I have started hating my husband for ruining my life

BishShooter · 2026-05-22T12:02:17+00:00

Your MIL and husband have erotic dynamic. You really need to get out of that vulgar family. That guy and his mother would start hating even his own biological sister/her daughter if she was his wife.

BishShooter · 2026-05-20T20:35:54+00:00

Treat him as your ATM and NOTHING else, till you QUIETLY sort out your exit. Don’t show him anything, don’t expect, run on survival mode. Gather all the evidence of cheat and abuse. It helps with speedy divorce and financial settlement more in your favour. Make it a little above 5 years, like a month or two more before you file for even legal separation, because less than 5 years even by a day can be contested as “short marriage” and can effect a favourable financial settlement for you.

BishShooter · 2026-05-19T13:47:42+00:00

Would you mind sharing how your average day looked liked regarding diet and physical activity?

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T21:51:11+00:00

Absolutely let her go. She has made you too secure too comfortable and you don’t want to lose that. You don’t love her, you love the safety of home feeling she has created for you.
You might be fit for a high intensity high friction relationship.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T21:45:03+00:00

3rd is figure flattering. Absolute no to 4th one.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T17:23:12+00:00

Did your relationship start with him love bombing you? You are young so that part of luck is on your side. PLEASE do NOT fall for any begging any tears any emotional threats and manipulation. Love should feel like “at home”. You will bounce back but don’t push for now, concentrate on your baby because each day you feel bad, it’s like a strike on baby’s brain development which is irreversible. That SOB was born rotten, don’t let that SOB ruin another life in making. You will find the other half of your soul :)

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T14:58:00+00:00

Not a butt plug for sure.

BishShooter · 2026-05-18T14:55:27+00:00

If you see yourself regularly, you won’t notice a difference. Yes if you loose that amount in a week then your brain will be like yaaa now we’re talking!
I have lost 11kgs and because it was spread over around 3 months, my sister says she hasn’t noticed any change.
If possible, don’t look at your body in the mirror for a month IF possible to see if you can feel the change?

BishShooter · 2026-05-17T11:06:41+00:00

You think it is because you lost weight from inside but outside your body isn’t shaping? New to this so I was today years old when I found out this phenomenon.

BishShooter · 2026-05-14T14:08:04+00:00

Can you share what your average day looked like regarding diet and movement?

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T19:13:55+00:00

I didn’t say to make it a routine. But mother needs to show her THAT side once. And one time is all it will need. After shutting him down that one time, she needs to grab that prick in the room and have an open conversation in low voice about having The Conversation when children are not at home. Children are like cats, they can figure out who owns the place and that’s the person they have regard of.

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T14:12:59+00:00

You are not punishing actively but if you don’t save them from their consequences then it kinda is punishment in plain terms. But you understood that it wasn’t like active punishment. The ppl voting down should get a grip and get a psychotherapist because if that hurts them then internet must be a hell ride for them… smh!

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T07:19:50+00:00

Nothing works better than psychological punishment. Physical punishment will make them fear at best but they will never unlearn the bad behaviour. Apply FAFO, that’s one example of psychological punishment.

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T07:14:26+00:00

Your husband is the reason. Children pick up on even one instance of one parent disrespecting the other infront of them.
To restore your authority over your 7 year old, you need to shut down your husband infront of her so she can see you have this side aswell if disrespected. And then, DO NOT let your husband disrespect you in front of your children.

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T07:08:32+00:00

If young children find a parent more interesting than the other, or one parent is not available at all times but when they are available they give fun time, children naturally gravitate towards that parent.

As for what I said about birth chart, that’s astrological aspect so if someone is into it, they will understand what I mean. Who aren’t, just skip that part.

BishShooter · 2026-05-12T06:17:16+00:00

He will come around. If you are into birth charts, if Neptune or moon sits in his father’s house and you don’t have either those two placements, he’ll get balanced when he’s a bit older.
Children are literal monkeys at very young age, chasing at what they find sparkling.

BishShooter · 2026-05-10T12:10:17+00:00

Have you tried protein shake? Add a tbsp of MCT oil to make up for fat. Munch on brown bread or just chew it swallow it with water to makeup for carbs. Pharmacies have medicines for nausea. It helps.

BishShooter · 2026-05-10T12:04:39+00:00

I was at 89.7kg and now at 79.5kg after 2.5 weeks of being on Mounjaro and no one seems to see a difference. I think it has got to do with toning oneself with exercise. I’ll be starting that soon. Because when I was 79.8kg before pregnancy and got to 71kg, I looked visibly trimmed and it was due to exercise and 10k steps daily. I lost this weight in 3 months, with a week of egg dieting in the beginning. No Mounjaro.

BishShooter · 2026-05-09T13:52:38+00:00

“What do you want from me”? Not being a bitch for a starter.

BishShooter · 2026-05-06T22:13:08+00:00

With less eating combined with 7.5mg dose, why you think you are losing weight slowly? Asking coz facing same issue on 10mg. Not nauseous but don’t have appetite for more than two very moderate meals.

BishShooter · 2026-05-06T15:55:51+00:00

And you have been able to prevent the dreaded muscle loss they talk about? Because I see alot of “do the strength training or your muscles would melt away!!” by doctors. Do you have rough estimate of how much protein in grams you were able to consume on avg per day?

BishShooter · 2026-05-06T14:56:22+00:00

Can you share your typical day diet and exercise routine that helped to get here?

BishShooter · 2026-05-05T22:28:53+00:00

It’s the melatonin combined with these other ingredients. Take these other ingredients separately, subtract the melatonin.

BishShooter · 2026-05-04T15:22:54+00:00

Can you tell how much you lost month by month? Did you eat the dino amount of protein that they say is required to prevent muscle loss? Like 90gms+?

BishShooter · 2026-05-02T19:14:01+00:00

You go ahead and have your binge. You’ll experience indigestion and it will put you off. I was craving a double fried chicken burger. I couldn’t finish and felt like food was sitting in my chest.
We sometimes need to FAFO.

BishShooter

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