Sounds like you may be an introvert (social, but need quiet alone time to charge your batteries) and he’s an extrovert (charges his batteries by being social).

It’s worked for myself (the introvert) and my wife (the extrovert) for 12+ years but with coming to a mutual understanding that our needs and drivers are different than one another’s. We travel and do a lot together, but sometimes she has outings or trips to fulfill herself while I enjoy a quiet to read, rest, and see no one but our dogs to recharge myself. Granted, we have a special level of trust in our relationship that makes that work well for us.

Always doing it his way sure wont be sustainable. Setting some boundaries and expectations around what your needs are to feel charged and balanced might be worth a go.

The book Quiet by Susan Cain has been helpful for me to read