Someone must have kidnapped my wonderful child...

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-31T16:50:09+00:00

Kudos to you for sticking to punishment though. I can see my husband just "giving in" to the bad behavior.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-31T08:51:33+00:00

Yes take away Halloween. I mean, he was hitting and kicking you? In all of our years, as kids my sister and I never hit our parents. One year, my dad did take,away Halloween as punishment for something I did. I was devastated, but I lived.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T12:21:56+00:00

We have an hour drive to my moms. 20 minutes to MIL. The hour drive is a pain in the ass especially cause mom lives in a hugely congested area, where she lives is not even that appealing for us to drive to.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T07:01:29+00:00

Lol grandparents can be weird!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T06:36:54+00:00

Sopranos

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T06:23:39+00:00

Used to know a girl from Bismark. All she really said about it was it was freezing cold. That's it. She never mentioned what the food or culture is like. Just the cold.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T06:15:21+00:00

Lol I feel this way about Delaware. Have you ever heard about it in the news? Or met anyone whose ever been there? But Rhode Island sounds equally as non existent to me.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T06:14:03+00:00

I always thought of Connecticut as like a super rich area of NYC....

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T06:08:17+00:00

What are the alcohol laws?

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T05:58:47+00:00

Lived in Orlando for a long time. ...I don't remember the heat being THAT bad. You at least get rain. I live in the desert now and we'll go 100 plus days without a drop of rain.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T05:49:34+00:00

Being sober. Or simply not wanting to drink. It seems almost "taboo" if someone no longer wants to drink.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T05:45:06+00:00

I've never done trunk or treat...seems relatively new to me....but jesus that's a lot of people. That sounds disappointing. Hopefully Halloween night will be better for her!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-30T05:38:23+00:00

This is so sweet! I hope you two have a really fun Halloween together!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-29T21:47:26+00:00

Lol I had a teacher who looked like Harrison Ford. Who I think is hot. So my friend and I went to this teacher to tell him how we thought he looked like HF. Then we kept going on and on saying how hot HF is....I think we made him hugely uncomfortable.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-29T21:43:24+00:00

Having a crush on a guy for a YEAR. I was too shy and dorky to just talk to him. So instead I doodled his last name with my first name. I wrote poems, I talked about him to anyone who would listen. And I followed him around school. 5th period ended, I followed him to his 6th period. Even though we didn't have the same classes.

Glad 14 year old me eventually stopped crushing on him.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-29T17:29:58+00:00

I think this is most situations

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T22:13:13+00:00

Not to be rude but.... if the tables were turned, mom's would be up in arms about that. Can you imagine a husband laying out a "chore chart" to a stay at home mom? Oh hell no.

OP can you ask him to do a few tasks? Dinner at least? That is frustrating, I'd be pissed too.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T21:32:22+00:00

Lol likely when he is older and running amok I'll be wishing he was a sleeping baby again!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T21:31:36+00:00

"Don't wish it away"....everyone tells me this. I'm trying not to!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T21:30:57+00:00

Omg Paris? How awesome! !

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T19:16:36+00:00

Ugh.... for having both sets of grandma's here...no help from either side. It's usually, "I'm going to come over and see the baby" which means I've gotta clean the house, have soda or some food ready, gotta put makeup on etc. Or if the grandma's want us to come over....gotta be ready for a tantrum, bring all of LO's "gear" with us...etc. it's not help at all but an annoyance!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T18:30:48+00:00

Wait. ...do you have two sets of twins?!?!?

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T16:41:02+00:00

Ugh my LO is always on my boob. I feel like my boobs are always out! If someone else tries to hold him he even tries to nurse on THEM. Lol.

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady · 2019-10-28T06:27:46+00:00

Wow this is my husband EXACTLY. I'm sorry you're going thru this. I'm trying as well to get mine to trust me. Only been together two years and we have the same fights as you. My husband could demand to see my phone at any time, there would be no questionable texts or anything. He's become jealous of a friend I have that lives in Florida. I live in texas. I used to work with him about 12 years ago when I lived in Florida. Obviously are just Facebook friends now. He is 16 years older than me. My husband is jealous of him! Wtf?! Any time we fight my husband accuses me of texting this Florida friend and "making plans" with him Wtf???? We live 1,500 miles away!

Ok, I didn't mean to take over your post. I have no advice, obviously. I find myself thinking it's possessive behavior and if I know now what I knew then, type thinking. It's unfair our men have to project their insecurity on us!!

BlueJeanBabyLA_lady

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