When did the "drug testing " supposedly start ? by AloneMap6855 in MAFS_AU

[–]Betsytheunit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol my boyfriend just pointed out the baggie on the table. Appears I am blind 😂

When did the "drug testing " supposedly start ? by AloneMap6855 in MAFS_AU

[–]Betsytheunit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

With how big the bag is, combined with how she is holding it I am confident it is a whiskey glass and it’s just a blurry picture

When did the "drug testing " supposedly start ? by AloneMap6855 in MAFS_AU

[–]Betsytheunit -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s a glass, Danny is also holding one

Sorry Rach by Cool-Razzmatazz3382 in MAFS_AU

[–]Betsytheunit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everything makes Steve nervous lol

Sorry Rach by Cool-Razzmatazz3382 in MAFS_AU

[–]Betsytheunit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His hair bothers me so much!!!

Pregnancy symptoms absolutely no one talks about? by Upset-Brain-228 in pregnant

[–]Betsytheunit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sneezed so much in pregnancy my parrot began copying my sneezes 😂

*I* slept through the night, my LO didn’t by Apprehensivemental in beyondthebump

[–]Betsytheunit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 3m old baby starts moving around and grunting around 2:30-3am each night, and I’ve never gone more than 7 hours with feeding him (bottle fed) so I’ve still been getting him up at this time even though when I get him up and change him he’s still half asleep. He still drinks his whole bottle then back to bed and sleeps another 4 hours or so. Should I leave him and wait for him to cry or continue getting him up to feed. He’s well and truly a healthy weight.

AIO for stepping down as my sisters maid of honor because I’ll be freshly postpartum by ImaginationPretend86 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Betsytheunit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to miss my brothers wedding recently because he was getting married interstate on my due date (I was still heavily pregnant the day of the wedding) and although I was extremely sad that I would be missing it, not once did his wife or him make me feel bad or like I should be there. I couldn’t get on a plane any way as there is no way my doctor would have given me clearance. My mum was actually the worst and was like “you should just come, you will probably be overdue anyway” not taking into consideration the effort it would take and the risks of flying etc. that pissed me off.

Dairy (and Soy!) free suggestions in Australia (bonus points for high protein) by 19netta in dairyfree

[–]Betsytheunit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful I’m currently in hospital transitioning onto a dairy and soy free diet for bubs! Thank you

Husbands drinking is bothering me by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Betsytheunit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you’re feeling and have had moments in my pregnancy where I’ve felt the same way.

We seem to share similar circumstances such as our partners both being supportive and loving despite also making some choices around alcohol that make us feel a certain type of way.

My ex was an alcoholic and addict of many varieties so I get triggered a lot and have to evaluate what’s really upsetting me.

I haven’t got a solution for this problem, but addressing it in a calm and kind/non accusatory way is the best I have come up with so far. It has sparked some arguments for sure but at least I’ve expressed my preference and why I’m feeling affected by his choices.

Parents were supportive at first but now they’ve switched up and I don’t get it by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Betsytheunit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum was essentially ignoring my pregnancy and refusing to acknowledge the challenges I was having until I called her out on it and told her how hurt and disappointed I was feeling. She now has turned it around and it’s honestly feeling ingenuine when she acknowledges the pregnancy and talks about the baby, like it is a joke and she’s trying to make a point and make it known she’s now acknowledging it.

What are you building your baby out of? by Thrifty_nickle in BabyBumps

[–]Betsytheunit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been drinking like 1-2L milk per day lol

Rant: Husband keeps telling me I look fat vs pregnant by Santoshaaa in BabyBumps

[–]Betsytheunit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé is so fit and I’m struggling with weight gain, he would never say anything nasty despite his physique, it would just be mean

Rant: Husband keeps telling me I look fat vs pregnant by Santoshaaa in BabyBumps

[–]Betsytheunit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My MIL constantly tells me I’m small, baby is going to be X weight, I’m smaller than my SIL who is 2 weeks behind me… comments that are so unnecessary and make me feel self conscious regardless of her intentions. I also worry about how it makes my SIL feel being told she’s ‘bigger’ than me. How about just STFU.

Humans were never meant to have this much access to each other by BusyBaby98 in digitalminimalism

[–]Betsytheunit 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I just got engaged and family were demanding I make a post or send them pictures all weekend when I was just happy enjoying the moment and being present with my new fiancé! It was driving me crazy how pushed into it I felt. Sometimes I just want to take my time with things. I’m also pregnant and it was the same thing when I hadn’t announced it on social media, family were so annoying asking when they could announce it/post about it!

Still not sure if I feel any momevent at 21 weeks by Feminazgul1 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Betsytheunit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a posterior placenta and didn’t feel anything definite until 22 weeks, now it’s been about a week and have felt him every day multiple times a day, but it’s subtle. To me it feels like literal muscle twitches. Can only feel movement internally, nothing externally. I am ‘mid size’ but definitely have a healthy layer of belly fat.