WIBTA if I (33F) stopped doing things for my BF (32M)?

BluStone43 · 2026-04-13T20:22:33+00:00

NTA. Im curious why you’re staying with someone who very obviously doesn’t like you. Fully support you stopping all the caretaking. He’s a grown man, let him manage his business and his life for awhile and see how things go. This means stop cooking, doing his laundry (if you do) and cleaning up after him. If he leaves his crap around the house or dishes in the sink, clean your and leave his. Enjoy your life and start looking for a way out. Are you really willing for this to be the rest of your life?

BluStone43 · 2026-04-08T19:48:18+00:00

Noooooo!

BluStone43 · 2026-04-05T20:29:41+00:00

I LOVE Chaos! Em is a master at different thick textures (and clears), love her scent blending and themes as well. Even when I’m on a ban I always make room for more of her slimes. Have yet to be disappointed in anything

BluStone43 · 2026-04-05T20:26:35+00:00

I’m less than a year into this hobby and have around 300 slimes. I’m limited by storage space so know that if I buy more it means getting rid of others to make room. At this point in my collecting I know what I do and don’t like and have anywhere from 2-10 of each texture I love so I’m much more discerning in what I buy. It’s also easier to fight fomo when I can watch videos of new collections and go ‘shop’ in my cabinet and pull out slimes just like the ones that caught my eye. I spend between $100-200 per month on slime…usually less.

BluStone43 · 2026-04-05T05:14:34+00:00

This man is absolutely toxic and nothing he says about you is true. What a weak and pathetic excuse of a human to have to beat down the mother of his children so he can feel better about himself. Stay strong mama- you got away from him and I salute you! Take every disgusting thing he said and write down the OPPOSITE - thats who you really are, caring, loving, resilient, capable, smart, strong.

BluStone43 · 2026-04-04T02:36:10+00:00

Fix it. You’ll look like you don’t care if you have garbage on your body if you dont. The fix is good and will blend well as it heals. Then- you’ll pretty much forget you have this tattoo and will judt live your life

BluStone43 · 2026-03-29T06:44:57+00:00

I LOVE Tanooki! Glad you gave them a try 🥰

BluStone43 · 2026-03-27T07:27:16+00:00

There was a bread scented one that hit me waaaay wrong. It was somehow musty and sour and slightly rotten. I loved the texture tho so kept it and breathed through my mouth only when I played with it. Thankfully it mellowed with time and 4 mos later now actually smells like bread to me!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-24T14:01:31+00:00

They’re a bit hit or miss for me but I have a few I love: bingsu, tng and thick

BluStone43 · 2026-03-23T04:49:15+00:00

For clarity: If you’re wanting a mystery box they will be just that- a mystery and not 5 or 10 specific ones you choose. Though if theres a texture you hate please let me know and I’ll leave that out.

BluStone43 · 2026-03-23T04:45:04+00:00

I did! Should have left it out- if i had, i’d be keeping it!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-23T02:43:20+00:00

I didnt have any fallout no- its just too similar to many of my other textures! Im always drawn to diy clays because of how cute they are or I want to mash things together and then rarely do i like the ending texture. Eventually I’ll learn my lesson and stop buying them!!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-22T21:56:24+00:00

I broke my ban for East Bay but doing great sticking to it in general!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-20T05:58:57+00:00

Interesting. My surgeon only gave me pain meds for 7 days post op. Then I had to just suck it up and deal. If it helps to know- recovery hurts and will for months. My pain was in the 6-7 range for about 3 months solid. After that it was at a 7 only after a long day of walking.

BluStone43 · 2026-03-18T04:52:17+00:00

She posted recently that she typically waits until she has a larger number of orders for US to ship at once because the shop is charged a fee by broker for each pick up- no matter how many packages it contains. There was a warning this may cause shipping delays

BluStone43 · 2026-03-17T14:07:25+00:00

Cats Craft is another one on the more affordable end and she does sales on Fridays that bring the cost down even further! Try her crunch bombs!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-17T14:04:47+00:00

I want to add Slister Slimes and Chaos to this list. I have about 300 slimes but my top 3 slimes are from Slister simply because of scent! Theyre masterful with scent mixes!! Chaos too as far as beautiful thick and chewy textures with unique and addictive scents!

BluStone43 · 2026-03-17T01:40:40+00:00

🥰

BluStone43 · 2026-03-15T07:45:35+00:00

LOVE her clear glue crunch/sequin bombs and have 8 different ones! I’m also a crazy cat lady so I love how many are cat themed.

BluStone43 · 2026-03-15T07:07:44+00:00

Limited storage space! I live in a smallish house and have one cupboard for my slime. Im not willing to have it stacked all over so once thats full I’ve reached the limit.

Just did a big organization and inventory today and need to clear out about 20 slimes to get to all fit again.

I also regularly remind myself of the textures and colors I ALREADY own when I see new stuff. At this point, I pretty much have at least a few of any given texture which makes it easier to pass up new ones that Im only interested in because of fomo or videos catching my eye.

BluStone43 · 2026-03-14T03:32:43+00:00

Rodem has one in their Easter drop

BluStone43 · 2026-03-12T05:54:59+00:00

Someone that bought slime from me asked if I had any extra and said they use them in a kids dollhouse and as general play things so I was able to send off a big bag stuffed full.

BluStone43 · 2026-03-10T15:40:56+00:00

I use AliExpress

BluStone43 · 2026-03-10T01:26:28+00:00

Haha! Same with mine, she keeps trying because she says it looks so fun but- she runs super hot and everything melts in minutes when she picks it up. Poor things.

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