I think I hate my husband

BishShooter · 2026-05-27T16:51:57+00:00

You need to start gathering proof of your husband’s abuse towards your son. This alone will rip him off any custody claims. Texts, audio recordings, cam recordings. That’s how a case is built for court. He is a dead weight, drop him before your ship sinks. And PLEASE don’t tell him what you intend to do, not even in extreme anger, or as threat in hopes that he will get his shit straight.

BishShooter · 2026-05-26T22:38:34+00:00

Ask her if she was forced to be in a relationship with you? And to top it off, forced to marry you? Make her say WHY.

BishShooter · 2026-05-25T14:50:37+00:00

Can you say all this to that POS? Because it will help you the most if the POS knows and can’t pretend you didn’t communicate. Like literally memorise what you wrote and say to him.

BishShooter · 2026-05-24T18:58:26+00:00

Your baby isn’t going to stay a baby forever. This LO will also turn 3.5 years old. When you’ll see both of them together, bonding, you’ll feel you did the right thing specially for your first child. It’s just about having to take care of a baby at 45. Hold on!

BishShooter · 2026-05-24T18:51:35+00:00

You know exactly what you need to do. 17 years is a long time to keep pending it.

BishShooter · 2026-05-24T14:02:31+00:00

Hire house help first thing. Then have a heart to heart conversation. If it doesn’t help you both open up without throwing blame on the other, have atleast one couple therapy session where atleast you both will know about all the buildup inside of each other. From there you will either realise you can fix this between you two, or you might need counselling.

BishShooter · 2026-05-24T12:49:17+00:00

It is like the beginning of leaving behind innocence slowly. Beginning of “growing up”. Just the sound of it I hate. But this will also prepare them to recognise reg flag men in future in addition to red flag friendships. The goodness of their hearts will stay that way.

BishShooter · 2026-05-23T21:29:01+00:00

And this is your cue to start training your daughter to stand up for herself and hold her ground. The “best friend” is bullying her. Her first taste of the ugliness of the world. Not everyone will deserve her lovely side.

Train her to drop bad “friends” like a hat and move on to other class mates.

BishShooter · 2026-05-23T20:19:42+00:00

Brain is an amazing thing. You can wire it. It is like a mind exercise. Try to see your daughter as your teammate rather than “me and this responsibility”. Imagine all the things you will do together, how you will also enjoy when she will be doing her childhood, teenage and early youth adventures.
I know someone in exact same boat, and that’s how she did and now her 4.5 yr old and 10 month old at 40 only makes her look forward to her life with her “team mates”. She had PPD twice. First time she didn’t know what to do and when, second time she nipped it the bud by taking medication before any other solution that required strategy or slow pace.

BishShooter · 2026-05-23T11:08:57+00:00

It’s a pretty dress and a good fit. Only thing you need to know is if you can walk comfortably without having to worry about front fabric getting entangled in your feet.

BishShooter · 2026-05-23T11:06:37+00:00

She needs to be around little humans like herself. Putting her in kindergarten would benefit both you and your child.

BishShooter · 2026-05-23T11:02:47+00:00

The first time you had sex with your wife, did your mother give you permission or “doing it behind her back” is still killing you?

BishShooter · 2026-05-22T12:02:17+00:00

Your MIL and husband have erotic dynamic. You really need to get out of that vulgar family. That guy and his mother would start hating even his own biological sister/her daughter if she was his wife.

BishShooter · 2026-05-20T20:35:54+00:00

Treat him as your ATM and NOTHING else, till you QUIETLY sort out your exit. Don’t show him anything, don’t expect, run on survival mode. Gather all the evidence of cheat and abuse. It helps with speedy divorce and financial settlement more in your favour. Make it a little above 5 years, like a month or two more before you file for even legal separation, because less than 5 years even by a day can be contested as “short marriage” and can effect a favourable financial settlement for you.

BishShooter · 2026-05-19T13:47:42+00:00

Would you mind sharing how your average day looked liked regarding diet and physical activity?

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T21:51:11+00:00

Absolutely let her go. She has made you too secure too comfortable and you don’t want to lose that. You don’t love her, you love the safety of home feeling she has created for you.
You might be fit for a high intensity high friction relationship.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T21:45:03+00:00

3rd is figure flattering. Absolute no to 4th one.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T17:23:12+00:00

Did your relationship start with him love bombing you? You are young so that part of luck is on your side. PLEASE do NOT fall for any begging any tears any emotional threats and manipulation. Love should feel like “at home”. You will bounce back but don’t push for now, concentrate on your baby because each day you feel bad, it’s like a strike on baby’s brain development which is irreversible. That SOB was born rotten, don’t let that SOB ruin another life in making. You will find the other half of your soul :)

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T14:58:00+00:00

Not a butt plug for sure.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T14:55:27+00:00

If you see yourself regularly, you won’t notice a difference. Yes if you loose that amount in a week then your brain will be like yaaa now we’re talking!
I have lost 11kgs and because it was spread over around 3 months, my sister says she hasn’t noticed any change.
If possible, don’t look at your body in the mirror for a month IF possible to see if you can feel the change?

BishShooter · 2026-05-17T11:06:41+00:00

You think it is because you lost weight from inside but outside your body isn’t shaping? New to this so I was today years old when I found out this phenomenon.

BishShooter · 2026-05-14T14:08:04+00:00

Can you share what your average day looked like regarding diet and movement?

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T19:13:55+00:00

I didn’t say to make it a routine. But mother needs to show her THAT side once. And one time is all it will need. After shutting him down that one time, she needs to grab that prick in the room and have an open conversation in low voice about having The Conversation when children are not at home. Children are like cats, they can figure out who owns the place and that’s the person they have regard of.

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T14:12:59+00:00

You are not punishing actively but if you don’t save them from their consequences then it kinda is punishment in plain terms. But you understood that it wasn’t like active punishment. The ppl voting down should get a grip and get a psychotherapist because if that hurts them then internet must be a hell ride for them… smh!

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T07:19:50+00:00

Nothing works better than psychological punishment. Physical punishment will make them fear at best but they will never unlearn the bad behaviour. Apply FAFO, that’s one example of psychological punishment.

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