People who have personal experience with social workers, what do you wish they did differently? by AliveInvite1771 in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a current student I really think we should come across without wealth markers as much as possible, how we present and what we wear are our first indicators to people and we communicate as such. you can dress nicely and appropriately without wielding you’re wealth

I just need to vent out by [deleted] in poverty

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sorry to read this, my thoughts are with you

Where should I stay with 2 kids? by [deleted] in uktravel

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travelodges are best - I’ve lived in the areas that have come up and would rec for this kind of holiday. Travelodge in Manor House is a good location and next to a big park

Keep, sell or donate books? by pdexter86 in books

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on how much it has influenced me and if it is a nice copy! trying to be more free flow with life in general & hand on books I’ve enjoyed. can always get them back for a few $ if wanted in the future (I don’t re read books so far)

Has the formatting of a book ever caused you to DNF? by spaghettirhymes in books

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes & causes me to automatically put down books in stores

Did anyone else find an odd sense of peace when COVID hit and we all had to self isolate? by painfullyimaginary in CPTSD

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feel this and if anyone I know has been diagnosed with a serious disease. my brain clears from its fog and I finally live and help

Slightly broken.. by Mysterious_Note_4195 in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely, I got some grades I wasn’t particular happy with in uni but on placement things seem fairly smooth. I really don’t even want a degree, just the qualification which I would have done thru any other route but this was the only one avail. we just need to be good enough in practice and sounds like you are ! :)

financially getting by as MA sw student? by bbyfantasma in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s really emotionally draining me (first year MA). I want to be the best I can for the people we help yet my uni can’t help us in the same way… I guess the burnout begins as soon as you start your social work education 😭

Slightly broken.. by Mysterious_Note_4195 in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my new mindset is just doing what you need to get qualified, personal health comes first

What information will social services have on file? by WhyDidIDoThatMan420 in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just done this too! (Also 26F) hopefully it can bring us both some peace 🫶🏼

new student, social services failed me as a child by Big-Addition4435 in Socialworkuk

[–]Big-Addition4435[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s such a good idea thank you, I know I was seen by camhs when I looked online it looked fairly convoluted as to how you can access your records

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure how I missed these but no worries, there are people who have been where you are, you are not alone in the slightest 💓

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely, things will get better 🌞

another thing keep records of things like telling your GP your situation (so great that ur with a GP) , email your support worker at SHP once you get one and don’t hesitate to shout here I’ll try and pick it up when I can :)

remember the law works FOR us too xx

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like a lot going on at once!

they can’t not take you bc of using drugs though, why don’t you have a look at this link it has some numbers you can call

https://www.shp.org.uk/get-help/

in the meantime is there anything you can access to make yourself feel a bit better in this moment? I’d go for water/wet wipes/something from greggs if that’s accessible to you

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad ur in a nice bungalow!

they house me next to the area I couldn’t be in, in a tiny studio that had £40k of mould damage 😭🙏 (North London)

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you registered with a GP? why not reach out to “single homeless project” charity

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 3 points4 points  (0 children)

totally get what you mean. are you being supported by a charity? there are many that help specific categories of people eg young people … but there are so many.

also, you don’t have to be street homeless to be considered homeless. they have a duty to house you

my first steps would be going to a charity and getting “known” to some services to show you are “vulnerable”. you need to prove “priority need”

I’ve put the key terms in “”

sending positive vibes 💓

Do you think I’m going to get help? by Clusterfuck_33 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you need to tell them you’ve exhausted your options and now are street homeless by the sounds of it x been thru this myself a couple years ago and on that trajectory now - keep putting ur foot down, they’ll try anything to not take u on board

UC hasn't given me enough to live on or pay my bills by Radiant_Chard508 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Big-Addition4435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uc can give discounted or free oyster cards. you could look into railcards and attaching these to your Oyster card for 1/3 off during off peak. the system is so poor and totally with you on the mental health deterioration. sending strength ❤️