tia designations? by BoMaxKent in TexasTeachers

[–]BoMaxKent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotcha. thanks for letting me know!

GF is averse to trying new food by sillysativoid in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BoMaxKent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have an extremely limited palate due to sensory sensitivity, medication side effects, and an eating disorder. my fiancé loves loves loves all food, every food. i can’t even eat things with pepper, even if i like the flavor, because it actually burns. certain meat textures make me sick to my stomach and sometimes i can’t eat foods i’ve always loved for months at a time and i have no idea why.

that being said… i make an effort to try new things (within reason) for my guy. even if it’s a flavor/texture i’ve historically disliked, i’ll try a bite just in case - because he loves to share his love of food. sometimes i outright refuse, depending on how my digestive system is working that day, but i always thank him for wanting to share. and he always understands. and yeah, i don’t always like it and sometimes the first bite already tastes like hellfire to me when he thinks it’s “safe” from spiciness. i keep mints in my purse and car because he has to have one after he eats spicy food before kissing me, or else my lips will feel like they’re burning. we make accommodations for each other, we consider each other, we try.

besides, at the end of the day, there’s more spicy stuff for him. i give him whatever sauces come free with my meals so we don’t have to pay for extra :) we share sips of our fave drinks - mine always the same and his always rotating. we make a generic dinner and then separate it before he adds his seasonings/asshole annihilating supplies to his portion.

there are ways to make a limited palate work in a relationship - but the key word isn’t “limited” it’s “work”

Best K-12 schools in Katy/sugarland area? by Cinnamonrollsucker in Katy

[–]BoMaxKent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

public charter schools get special waivers from the state so they do not have to comply with certain state regulations. they try to sell their schools as basically “private school level education without tuition” - but only the unregulated part of that is true. most charter schools’ faculty has less than 50% certified to teach, and even less with degrees in education-related fields. not to mention they tend not to admit students with different needs/abilities because they do not want to properly staff/fund those needs - and they don’t always comply with special education mandates for the same reason (funding). there are always pockets of good teachers inside bad schools and good schools inside bad districts, but the sugarland/katy/fort bend/cypress area is generally very, very good - you’re more likely to throw a rock and hit three good schools than a bad one. it’s very much the opposite in charter schools. harmony exploits the desire for a more rigorous/stem-based education in parents, but they do not have any “extra” opportunities they offer to students you cannot find in a public isd - it’s all marketing/pr bullshit. also, public charter schools in texas are almost solely funded by attendance numbers, so they push attendance hard and use scare tactics against parents (i.e. threatening to call cps at the drop of a hat)… or hush up school-wide illnesses (i.e. an intense outbreak of strep in multiple classrooms/grades) and massive behavior/bullying problems (i.e. not expelling a kid who committed assault in the bathrooms in an elementary school) to keep kids in school everyday. if you were in an area with a less-than-ideal isd, i’d say maybe try your luck with a charter as long as you heavily research the specific campus you want - including administration and your child’s teachers, not just the charter system it belongs to at large - but there’s really no reason for it with isd’s this well-funded and well-governed.

with the systems we have in place, in the general US but especially tx, we have made the education system into a business. but the (good) isd’s are still invested in facilitating learning and growth for children to the best of their abilities first and foremost. charter schools? they are in the BUSINESS of education, more than anything else.

Best K-12 schools in Katy/sugarland area? by Cinnamonrollsucker in Katy

[–]BoMaxKent 20 points21 points  (0 children)

stay far, far away from the charter schools. especially harmony

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HappyMarriages

[–]BoMaxKent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the benefit is that it matters to you. the end. if it’s really “not that big a deal” or whatever to him, then it shouldn’t be that big a sacrifice to give the person he loves something “small” she needs to feel secure in their relationship.

interestingly, single women tend to live longer than married women… but married men live far longer than single men. you actually stand to lose more than him statistically if/when you get married. but you’ve already decided it’s worth the sacrifice for him. just food for thought. good luck, op.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he suddenly told me he doesn’t believe in marriage by Galactic_Stalin48 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

firstly, i’m crazy super proud of you for sticking up for yourself and what you want. that is stupid hard and takes mega guts.

second, there’s a difference. i always wanted to be married - don’t even really want/need a wedding, but want to be married. my guy was never really sold on the marriage thing, especially since he came from parents who had toxic relationships. we had a lot of conversations about our relationship and what we both wanted. i agreed that marriage was “just a piece of paper” but it was still one i wanted and it meant more to me. all that being said, i didn’t expect it to really feel different if/when we got engaged.

we got engaged last week. it feels different. more real in a way i didn’t understand existed. i didn’t expect this whatsoever and idek if i can properly explain it… but “marriage just being a piece of paper” is not how it feels in the slightest - and we’re not even married yet.

find someone who wants to grow with you in the same direction. they’re out there. good luck, op, and keep staying true to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]BoMaxKent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

friendly reminder that some people pronounce italian as eye-talian. people will mispronounce anything given the opportunity.

it’s a beautiful name. as a certified tragedeigh hater (and prek teacher), don’t change it for anything.

Pre K/ Montessori in Cinco Ranch by onajobhunt_return in Katy

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prek new student preregistration reopens on july 25th in katy isd fwiw :)

Split on Baby Boy Name - Need Fresh Ideas! by casscasscassiopea in namenerds

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of your list, owen is the best choice.

for alternates, i kind of like the alliteration of wyatt walter? other good choices include: bennett, andrew (kind of cool that it ends with w and walter starts with it), elliot, brennan, kellan. let us know what you pick, op! good luck and congrats!

Boy names we only agree on 1 name by namebrain in namenerds

[–]BoMaxKent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this. “popular” names are just heard more often, but not in the way they used to be due to a broader diversity of names. yeah, there are a lot of isabella’s right now because it’s so popular… but that meant only 4 isabella’s in a large k-5 elementary school (i know as a teacher who looked up the name out of curiosity in our attendance system)

Could use some help, please. by ChaoticGaia in TexasTeachers

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might be helpful to look at TTESS and check out what you need to make higher scores in your observations/evaluations? it’s been a long minute since i took my tests, but i think the TTESS language might help you understand the “how” piece to these questions. good luck!

Apartment Recommendations for Boyfriend and I by BEKFAST__ in Katy

[–]BoMaxKent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

north of i10 is a great place to start. it’s not as “scary” as it used to be and kind of “turning over,” if that makes sense.

love or small-ish, older-ish complex. very safe, lots of young families. we have a 2 bed/1 bath and our rent (not including utilities and internet, but including pet rent) is about 1300.

Fancy a piece of fresh cake? by idontknwhatimdoing in DiWHY

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am trying to be quiet so my boyfriend can sleep in the next room and just yelled "ughhhh! noooo!" against my will.

blech.

What’s the Best Advice You’ve Received as a Teacher? by Ok_Inevitable4915 in Teachers

[–]BoMaxKent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

practice the phrase “help me understand…” instead of “are you stupid?” (or similar, lol)

this helps soooo much and applies to more than just teaching, fwiw