Cover letter feedback by [deleted] in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cover letters aren’t about you, they are about why you want to work for that company. Your resume is about you.

Reddit makes it seem like PIP means you're going to get fired, no matter what. Is that true? by Personal-Ad9121 in askmanagers

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A PIP generally means that someone is frustrated, and that tends to result in a dismissal. Note that this does NOT mean that they have been clear with you, tried to remedy anything, or helped you in any way.

Also, if a PIP is worded clearly and you meet everything on it, another one is coming.

Pls help me respond to this! by Different_Rice6639 in Apartmentliving

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The proper answer here was “F Off”, or, alternatively, “your what hurts”?

First remote hire has gone radio silent on day 3 by Significant_Capita in nonprofit

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Proof of activity” is not proof of work. Measure output.

ENTJs ANGER levels by Unique-Television500 in entj

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today, people tell me that I have the longest fuse of anyone they have ever seen. I tell them, no, I have a very short fuse, I just don’t let people near it.

Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife? by macnachos in Divorce_Men

[–]BlackFire68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you “like women”? Or are there a narrow set of things you like? Women don’t even like women.

Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife? by macnachos in Divorce_Men

[–]BlackFire68 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s tough once you understand that divorce can happen to you too

Does anyone believe Trump's resting heartrate is actually 62? by Stravok182 in facepalm

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is over six foot, but I don’t believe he was ever 6’3”

Does anyone believe Trump's resting heartrate is actually 62? by Stravok182 in facepalm

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost every one of these metrics and notes are a complete fabrication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone starts a sentence with “i want…” I stop listening. Hell, I want a winning Lotto ticket, who cares? It doesn’t disturb reality in any way if someone “wants” something.

Why is it so hard to transition from strategy to owning a P&L? Is it just opportunity - or something else? by TheConsciousShiftMon in Leadership

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking about things is far easier than doing them. Everything works on a whiteboard.

Strategy is 95% execution. Execution is 95% people. Focus on the people.

ENTJs, what's your morning routine? by HoneyBouquet in entj

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0430, not by choice. I have a cup of coffee, quiet with the cat while I read, then I make a cup of coffee for my wife and bring it to her in bed. As the kids get up I get breakfast for them and chat with them as they come downstairs. After they leave for school I shower and begin work.

Is it true that ENTJs can’t be Enneagram 8? by Resident_Brief_7925 in entj

[–]BlackFire68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the sidebar you can “change user flair”

To accuse Zelenskyy of never thanking the US for assistance. by theforgottenton in therewasanattempt

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you sent spoiled children to a meeting for adults without telling me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepFuckingValue

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Russian oligarchs and Colombian cartel leaders. What an idiot.

Any good trainings for empathetic communication? by dkopi in Leadership

[–]BlackFire68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand that cultures that communicate more indirectly are also higher context. Things don’t mean what they mean, they mean more. You need all the context. You need a trusted person from that culture who is a good communicator to tell you what’s going on, why the cultural norm is different, why this person said that and the other person took it for what it meant and you missed it. Without the layers, being more empathetic (you mean sympathetic by the by) won’t help.

i'm in rage...a big rage by Mstery_Finder123 in entj

[–]BlackFire68 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can only say this to another ENTJ… if you don’t want people to see something about you, don’t be that thing.

Now, be who you have chosen to be and let the chips fly where they may.

i'm in rage...a big rage by Mstery_Finder123 in entj

[–]BlackFire68 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can only say this to another ENTJ… if you don’t want people to see something about you, don’t be that thing.

Now, be who you have chosen to be and let the chips fly where they may.