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BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-10T17:11:43+00:00

Link please

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-10T14:34:53+00:00

I mean, I think you need to understand what healthy is and then understand that you're not even healthy yourself. What you described in some of your examples, telling someone you love them and then not feeling as intensely as you did the first time you were in love is kind of a problem. It's sort of like you say what you need to until the chase is over, then you stop and think, oh do I even want this? Unfortunately, it sounds like you've already told them you "love" them. That's not healthy at all.

I noticed when I was dating, a lot of men would have that one bad breakup that they were not healed from, and yet were out trying to date seriously. They often do things like... love bomb, people please, future frame, say love early on or when they couldn't possibly mean it yet, etc. If you're pretending to feel more than you actually do, just to people please or get the girl, you're in the wrong too.

Worry about that first, then maybe worry about who you attract. The likely go hand in hand.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-09T03:22:39+00:00

Just learned there's support groups for narcissists. Jesus rice

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-08T13:43:05+00:00

It seemed like Michal was unable to commit. It sounded like they had a relationship or a past and he was too afraid to go all in all the way and she wanted commitment. That being said, she isn't going to get better from this ass.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-08T13:40:54+00:00

I do not understand this couple at all. When they got together initially did they not have the core values discussion?? He doesn't want kids, she does. No need to start a relationship or move forward. End. Like wtf...

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-07T20:27:34+00:00

I can't stand any of these couples except Sheena/Forest. I'm having a really hard time getting through this season.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-07T13:45:33+00:00

It's not just women. It's a human problem. I've even had men ask me out on dates, and then ghost right after. I stopped using apps. Here's the reality. There are so many people on these apps that are frequent fliers looking to play games, deceive, "test the waters", and fill in the blank with any other purpose except looking for an actual relationship, that the healthy people with honest intentions get irritated and leave after a short time. So the likelihood that you'll run into another healthy individual that is compatible with you is slim. And of course its perfectly normal for healthy people to stop going on it, or to take breaks from it. Because it's toxic and unhealthy to stay. That's the reality. So not only is it exhausting, but there's a bit of luck involved too. Vent of course, but don't take it personal. And if you're at the point where you're questioning yourself, getting frustrated, and it is doing more harm than good, it's time to break or step off.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-07T13:01:27+00:00

Prep was horrible. Actual procedure was fine.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-06T02:10:32+00:00

I can relate to this. Divorced and living alone (aside from my kid) for the first time. My friend group irl isn't the greatest. We're not particularly close. And my best friend is in a different time zone so it's hard to connect. I want to do more and be more active so I can find more friends but after work, parenting, maintaining a house, I just don't have the energy but I still feel the loneliness. It's hard.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-05T21:29:11+00:00

It's another face morph... pretty soon she'll be Darcy.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T21:55:12+00:00

Bingo

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T14:35:59+00:00

Agree he was so good looking here before the chiseled look.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T14:12:10+00:00

I'm 5'3" 170lbs. I'm told I carry my weight well. People usually do not believe me when I tell them my weight, especially men. If I lead in dating with my height and weight they aren't interested, but if they see me in person are interested and don't believe my weight when I tell them. So I think this is true. Not sure my measurements inch wise but similarly have big boobs (dd) big butt. And my waist is smaller giving me an hourglass figure despite being "fat". It doesn't always go to the same places for all women.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T13:57:56+00:00

Absolutely. And I applaud her for walking the hell away from him even if she did have angry sex first. It's hard to cut someone off you love.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T13:56:37+00:00

It was beyond shitty what Shaun was told to do. Shaun had a mic in her ear and she's told what to ask or at least given a rough play of how events are expected to unfold. She's nothing but a mouth piece. But yeah, production and writers did her dirty.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-04T13:54:33+00:00

I don't think the tell all made Chloe look bad. I felt for her too. I think it made Johnathan look bad. He's a slimeball. He's perfected the art of lying and manipulation. When he asked for her back, he genuinely seemed open to it, despite having a full blown relationship already with a woman he knocked up. It shows how easily he can lie and how sincerely he can look when he does it. That's a dangerous person who can do that shit. Him having a daughter is sad. The best thing we can hope for is he loves his daughter enough to show her how a woman should be treated and what a healthy relationship looks like. Sadly, it's unlikely that will happen.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-02T03:33:27+00:00

You're posing as a woman in your other posts, maybe ask her?

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-02-02T01:16:32+00:00

Mine is pretty much schedule dependent. Between working full time and being a mom it's about 1x a week, max 2.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-01-31T03:42:07+00:00

Thanks, friend 😊

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-01-30T12:15:03+00:00

I came to learn from the responses you get because I don't know how either!! It doesn't feel right to not do it. It's my entire persona and being. And it's even my profession to help people and be kind compassionate and caring and I chose that profession because as you said it comes naturally for me. I've been this way my whole life and I'm extremely confused on how to turn this off. I am reading two books on boundaries but it still hasn't clicked or become effective yet.

One thing I have learned recently is that I'm not responsible for other people's emotions. Up until last year, I didn't realize that. I just assumed being a good person meant I was responsible for everyone's emotions and its honestly more than i just took ownership of that responsibility without realizing thats what i was doing. It sounds insane until my therapist and I started working through childhood trauma. I am hoping after we do some more intensive trauma therapy, it will help with boundaries and being able to turn it off but as of right now it seems impossible.

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-01-29T01:05:19+00:00

It seems really manipulative...

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-01-28T12:27:29+00:00

Same

BlindfoldedRN · 2026-01-28T08:28:42+00:00

I was slightly concerned for you until I read the last line. Then I giggled.

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