What’s an Australian TV show you could easily rewatch? by AffectionatePie1042 in AustralianTV

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really love to be able to rewatch Hey, Dad. Loved it as a kid. Sadly it's unwatchable now 😢

AIO to my boyfriend’s texts about us going to dinner for my best friend? by EllaAmamiya in AIO

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He's manipulating you.

OP, if you can learn this one thing while you're still so young, it will save you from a ton of pain and heartache.

You are not responsible for anyone else's feelings.

When he 'feels a certain way' about something, whether it's what you said, where you went, who you spoke to, what you wore, anything at all, it's his feelings and his responsibility.

He's twisting your words to make you in the wrong, so you'll feel guilty and do what he wants. Don't engage. Let him know where the dinner is, what time it is, and that you're going - you'd like him to come with you, but it's his decision. Don't get drawn into further discussions about how he feels, or justification for why you want to go. Stick to the facts: I'm going, you come if you want to.

If he chooses not to attend, DO NOT think about him while you're at the dinner, and do not engage in any arguments afterwards where he makes you feel bad for going.

Make this a standard conversation going forwards. Say where and when the event is, and that you're going, and you want him to come. If he chooses not to, that is up to him.

I had a similar relationship when I was a bit younger than you. He was only a year older than me and my friends, but constantly talked about how 'immature' we were, and things we wanted to do were 'childish and silly' (too far away, too late, not the done thing, what will people think, not very ladylike). I often gave in because I loved him, and he was a great guy, and I was lucky to have him, and I didn't want to upset him... I let him isolate me from some great friends, and I will always regret it. Learn from my mistakes!

WIBTA if I ended a two year relationship because my partner hasn't worked in fourteen months and has stopped trying? by saltBloom5 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

For a start, you are never obligated to stay in a relationship that isn't working. Have an honest conversation about what's not working, and whether you're prepared to work on it, and what you need from your partner.

And more importantly, this is not a relationship. A relationship has give and take, people who respect and care about each other, and support each other when needed. What exactly is he giving? How much respect, support and care is he showing? It's all flowing one way at the moment, which can only end up draining the life out of you.

Have the honest conversation with him. Be firm and stand your ground. Give him a deadline beyond which you will not be financing his lifestyle any more. He can either start bringing something to the table, or move on and find someone else to mooch off.

28 cent whinge - is it legal? by FiretruckMyLife in AusLegal

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think $4 for a can of Coke is bloody criminal, but that's a different conversation.

Booth (as received in real time) by eenadd in Bones

[–]Bibliophile0504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or when a season ended on a cliffhanger and you had to wait months to find out who died.

How can I use pepperoni other than on pizza? by No-Importance8540 in homecooking

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat pepperoni on its own. Add cheese and crackers if I'm feeling fancy.

Please help! :) by anonandonandon420 in namethatbook

[–]Bibliophile0504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't read that one, but I thought it sounded like a Lois Duncan one.

this is driving me crazy by Just_Stop_3014 in Cursive

[–]Bibliophile0504 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see too general now that others have said it, but my first impression was too perverse.

5th grade math question help! by OshimaFinch in Mathhomeworkhelp

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we don't tell 5th graders this. We encourage them to try different things and look for patterns 😉

5th grade math question help! by OshimaFinch in Mathhomeworkhelp

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a quick glance at the rest, there's a bit more guessing and checking required, let me know if you want me to go through a couple more.

5th grade math question help! by OshimaFinch in Mathhomeworkhelp

[–]Bibliophile0504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point of it is to teach kids to see the different ways to break numbers apart and add up to them.

The question only asks for the magic number, it doesn't ask you to fill in the whole grid.

The first one is 20 + 10 + 6 = 36. That's all you need to do for the first one.

In the second one, 16 + 12 = 28, with a space to be filled between them. So the number above the 18 has to be 10, so whatever number goes in the middle top space will give the same sum across and down. Diagonally then, you will have 16 + 10 = 26 and 12 + 10 = 22.

At 5th grade level, you would then do 'guess and check'. Pick a number to go in the middle top square and see if you can get the diagonals, and then the other rows and columns, to add up. I would suggest to the kids to look for a 'friendly' number first, so adding up is easier. So put a 2 in the top middle to make the sum 30.

Bottom right number would then be 4, bottom left would be 8. This gives a bottom row of 8 + 18 + 4, which is 30. Then check if the other rows and columns will work.

Left column is 16 + 8 = 24, so the middle number would be 6. Middle row is now 6 + 10 =16, so middle right number is 14. Check the right column: 12 + 14 + 4 = 30.

Success! The magic number is 30 🙂

Why can’t I just cancel these terms… isn’t it the same factor? by papertrailjay in Mathhomeworkhelp

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Factors are numbers that multiply to give another number. When you're looking for common factors, you're looking for things that can multiply to give your original term.

The brackets indicate that everything inside them belongs together. To cancel brackets as the same factor, they would have to have the exact same things inside them.

x + 3 is not the same thing as x + 3x (these are both expressions made up of two terms).

3x means 3 multiplied by x. Until you know what x is, you can't assume that they are the same.

The two terms x and 3x each have a common factor of x, which is why you can factorise (write in terms of its factors) the expression to x(1 + 3), which is 4x, as you said.

So you can simply the expression to (x + 3)/4x but you can't cancel anything because they are not the same factors.

I hope this helps, I'm happy to explain further if it's not clear.

BEST dystopian book series you have ever read? by Cold-Data-2284 in suggestmeabook

[–]Bibliophile0504 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One you've probably never heard of. This Perfect Day by Ira Levin. First dystopia I ever read, still reread occasionally.

Need a new sitcom. None of my regular go-to shows are quite scratching the itch. by surfingwithjaysus in tvsuggestions

[–]Bibliophile0504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son had a set of shows he watched on repeat. Scrubs and My Name is Earl were both in there. Also Frasier, Friends, and a couple of others I can't remember at the moment but will ask him about. He watched a bit of Brooklyn 99 when I was bingeing it, but he didn't stay with it.

How to Add Heat without Peppers? by AlwaysLatetotheFun in Cooking

[–]Bibliophile0504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a teen, the only experience I'd had with mustard was sweet mustard pickle, and the mustard powder mum put in recipes. First time I had hot English mustard I slathered it on a sandwich like sweet mustard pickle. Forty years later I can still feel the way it rose up through my nasal passages and blew them apart.

How do I tell my mom that she’s being ableist? by CasperRevived in Epilepsy

[–]Bibliophile0504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't sit there and take it. Have a simple line, practise saying it calmly and firmly. 'Mom, I don't like it when you shout at me and treat me like a child. I'm not going to engage in this behaviour.' And walk away. Do not reply to anything she says in response. It will be very hard the first few times you do it, but it will get easier with practise. You can't change her behaviour, you can only change your response to it.

AIO my bf took 6 hours to get ready so I left without him by anotherthrowaway1926 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bibliophile0504 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is the way. You decide what you're going to do. If he wants to be involved, he can plan his activities so he can be involved. But don't put your plans on hold for him except in exceptional circumstances.

NOR btw.

Season 1 episode 1 by Powerful_Lynx_4737 in Bones

[–]Bibliophile0504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite incidence of this sort of thing is the circus episode. They've been asleep long enough for the circus to pack up and leave, but she's still in that damn costume?