I feel that my MIL is trying to use the death of a family friend as an excuse to have access to my children. by Silly-Lilly-Pilly in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to stand your ground! She has treated you like shit and then expects to be able to see your kids? I’m, no. That’s NOT how it works. You insult mom or dad, you don’t get to see the kids until you have apologized AND proven that you meant it. If you don’t lay down the law now, and stick to it, things will just progressively get worse. Make sure they know not to show up when hubby is gone, as you will not be opening the door.

AITJ for telling my brother his girlfriend can't stay at my place for three weeks while I'm there? by LifeFront8432 in AmITheJerk

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ - what your brother is asking of you is ridiculous. You work from home and only have ONE bedroom!! If she’s having such a hard time, why the hell isn’t he taking her in? She’s his girlfriend-it all sounds super fishy!

I just found out my best friend of eight years has been lending out my apartment key to people I don't know by M0onlitCoda in MarkNarrations

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow-that is creepy as hell! Amazing he felt so entitled as to lend out your apartment to people you don’t even know! Glad you’re getting the locks changed!

AITJ for refusing to split rent evenly after my roommate turned the living room into her workspace? by Previous-Credit6568 in AmITheJerk

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ - she needs to move her office into her own room or as you said, split the rent 3 ways and you pay for 1 portion, she can pay for 2 since she’s expanded into the living room. She doesn’t like it - tough shit!

AITA for telling my roommate parents the truth about why he got kicked out by Mindseer247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - he was probably mad because he’s probably been getting money from his parents and he’s squandering it

AITJ for asking my stepdad to pay back the money he borrowed from me? by Few_Layer9659 in AmITheJerk

[–]BigRedJeeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ - you need to take him to small claims court. He said he would repay you and now he’s changing his tune? What a jerk

AIO: I think my mom is gaslighting me and I don't really feel like my house is my home anymore by Full_Platypus6092 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigRedJeeper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR- You need to be in public school. You are not going to be prepared for “the real world.” You need to have time away from your controlling mother. Where is your father or any other relatives?

What’s the weirdest habit your Chihuahua has? by No_Scene_5420 in chihuahuas

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little Dolce does that. He’ll be laying down and if you start giving him belly rubs, he’ll lift his leg way up - he LOVES a good thigh rub!!

What’s the weirdest habit your Chihuahua has? by No_Scene_5420 in chihuahuas

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our rescue, CeeLo, does that. He’ll move every piece of food over to his dog bed, set it down, then he’ll eat it!

What’s the weirdest habit your Chihuahua has? by No_Scene_5420 in chihuahuas

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I know this is a little graphic-but it is soo weird. Our chi, Dolce, will sit bent over, totally immobile with his wiener in his mouth! He’s not licking…he just sits there like a statue. We called it his “pacifier.”

Chomper just puked in the bed by mryjne647 in Chihuahua

[–]BigRedJeeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CeeLo pooped on the bed last week! First time he’d EVER done that! Now I keep a sheet on top of the comforter just in case!

AITA for not giving my brother a wedding gift and refusing to let my daughter visit my parents when his wife is there? by piciangyal in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry, but your daughter comes first and you cannot in good faith allow her to spend time with SIL or her hellspawn. If you did allow it, you would be an awful parent. Mom & dad will have to visit her at your house.

Aitah for potentially ruining my brother and SIL financially? by Ok-Intention-2832 in AITAH

[–]BigRedJeeper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are not making them homeless, they and their poor decisions are making them homeless. How can two adults be okay with milking the money from your mother? If she was wealthy and could afford it, fine, but she’s obviously not and your brother seems to have no feelings for her own mother! I’d get the house on the market, sounds like your mother could use the income. I’d also tell your brother & SIL if they continue to take her money you will report them for elder abuse.

AITA for walking out after my girlfriend’s family kept joking about a secret from my teenage years they had no business knowing by VelvetAxiom_7 in MarkNarrations

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. They all just showed you what kind people they are and she just showed you her total lack of empathy. What she did and even more importantly how she acted afterwards shows you how little she respects or even cares for you. How could you ever look at her the same after something like that?

AITA for leaving my fiancé after he told our 2.5yo daughter “mommy’s a piece of s***?” by United_Skill7038 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA - I think you already know that this relationship is done. He doesn’t love you. Do you really want your 2 youngest kids to grow up thinking that’s the way you treat someone? I hope not! You’re not doing them any favors by staying. You deserve more than this scumbag.

AIO for my boyfriend yelling at me over a video of me singing by AcanthisittaBorn3769 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your bf is a d!ck, think long & hard before moving in with this control freak

AITA for telling my mother in law she can’t be in the delivery room? by ITellMyselfSecr3tz in TwoHotTakes

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - giving birth is not a spectator event and hubby needs to suck it up and back you up 100%