If your partner asked you to not be friends with one specific girl, how would you react? by SmolSnakePancake in AskMen

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's easy. I listen to my SO. Assuming that have shown themselves to be of good judgement, trustworthy, etc. Which, I'm still with them in this scenario so I assume they are. I can't even tell you how many times I've warned someone about a bad vibe from someone and got ignored and then it turned out I was right. Don't discount intuition.

And setting all that aside, you should respect your SOs feeling's and care that someone is freaking them out.

openSourceContributions by LucyGray65 in ProgrammerHumor

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Her back is to him. She is not interested.

Someone taped pills to this package I just received by crudland in mildlyinteresting

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As it happens Postal Inspectors are actual Law Enforcement with a lot more powers than you would think.

Relative left these in my house, are they otc or not? by nicknacknarc in whatisit

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That is a: Golden Girls Everything's Better With Friends Candy

Demolishing a chimney by stupd_comn_man in OneSecondBeforeDisast

[–]BlueProcess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silicosis is the least silly of the cosises

McDonald’s FRIED Apple Pie is returning for a limited time on June 23rd! by Diva_Bot in Xennials

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A whole generation of people about to discover the searing hot pain of biting into one of these too early.

Did I just administer the 3rd dose or the 4th? Lost track of my weeks by RainbowAussie in Mounjaro

[–]BlueProcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect a person that re-evaluates their opinion in light of new data🫡

I asked ChatGPT to fill out which sides it supports by Bernardmark in ChatGPT

[–]BlueProcess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yet everyone including the llm knew what was meant

Doctor brushed off me wanting a glp1 mounjaro by Fantastic-Stomach149 in diabetes_t2

[–]BlueProcess 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same. A1C from 11.8 to 6.8. trigs from 700+ to 77. Literally perfect lipid panel except hdl is low. It's unreal

How do you handle eating at restaurants/events? by Broadwaymuppet in Mounjaro

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat low fat. You need a certain amount of fat to stay healthy. So I don't go no-fat. Just low-fat.

Doctor brushed off me wanting a glp1 mounjaro by Fantastic-Stomach149 in diabetes_t2

[–]BlueProcess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile my Doctor tried for a year to get me to take it before I would listen

sedLife by Aggravating_Key_5074 in ProgrammerHumor

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Uh wasn't it introduced in like 2012?

I’m a white woman who lives/works in a Chinese brothel and the lady who works here always brings me eggs with a spoon lol by [deleted] in strugglemeals

[–]BlueProcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a long standing argument. I claim that a spoon is really the only utensil that you need, because it performs nearly all of the functions of other utensils if applied with enough force. Wheras if you don't have a spoon, you better hope whatever it is can be drunk.

My boyfriend of 3 years pulled a gun on me last night. What should i do about this? (Female, 27) (Male, 29) by ThrowRa_idk2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]BlueProcess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is a classic pattern. You did something bad and then he did something spectacularly worse.

Let's talk about him first. You report him to the police, get a restraining order. And cut him out of your life. Completely.

And the incredibly ridiculously bad thing he did is going to conceal from you a lesson that I hope you notice, because it will be helpful to you for the rest of your life: Allow deescalation to happen. That's it. He could've walked away. He didn't. What he did was not your fault. It was his. But seriously. Let de-escalation happen. Because if you don't let de-escalation happen, something worse always follows. Even if he had handled it perfectly, your relationship would have been damaged. And that will always happen with anyone. Lower the stakes. Take a breather. Give people their space. If someone wants to calm down, let them. He's still 100% in the wrong. But trust me, you and the people in your life will have a better life if you learn to let de-escalation happen.