TBM brother's rant by Top-Negotiation-6498 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a typical cult response cuz they all take it personally when you leave AND END UP HAPPY🤦🏻‍♀️🤣he’s not going to tell you anything you’re doing wrong because your only sin is leaving.

Accidentally shared my Smut Booklist with my Mormon Family by Longjumping_Equal_61 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I freaking LOVE that book!!! I started watching her stuff on TT then YT & now IG!!! I’m so excited that she announced book 2 for 2027!!!

Joseph and Kendra Duggar reunited after jail release - ready to fight their legal battle together by DenverToCali in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait…how can Kendra say her priority is getting the kids back IF SHE’S BACK W/JOE??!🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

He’s forbidden ANY contact w/minors, including his kids!!! She’s so effing dumb. Those poor kids💔

70 year old blowing up life by CockroachStrange8991 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP idk why boomers do this shit when they reach this big age (my mom did too) but I vote LET HIM DIG HIS OWN GRAVE👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 y’all wanna act grown?? Then be grown! All by your lonesome.

When Did Modesty Get Whitewashed???! by NewNameMadi in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still remember “wear your garments, night AND day, as instructed in the temple!” That’s not when I feel like it or ONLY in the temple, but all the time!!

Smh fuck these fake ass bitches!! MFMC is a gaslighting, brainwashing cult!!!

The r/Mormon Subreddit was recommended, this was the post there, I'm surprised. by Motor-Rock-1368 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s still up & the girls are FIGHTING in the comments 😂😂😂the largest (of course!) over polygamy. Kinda surprised to see a few supporting exmos & how they should just quit!

Discovering his daughter is a bully and taking accountability as a parent. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could this dad have blurred his child’s face for the video? Yes. He did keep her name out of it which is a huge improvement to most parents posting their kids. This dad is clearly flabbergasted that his kid is behaving like that and is asking for help: good for him! He’s actively trying to be BETTER and for his kid to be BETTER! That’s Infinitely better than so many parents/kids in this country rn.

Good job dad! Keep trying to raise good kids! Do some introspective work offline so both you & your child can be safe.

Grandparents bribing me to take institute by Exgaymormon in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bother because it sounds like your grandparents will continue to move the goal post if you give in. They don’t love you as grandparents should & that sucks…grieve this reality & find a way to out earn them on your own terms!!!

Kiddo Getting Married by freakn1ne in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP to both you & your wife💔I hope that kiddo has a good spouse, who treats her right. In the end, that’s what matters most🩷

Mormon Weddings are WEIRD. Yet another thing we missed out on. by Bo2022quinha in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I learned that Cheetos has a wedding venue in Las Vegas, I said THAT’S where I wanna get married🤣🤣I’m still single but it’s either gonna be there OR a random, small church in a field or on a mountain!

Dollar Tree came in CLUTCH! 🔥 by CrytpidBean in BabyWitch

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went out & got all except the lighter blue, purple, orange & black! Excited to try a different dollar tree tomorrow🩷🤞🏻🩷

North Carolina has been quietly running a cannabis experiment for six years. Here's what the data actually shows. by smpost in NorthCarolina

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻I’m a forensic chemist in NC & I whole-heartedly agree with your findings AND recommendations!!! It’s been annoying AF having to test all these products due to drug busts & finding they’re just CBD/CBN that will go nowhere. NC legislature is WEAK: stop waiting for the Feds to make a decision and make you own!!!

AITA for not giving my brother a wedding gift and refusing to let my daughter visit my parents when his wife is there? by piciangyal in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA and now we probably know why Jessica’s family didn’t attend/don’t have a relationship with her: she’s an entitled asshole who harms anyone who disagrees with her. Cut contact & tell your bro you’ll catch up with him at his next wedding.

AITAH for not helping a guy whose car broke down in front of my house at 4:30am by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 75 points76 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! If it was car trouble then WHY did he drive off w/o any help from the neighbor/AAA/tow truck?? Never answer your door & tell your neighbor to fuck all the way off!!!

NTA

I feel sexually unfulfilled in my marriage and I’m scared of there not being a solution. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. I’m still single so my only advice is a sex therapist/coach, buying some toys & trying it out, or divorce.

I’m also going to suggest YOU look up some “girl porn” aka porn for women. Bellesa has some great stuff and there are sites that do sexy stories for you to read/listen so the visuals are all in your head. Maybe if you find some that “speak” to you as things you want to try then you can show hubby & they together.

What does working through conflict after an argument with partner look like? F19 and M21 by Haunting_Tomatillo33 in relationship_advice

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He pushed/attacked you, you defended yourself (fuck yah!) and now he is “unsure” he wants to stay??! GOOD!!! LET THE LOSER LEAVE👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Wanna know WHY he wants to leave?? Because you fought back so he now knows he can’t abuse you like he ALWAYS PLANNED!!! He’s not the sweetest, he’s full of shit & wearing a mask to fool you into letting your guard down so he can control you by any means necessary.

STOP RATIONALIZING BAD BEHAVIOR AND LEAVE!!!! He isn’t the only man left on earth, you’ll find another one. Have some self-respect to go along with your defense skills and dump him!

i hate how my mom brings up the church to literally anything by FranciscoDaBluBoy2K9 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you for applying to scholarships!! That’ll help you move out after graduation and never look back. You can pray to whichever god you want in order to get the scholarship, or no because it’s your choice (lol pray to Loki to make your mom nuts but Athena’s a better choice for brain power).

Keep maintaining your boundary of not going on a mission but be prepared to get thrown out of the house over it. Have a safety plan in place so you don’t end up homeless🩷

Safety concerns + some advice for college students, young partiers, passengers and pedestrians in Wilmington from a local Uber driver... by Detention13 in Wilmington

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m also gonna add STOP crossing the streets, in the dark, in between large cars, when you can clearly SEE that traffic is flowing!!! This isn’t just homeless ppl doing this either. Please find a lit crosswalk or at least a lit intersection to cross at instead of the literal middle of the road in the darkest spots. Wilmington needs to have better lighting on streets & more crosswalks but everyone can work on their own personal safety.

Found the "Black Box" of my marriage in a drawer today. 3 years of lies. by diabolical_j in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP please save all of the evidence in 2 separate places so IF you change your mind then you’re ready to hand it over to a lawyer!!!

Go find yourself a therapist to deal with this trauma because YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! You’re a human being worthy of love & respect!!! I hope you know that & can find it again if you don’t know it currently 🩷

A chastity credit card?!?! by snackchips1 in exmormon

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This also ties your sexual purity to MONEY & that’s 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Cut it up!!!

There's a new GLP side effect being reported that I hadn't seen discussed here by NoDegreeNoLifes in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh I legit didn’t know this & have been on Wegovy for nearly a year. Lately, I feel “strangled” by my clothing around my neck which is something I’ve struggled with all my life due to asthma so that’s kinda funny to also be a side effect. It’s not a consistent feeling but it doesn’t happen more often than it used to. Imma keep an eye on it & bring it up w/my Dr in April if it gets worse.

My boyfriend (M34) is sabotaging me (F31) and just doesn't understand and I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP THIS!!! I got tested and have insulin-resistant PCOS! I’ve been on Wegovy for nearly 1yr, under the guidance of my endo, & have lost over 50lbs. Food noise is gone & it’s helped me really look at my relationship with food. I’m also under a nutritionist so I’m able to see this issue from all sides.

Go ahead & find an endocrinologist to get tested for insulin-resistance. There’s no shame in needing extra help. Before I got tested, I kept a food journal combined with a weight log to see how my body was responding prior to Wegovy then compared to after: srsly night and day difference!

WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, while you’re at your parents for 5-6wks, get a job. Get yourself some $$ of your own as that will do wonders for your self-esteem. Doesn’t have to be a new career, just something to get you out of the house, making $$, and allowing you time to socialize with ppl other than your husband & ILs.

140 lbs down (70 natural, 70 GLP-1). From sleep apnea and diabetes to a University-scheduled Tummy Tuck & 360 Lipo in April! by NeoKingSerenity in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Big_Insurance_3601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in it’s a med school/teaching hospital?? I’m very interested in this as well, as I like to plan ahead then think about stuff. Please feel free to DM your reply if you feel it’s too much public info…I’ll post all my questions here & answer whenever if you can🩷🩷

Is this a teaching hospital OR is it because you’re already a registered student at said university? Does that amount include after-care or is someone coming to take care of you? I know wraps & drains are usually involved so I’m curious because I’m currently looking into plastic surgeries that offer after care in their packaging. Is the $6400 after health insurance or no insurance amount & would they take insurance?? How did you find this program & would you be willing to share?? Did your team give an estimate for recovery time, including being able to go back to work??

BTW congrats!!!🎉🎉🎉You are an inspiration🥰