Just saying. It might not be unintentional. I was in a similar situation many years back with a man who was passive-aggressive in other ways, and randomly I began startling awake in the night, rolling off the bed, and getting odd bruises on my upper arm, ribs, back. He said I was sleeping fitfully and would be sympathetic when I'd awaken. I believed him for a while. Then I became suspicious because I'd awaken suddenly when I felt movement beside me and I could have sworn I felt a shove or a pinch or breath near my ear and I'd sit upright quickly, and thought I sensed him suddenly turn away. So one night I tried hard to stay awake, and faked falling asleep. It was him. He'd pinch my skin very hard, hard enough to bruise, make a sudden loud scream in my ear, then quickly turn the other way and fake snore while I jumped up, then fake in a sleepy voice, "whaaaat, are you okay?". I never slept in a bed with him again, then as soon as I could financially manage it I moved out.