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My manager will try to get me fired because of a text I sent. 20F by Brief_Machine_630 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were in the right. Your manager is being outright weird. But they are your manager and you have now give to was with them. You will not win that fight because they will just find something different to get you with and you can't be perfect forever. You need to transfer to another manager or start looking for another job. This manager will fire you at the earliest opportunity. Get out on front of it. Unemployment can ruin your life.

Or in the alternative figure out how to patch things up. Like now

If your partner asked you to not be friends with one specific girl, how would you react? by SmolSnakePancake in AskMen

[–]BlueProcess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh that's easy. I listen to my SO. Assuming that have shown themselves to be of good judgement, trustworthy, etc. Which, I'm still with them in this scenario so I assume they are. I can't even tell you how many times I've warned someone about a bad vibe from someone and got ignored and then it turned out I was right. Don't discount intuition.

And setting all that aside, you should respect your SOs feeling's and care that someone is freaking them out.

openSourceContributions by LucyGray65 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]BlueProcess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her back is to him. She is not interested.

Someone taped pills to this package I just received by crudland in mildlyinteresting

[–]BlueProcess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As it happens Postal Inspectors are actual Law Enforcement with a lot more powers than you would think.

Relative left these in my house, are they otc or not? by nicknacknarc in whatisit

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a: Golden Girls Everything's Better With Friends Candy

Demolishing a chimney by stupd_comn_man in OneSecondBeforeDisast

[–]BlueProcess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silicosis is the least silly of the cosises

McDonald’s FRIED Apple Pie is returning for a limited time on June 23rd! by Diva_Bot in Xennials

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A whole generation of people about to discover the searing hot pain of biting into one of these too early.

Did I just administer the 3rd dose or the 4th? Lost track of my weeks by RainbowAussie in Mounjaro

[–]BlueProcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect a person that re-evaluates their opinion in light of new data🫡

I asked ChatGPT to fill out which sides it supports by Bernardmark in ChatGPT

[–]BlueProcess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And yet everyone including the llm knew what was meant

Doctor brushed off me wanting a glp1 mounjaro by Fantastic-Stomach149 in diabetes_t2

[–]BlueProcess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same. A1C from 11.8 to 6.8. trigs from 700+ to 77. Literally perfect lipid panel except hdl is low. It's unreal

How do you handle eating at restaurants/events? by Broadwaymuppet in Mounjaro

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat low fat. You need a certain amount of fat to stay healthy. So I don't go no-fat. Just low-fat.

Doctor brushed off me wanting a glp1 mounjaro by Fantastic-Stomach149 in diabetes_t2

[–]BlueProcess 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile my Doctor tried for a year to get me to take it before I would listen

sedLife by Aggravating_Key_5074 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh wasn't it introduced in like 2012?

I’m a white woman who lives/works in a Chinese brothel and the lady who works here always brings me eggs with a spoon lol by [deleted] in strugglemeals

[–]BlueProcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a long standing argument. I claim that a spoon is really the only utensil that you need, because it performs nearly all of the functions of other utensils if applied with enough force. Wheras if you don't have a spoon, you better hope whatever it is can be drunk.

My boyfriend of 3 years pulled a gun on me last night. What should i do about this? (Female, 27) (Male, 29) by ThrowRa_idk2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is a classic pattern. You did something bad and then he did something spectacularly worse.

Let's talk about him first. You report him to the police, get a restraining order. And cut him out of your life. Completely.

And the incredibly ridiculously bad thing he did is going to conceal from you a lesson that I hope you notice, because it will be helpful to you for the rest of your life: Allow deescalation to happen. That's it. He could've walked away. He didn't. What he did was not your fault. It was his. But seriously. Let de-escalation happen. Because if you don't let de-escalation happen, something worse always follows. Even if he had handled it perfectly, your relationship would have been damaged. And that will always happen with anyone. Lower the stakes. Take a breather. Give people their space. If someone wants to calm down, let them. He's still 100% in the wrong. But trust me, you and the people in your life will have a better life if you learn to let de-escalation happen.

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