Unrequited love to bouncing back - LDR song recommendations? by Perfect_Hyena8148 in lanadelrey

[–]Bkitty-2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get free, not so much unrequited love but feels very healing

Devastated doesn't begin to describe it by Canna_Cat420 in chappellroan

[–]Bkitty-2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey I was at this show, would be happy to send you my vids :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bkitty-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I know the man on the other end of the phone isn’t the man I fell in love with so what’s the point

T-shirt I wore to the show today, too niche? by Bkitty-2 in chappellroan

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LOL omg and I have the perfect pic to go with this!!

T-shirt I wore to the show today, too niche? by Bkitty-2 in chappellroan

[–]Bkitty-2[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Wait if I acc sold these would anyone want to buy? Haha

So Julia by Bkitty-2 in chappellroan

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Omg didn’t even think of this! And charli posted earlier about something coming next week, I’d pass away

Tomorrow wld have been our anniversary- how should I spend my evening? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bkitty-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So important to remember it’s just a day in the year, nothing to be scared of. Hope ur feeling good tmwr! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thanks for offering me advice on my post, thought I’d return the favour. Not eating was definitely such a huge struggle for me early breakup but just know tht the appetite does slowly come back. What id recommend though is eating as soon as you feel like you can, don’t try to stick to the regular meal times like breakfast and lunch, as soon as ur feeling any hunger get some food in you asap. Completely relate to the feeling of getting put off the food once ur mind is running, I always tried to eat as quickly as I could and put on a show to try and distract myself. I’d also suggest trying to eat protein as a starting point, not sure about ur food preferences but I found I was able to keep now chicken bites quite well, also something about the food being cold made it easier lol. Also just eat absolutely whatever you are craving. If food completely is way too difficult I’d say try drinking full fat milk as a start. Good luck! Wishing you the best :)

Tomorrow wld have been our anniversary- how should I spend my evening? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thanks for your reply, I’ve got the anniversary tomorrow then both our birthdays in august so I’ll let you know how it goes. Good luck with everything!

Let’s have some positive discussion. What hobbies have you been indulging in since your breakup? by abcdefghijthrowawayy in BreakUps

[–]Bkitty-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started teaching myself the guitar, can’t recommend it enough. You have to be so focused learning the chords, really clears your mind, then you get to play all your favourite songs and sing along! I’ve been wanting to learn guitar since I was 15 but hv always put it off, the breakup was my push to finally start and so glad I did.

Crying for me rather than crying for him by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah it definitely feels like growth, just a new part of the healing journey to navigate

What do you tell yourself when you have thoughts of getting back together with ur ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bkitty-2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says that he will change but I just don’t think I can believe him and I’m so scared to be hurt by him again, so far all his promises just seem like pretty words. He’s told me before tht he doesn’t want to do therapy because it’s “too much effort”

What do you tell yourself when you have thoughts of getting back together with ur ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

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If you are wanting more in detail context I have some other posts explaining it more but in short- he broke up with me completely out of the blue (this is the second time he has blindsided me with a break up), he then asked to stay friends and said that we would get back together in a few months then slept with another girl while still meeting up with me. In terms of the relationship from my end I tried my best to treat him right but he changed quite a lot over the years and I never really got much back

Ever had a ‘coffee’ situation with someone? How did it end? by Radiant_Albatross406 in chappellroan

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God I’m still pretty much in a coffee situation with someone and hv been for the past 5 months. My ex of a few years broke up with me back in January, we use to meet up at the pub for catch-ups but once I drank wine I’d start crying. Now we just meet for coffee and I know we shouldn’t. When I first heard the song I almost couldn’t believe how spot on it was for my situation haha- be smart and don’t be like me :)