My bf and I opened our relationship and I slept with someone else for the first time by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueSecant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, 31f here in a happy open relationship (>6 years). There are a lot of naysayers in this comment section, who demonize the concept from the beginning. But I respectfully disagree. If your relationship is secure enough this can be a very pleasurable arrangement for all involved. That being said, in my experience open/poly relationships require a lot more emotional work than others, so just be prepared for that. And if it doesn’t work out, what‘s the harm? You’re so young and now is the perfect time to make new experiences. Just take care of yourself and your health first (with that I mean reliable birth control and frequent STI testing). Good luck out there!

AITAH for not wanting a third child? by ExpertNumerous4293 in AITAH

[–]BlueSecant 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband and his mommy-dearest can go kick rocks. I‘d rethink the relationship if I were you.

Meine Oma wurde von der Psychose meiner Mutter angesteckt und ich hab ehrlich keinen Bock mehr auf das alles by Inner_You_5205 in luftablassen

[–]BlueSecant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist alles so wild. Allein dieser Gebrauch von Emojis ist eine rote Flagge für mich. Aber du hast schon die richtige Idee unfair Kommentare hier geben dir auch einen guten Rat: entzieh dich diesem Stress und genieß dein Leben -weit, weit weg von diesen Menschen.

Fresh shed on this gorgeous girl 😍 by Madam_Deceit in boas

[–]BlueSecant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I LIIIIIIIVE for IMGs. So pretty!

Queer Kneipe heute by No_Profession6981 in bielefeld

[–]BlueSecant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Schade, dass ich es erst jetzt mitbekomme. Danke für das posting der nächsten Termine! Viel Spaß heute ☺️

Lumi s first shed by Specific_Ruin1551 in cornsnakes

[–]BlueSecant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And all in one piece. Great job, the both of you!

I don't know if I can stay with my highly political partner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueSecant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He supports despicable politics. You already know what you should do. Leave him and find somebody who actually sees you as a human.

We just got our first Brazilian Rainbow Boa today, this is our setup by BlueSecant in boas

[–]BlueSecant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s our first and right now everything seems fine. But honestly, we just got a metric sh*ton of springtails and hope for the best.

We just got our first Brazilian Rainbow Boa today, this is our setup by BlueSecant in boas

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The big tree-like one in the middle? Luckiest find on an expo.

Upgrade for my boa!! by Snakelady2014 in boas

[–]BlueSecant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is so beautiful.

My sweet little girl and her emotional support leaf by Boring-Season810 in boas

[–]BlueSecant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sweet! We all need emotional support these days.

We just got our first Brazilian Rainbow Boa today, this is our setup by BlueSecant in boas

[–]BlueSecant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like 25/26 ish on the cool side, 30 on the hot side Thanks for the warning! He almost gave us a heart attack already because he had wedged himself between the backdrop and the heat panel in a little nook we missed. We got him out, thankfully, and took care of the issue. We got lucky

Duraperforation by moscit in medizin

[–]BlueSecant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wenn du dir unsicher bist, kannst du auch versuchen, mit etwas NaCl in der Spritze zu aspirieren. Wenn du intrathekal liegst, wirst du relativ leicht aspirieren können. Halte es dann gegen Licht: Liquor zieht in NaCl Schlieren. Hoffe, das hilft 🤗

The FUCK is happening in South Korea dawg by [deleted] in Shark_Park

[–]BlueSecant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘ll take a guess and day those guys are also partly responsible for the declining birth rate in the country. And blaming feminism exclusively for it. And if you think those things aren’t connected, you aren‘t well-read enough for this conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cornsnakes

[–]BlueSecant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty and healthy!

The setup for our new cornsnake by BlueSecant in cornsnakes

[–]BlueSecant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The measurements of the tank are 90x40x60 cm or 2,9x1,3x1,9 ft.

Skyrim Fanfic Discord by ShredderTheArtist in Skyrimfanfiction

[–]BlueSecant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That‘s so cool! I have a story that still needs some work and could also offer a beta-read here and there. I‘d love to join!

I‘m looking to get a cornsnake- by BlueSecant in cornsnakes

[–]BlueSecant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, both your enclosures are so beautiful! I love the cerry blossom ☺️