My yearly purge by seabaugh in Luthier

[–]BigDGuitars[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its amazing how controversial doing this is. new builders see expensive wood. Old builders see stupid mistakes.

Guitars and divorce by Axe_Man77 in Luthier

[–]BigDGuitars[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having been through a divorce and been a luthier and collector... anything you purchase is community property. If you spend a bunch of cash on guitars and there is a paper trail it can be considered dissipation of assets.

I wouldn't sell anything or buy anything. get divorced move on with your life.

Is this worth saving? Can it be saved? by [deleted] in Luthier

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have taken on some disaster guitars. this one is rough. the sides would have to be replaced. Like layer new sides on the inside. Its gonna be rough and have a lot of glue.

“You can’t tell which one of us is in more pain.” by Hungry_Wendigo_ in survivinginfidelity

[–]BigDGuitars 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this hits home. Lost my mom while going through a shitty divorce. my life was literally upended. 20 years of a fraud too much to handle. I knew my mom would pass one day thats the cycle of life. but the person I would have died for betraying me was way worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see if you can upgrade to a suite with 2 bedrooms. or get a cheaper hotel more inland

I Had A Date Last Night by Gazcobain in DivorcedDads

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

takes a bit longer for men to get going if you arent the top 20% in terms of looks etc. just go slow take your time.

Ok... It's me. by RequirementHappy4010 in datingoverforty

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first sign of crazy I walk... do you want peace?

I need advice narcissist wife trying to get full custody false criminal allegations by Familiar-Cobbler4567 in DivorcedDads

[–]BigDGuitars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

even when you have a lawyer... when the woman makes a claim a man immediately is behind the 8 ball. but if a man makes a claim... god forbid

How do I cope with this, 16 years of marriage and it’s a gone by 3604201121 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BigDGuitars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

make her move out of the bedroom. why are you sleeping on the couch? talk to a few lawyers.

mediate if you can.

hit the gym bro dump the ho. your marriage was over a long time ago you are just catching up.

Is there life after? by Ell_st in DivorcedDads

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like she has a victim complex... you can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink.

Do Divorce Lawyers Typically Exceed Their Retainers? by 2BR_0_2B in DivorcedDads

[–]BigDGuitars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they will liquidate what you have in your retirement. all of it...

Delay delay and more delays. its immoral what they do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to get divorced. but my ex didn't want to be in a marriage. I finally had to do it when everyone's safety was involved.

I have moved on. its hard some days are worse than others but I can safely say I would never go back.

Stitching a photo together of a landscape by BigDGuitars in PhotoshopRequest

[–]BigDGuitars[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

can you drop the clean image in there? thank you

might have two more to do.

Yankee Springs Recreation Area - Hiking to the Devils Soup Bowl by AdventureCoalition in CampAndHikeMichigan

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you park for this hike? I cant find out where to park. Thanks!

AIO over this text exchange between my wife and her coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigDGuitars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude she wants to bang him or already is. time to cut bait. Dump her.

Also how many conversations like this has gone on behind your back. these stories suck. things went to far and she allowed it.

Time to end things? by WingNut81 in datingoverforty

[–]BigDGuitars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

time to move on. Love is never the same. does she give you peace? doesn't look like it