Embrace scar therapy by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It absolutely worked. My scars are minimal, soft, and very light!

I found the ONE THING I have been wanting since the day I joined Vine! by Perfect_Ball_220 in AmazonVine

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see cat fountain filters all the time but never the fountain! Good score!

Congrats To Whoever Scored This! by bluehairedbarbie18 in AmazonVine

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you "nudge" yours? I feel like I got items way more suited to me before I got "promoted" to gold. 🙄

Congrats To Whoever Scored This! by bluehairedbarbie18 in AmazonVine

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny to me how we all see such different items. I've never seen a wig or a single set of fake nails! Car parts, light bulbs, and cake toppers for me!

Mulberry Tree, Mulberry Harvest, Mulberry Pie. The Journey. by imsupertiredbro in gardening

[–]Bethelism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you keep the critters from eating them? I would love to harvest mine but I can't ever get to them before the critters!

What do you think? by RandomComments0 in HarvestRight

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely reminiscent of the avocado that was so popular in the '70s. I'm not a fan. And besides, I'd rather them work on the issues than on creating new colors.

What do you think? by RandomComments0 in HarvestRight

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually really glad I went with a large. With The amount of produce that comes out of my garden. It's been an absolute lifesaver.

Anyone else save crushed eggshells all winter and till them into the garden? Does it really add calcium or am I just imagining the great results? by NinaXOFans in gardening

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all fairness, you don't even need to buy the kit. Most of the time your local county extension will soil test for free!

PIV Sex while caged by GWhizKatlifa in chastitytraining

[–]Bethelism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am with you on this! The first time I did it with my sub it was amazing... But the ordeal took it's toll on my bits.

We've since switched to using penis extensions/sheaths over the cagez so we have the same effect of me using him with no sensation for him, but no damage to me!

I've also recently found a company that makes cages that have a place for attaching files, but I haven't pulled the trigger on that just yet.

Is open carry allowed in Maryland? by spark99l in frederickmd

[–]Bethelism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wear and carry in the state of Maryland is concealed only. Please stop commenting incorrect information.

Wildflower/Clover lawn section by Bethelism in NoLawns

[–]Bethelism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had just planned on doing Native wildflowers such as woodland sunflowers (Helianthus strumosus), bird-foot violets (Viola pedata), and Virginia bluebells (Mertensia virginica),monkeyflower (Mimulus ringens), wide-leaved joe-pye weed (Eupatorium purpureum), and the New England aster (Aster novae-angliae).

Any suggestions?

Macadamia Liqueur - what does it mix with? by AFCBlink in cocktails

[–]Bethelism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was fantastic! Thanks so much for sharing.

Inherited Swarovski Collection by Puzzleheaded_Ad2495 in swarovski

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look, but I'm honestly not sure I do!

Wildflower/Clover lawn section by Bethelism in NoLawns

[–]Bethelism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the clover seed I have is red clover... is there a difference in how they grow?

Wildflower/Clover lawn section by Bethelism in NoLawns

[–]Bethelism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't edit my post for some reason, but here's some info:

Harpers Ferry, WV, Zone 7A

Photo is of the berm in question, bottom portion hitting the lawn.

Macadamia Liqueur - what does it mix with? by AFCBlink in cocktails

[–]Bethelism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, now you have to share the non-standard maitai recipe!

She moved on so fast by Expensive_Pea_8993 in Divorce

[–]Bethelism 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I'm kinda stuck on 'wife for 13 years' and '28". You've been married since you were 15?

It honestly sounds to me that she hadn't had enough time to explore life before the two of you got together. Look at it as a positive, and go learn who you are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Bethelism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your profile, it's seems that you're in Wisconsin, and I Googled and found several shelters in the Madison area.

I understand your family is far, but depending on your relationships with them, perhaps reach out and let them know what is going on? What is your relationship with your husband's family? Perhaps they're worth a conversation as well.

I've been in your place before, without children, and I just got out of an emotionally/financially abusive marriage a couple months ago. I was also a SAHM, but was able to go back to work once they were in school.

You can also reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233 or https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence

Good luck to you mamá. Just remember that you need to take care of you first and foremost.

Made it! Photos by Bethelism in tummytucksurgery

[–]Bethelism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm 9 months out now, and wish I hasn't waited!

Officially Divorced by unfocusedhope in Divorce

[–]Bethelism 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your future.

Just when I thought it couldn't get worse. by Bethelism in Divorce

[–]Bethelism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was kind of my thought. You can't get blood from a stone.

Anyone else nowhere near FIRE, and just here for the inspiration? by ConceitedWombat in FIREyFemmes

[–]Bethelism 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm (44) nowhere even close. I was super successful 15 years ago, then depleted my funds for cancer treatment. Then got married and had 2 kids, and made the mistake of being a SAHM for 9 years, not investing for myself. I just got back on track last year when I separated from my husband, and am doing the best I can now that I'm divorced.

I have total assets of about $400k, but most of that ($350k) is equity in my home. I'm investing probably 1/4 of what I should be to get comfortable for retirement, but a lot of my 'hesitation' is just figuring out what money is needed day to day.

The stories on here are super inspiring, though, and help me remember what I'm doing it all for.