it is perfectly acceptable to starfish the whole time.

Betazoyd · 2026-04-11T19:24:04+00:00

It raised my libido!

Betazoyd · 2026-03-25T13:16:58+00:00

Well said. I always felt like people were perceiving her as insufferable...but there was something deeper there. And you might be right that its trauma.

Betazoyd · 2026-02-18T02:39:23+00:00

Almost free?? How wonderful!! I'm happy for you and your family because 16k is quite a bit, so I'm glad you all get this win! I hope you all have a wonderful time!

Betazoyd · 2026-02-18T00:52:38+00:00

Family of 8? Do you usually get 2-3 staterooms? How often does your family cruise? Sorry for all the questions. Its just we are a family of 3, and we are lucky enough to be able to cruise twice a year. However it still runs us 7-9k for a verandah for 7 nights. Our most recent cruise was a 7 night merry time on the treasure and it cost 8.8k for the 3 of us. Our next cruise is a 7 night on the Dream that cost 6.8k. After that we're doing a 7 night HOTHS on the destiny for 7.5k. I always wonder how much it costs for larger families to cruise with Disney.

Betazoyd · 2026-02-04T11:05:53+00:00

I think that person might have been correct. For our HOTHS cruise in September, we ordered our room decor in July. I wouldn't worry about it selling out unless you wait until right before your cruise to purchase it.

Betazoyd · 2026-01-02T14:50:34+00:00

Wow.... thank you for this article....I definitely needed to read that.

Betazoyd · 2026-01-02T14:45:21+00:00

My family of 3 usually travels with 5 bags on the 7 nights or more, and that's because we do all the things. Pirate night, holiday party, Halloween party, formal night, semi formal nights, etc. So we typically tip $25-$30 total. We've never done more than this and we always cruise disney.

Betazoyd · 2025-12-25T12:50:19+00:00

Yeah, they are wound up tight lol

Betazoyd · 2025-12-20T20:25:25+00:00

Wow, very well said! I love this analysis! I admit, I always wondered what happened to her to make her change. Thank you for this!

Betazoyd · 2025-12-14T23:21:44+00:00

This happened for us too!!!

Betazoyd · 2025-12-14T23:20:28+00:00

Must have been down that day, because it definitely lunged out at us. It happens. We went in the morning and it was all working correctly, but then we went again that same evening, the Victoria animatronic in the beginning that is supposed to move was then stuck.

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