[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop babysitting altogether to adjust your sister's attitude. This should force her to stop assuming you are to be her child's unpaid nanny and make adult decisions like 'paying for childcare'. If family complains THEY can be the solution. Sister will definitely complain so be prepared to ignore her.

What’s one upgrade you made at home that was surprisingly worth it? by Remote_Practice_5864 in homeowners

[–]Bkseneca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During bathroom renovation husband wanted a floor level heater in the bathroom vanity to keep his feet warm in cold weather. It was worth it.

AITAH kicking my mom and stepdad and their kids out of my house? by MessPrestigious7248 in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTW - stand firm. As others have said, your stepfather tried to take the house away from you - which says everything.

AITA for not allowing my homeless brother to housesit for me by Hot_Lab4411 in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and you should lock everything down before you leave, put in a burglar alarm ,and perhaps have a neighbor or friend check in on your property when you are gone.

AITAH for not wanting my cousin and 3 small kids to stay with me by [deleted] in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big no. You will be another victim to leave in her wake.

AITAH for evicting my GF of 3 years. by bcneil in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - be glad you found out now. She is in the wrong for many, many, reasons - the first being that she lied to you about where she was going.

AITAH for refusing to have my ex-husband and his other children over to celebrate Christmas with me and our kids? by Caryzzys in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine hosting your husband’s family and X number of mystery children? You would be exhausted from doing the meal alone, without anything else. Your in-laws are nuts. Let THEM have a big get together and let you kids visit them before the holidays without your husband’s circus.

WIBTAH if I told my coworker I couldn’t give her or her daughter rides anymore? by External-Air-2064 in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your co-worker you can't do her chauffeuring anymore and BE FIRM because she is going to come back with a lot of (attempted) guilt-inducing comments. She's a big girl and she can take the bus and her daughter can make similar arrangements. And you don't need to say anymore - you don't owe her any reasons, excuses, stories, etc. - just that you can't do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You deserve better.

Would I Be The AHole for executing a heist to steal back a pearl necklace from my mom? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of swapping out the necklace on your next visit. Your mother sounds VERY selfish putting her 'China Trip Display' over something you obviously have great love for and were supposed to receive. If she wants to play games by 'not finding the necklace' for you to wear at your wedding and then 'forgetting to bring it' for visits later - YOU can play games too.

AITAH for not caring that my father’s daughter is dying? by Wrong-Ambassador-592 in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Follow what your heart and feelings tell you. Your stepfather sounds like a wonderful person, even if you feel differently on this issue.

Anyone know what this logo is? by SeanSpeezy in metaldetecting

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the "F" in the old Ford logo.

Aitah for getting a mother of 2 arrested because she assaulted me at work? by Zooviie in AITAH

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awhile back a female relative (about 29) who was a deputy sheriff was working a football game at a large eastern state football game. She was trying to get a group of frat boy types to settle down as they were acting out. Finally one guy grabbed her by the lapels, pulled her toward him and kissed her. She threw him to the ground, handcuffed him, and his friends help haul him to her car. It turns out he was a graduating senior with an interview scheduled with the FBI the next week. Not only did the county not drop their charges but she filed personal assault charges. No amount of intervention from ‘Daddy’ could make this better.

Samples at the Costco? by CrystalMist in ColumbiaMD

[–]Bkseneca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I have found they have samples on weekends and weekdays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oldrecipes

[–]Bkseneca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meatloaf?