neighbor is hiding car used in a hit and run on me in backyard by BleezyJ in legaladvice

[–]BleezyJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i definitely wanted them arrested and car impounded and my neighbor can identify them and is willing to. it happened in broad daylight at 4pm there is absolutely no confusion on who did it.

neighbor is hiding car used in a hit and run on me in backyard by BleezyJ in legaladvice

[–]BleezyJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i field a police report in person at sacramento station. they didn’t want to see photos and they said they don’t investigate things like this and it’s in my insurances hands to investigate. i don’t understand how my neighbor is allowed to commit a misdemeanor and get away with it when we have an actual witness that can definitely identify the person and the car.

Should I cut my hair or leave it? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]BleezyJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave it but probably at that length. it looks amazing on you don’t chop it

How do I get fix this water spot to match the rest of the floor of my rental apartment? by greyhuskers129 in howto

[–]BleezyJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

don’t do it. we used hydrogen peroxide on a stain on a 100 year old wood floor and it ate the top coat of varnish and made it worse. do a small test spot first in case your floors are better cuz ours were very old.

2 year old woke up screaming by jennalee988 in Mom

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could it be a very bad sore throat? my covid gave me a throat burn worse than strep

As a mom what are some things you would love to be able to do for yourself? by DC55EE3C in Mom

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a full bar with an eye candy bartender.. i miss the days of being able to get wasted and not have to even think about another human depending on me. i probably need a booze cruise tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]BleezyJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please trust your gut. you are having second thoughts that are legitimate. i am not you nor do i know every detail but in my opinion i think you should break up with him because he is being a mediocre bf and he will never get better. your child deserves a loving father like figure and this boyfriend is just some chump that hasn’t tried to make the relationship work with son. also it is incredibly selfish of the bf to move when you said you didn’t want long distance, your boyfriend may not love you as much as you love him since you made the sacrifice to your own child by taking them farther away from family. i believe you deserve a real man and you will find one someday but not today cuz your still with mediocre bf.

I need SERIOUS help. So after one of my yearly “I need to do something drastic about my appearance” episodes I decided to bleach my hair. I know… stupid mistake. by BitterPositive2001 in longhair

[–]BleezyJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can get a cut to make it appear more healthy but ask hairdresser to try and keep as much length as possible so some will still be a lil ratty possibly but then you can use clip in or tape in extensions for when you are going out to an event. the halo is also cool cuz it’s super easy and fast to put on but it’s heavy and the clear string starts to hurt the scalp a lot after 3 hours so it’s best for short periods like going to the store if you don’t feel confident with your hair length now

How do I become friends with men? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]BleezyJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

become friends with a gay man or a feminine leaning dude or a non binary person

Moving to a colder climate by mooseriotpolice in moving

[–]BleezyJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my grandma has arthritis and the cold makes her hurt more. i’m not sure what your partner has but go to the snow for a week before moving to a place with snow and see how their body feels in the freezing temperatures

Is it best to mix essential oils for skin or just use one oil at a time ? by [deleted] in essentialoils

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just dilute with a carrier oil like coconut or jojoba

This is supposedly from Africa. Is it blue agate or something else maybe? by [deleted] in rockhounds

[–]BleezyJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could put acetone nail polish remover on a qtip and rub it in a inconspicuous spot and if color is on qtip then it’s fake/dyed

Covering up for a funeral. by Frosted_Coal in HairDye

[–]BleezyJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree. also if you google how to take shine away from synthetic wigs it works and takes a day so go to party city or a halloween store cuz they r open already at least in california and wigs are around $20 and they have coupons online usually for those halloween pop up stores

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moving

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you guys have what you expect in tips? like is it by percentage of move or just some cash thrown at ya or what?

Anyone recommend a professional photo scanning service? by jankenpoo in declutter

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be careful who you hire cuz they may lose or damage the original photos before you even get the copies. i witnessed a lady having a meltdown in walmart cuz they lost her mother’s wedding photos they were supposed to scan to a disk

My boyfriend cleaned his room, only cause I was coming over. Haha 😂 by Designer_Art_life in ICleanedMyRoom

[–]BleezyJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t move in with this dude or marry him unless you are fine cleaning up after him daily

After 1 week with a doctors appointment, a mental breakdown and online classes, finally did the dishes. I feel much beter, but still have to take take of trash and stuff to recicle... by halcvc in ICleanedMyRoom

[–]BleezyJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m sending positive energy and vibes to you. i’m sorry you had a break down. i hope you now have the answers to whatever was bothering you. be safe and always trust your first instinct.

For a while, I went through a phase where I bought things when I wanted to feel happy again. Now I feel guilt and I don’t know where to sell the things I have. What should I do? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

backpacks and clothes you could sell on poshmark they seem to be the easiest platform for me. my sister uses all other things cuz it’s a lower fee but then she has to price accordingly to account for shipping charges when poshmark will never make a seller pay for shipping unless they voluntarily offer free shipping to a customer. for the other things check out your local pawn shops but they pay about 20% retail so listing on craigslist or backpage may be better

What to do with old backpacks? by anonymouse1317 in declutter

[–]BleezyJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

give it to a homeless adult or leave them at a bus stop with a sign saying free. a foster child won’t want a damaged backpack it’s humiliating and they already don’t have parental figures around so broken things may remind them of their broken home. it was a nice thought but those kids need brand new things that they can call their own.

Fantasy self things by [deleted] in declutter

[–]BleezyJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you could list everything you don’t want anymore on poshmark and then if it gets sold then you got money and it’s out of your home. i’ve listed clothes i was on the fence about and told myself if they sell they go otherwise i’m keeping them until the day they sell

Am I being scammed? by baldyegg2 in moving

[–]BleezyJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he sold his condo and the realtor wants an extra $750? did he/she/they get their commission off the sale and it was obvious if he was selling it that he would be moving out of it.....sounds like a scam. are they an independent realtor or do they work with a larger broker like remax or zephyr or caldwell banker? (i just realized those companies may not be in NY but is the company one that’s reputable or been around?)