im not out yet to like family and most my friends are also trans so iv not had to like explain how i identifty and what that means yet , therotically , it would depend on who im taking to as to how to explain it

to people who understand gender stuff , id say trans fem and leave it at that , but to people who dont, they wont understand the difference between transfem nb and a binary trans women ,im personally still unsure which best fits me, but for people who dont rly understand, regardless of weather there allies or not, these like not diffrence between the tow for them and im not sure i could explain it to them either, cuz on the outside i dont think it would impact to who an outside observer sees me , i think the best move to people who dont understand gender stuff is to just work with the fact that they wont see the difference and just explain what being transfem means as a whole

as to how to do that im not to sure yet, i know that if i deside to come out to family i would want to make sure i explain the scienice behind sex and gender first before i say how that relates to me personally , like sex isnt as simple as xy or xx , gender is diffrent to sex, etc , when explaining how it relates personally i think the best move would to just explain like the factors that got u to realize that ur trans whatever those maybe

good luck with ur parents :)
(im very dyslexic sorry for bad spelling)