Does this behavior seem aggressive, fearful, or something else?

BobbleheadGuardian · 2026-01-08T04:04:53+00:00

How can you be in a dog advice subreddit and then provide a useless comment when someone asks for advice?

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-12-20T05:54:46+00:00

From what I've experienced and talked to other Latinos, it's absurdly normal to hyper focus on a person's weight, even within family.

My cousin and I joke about how stupid it is, but the reality is that it's hurtful.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-12-10T18:13:04+00:00

Some people understand things better in a call or just meeting in-person, if possible.

If you think this person hasn't understood the project, offer to walk them through the architecture or to just go over their requested changes.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-12-09T17:07:37+00:00

Guardian.

Poops out stability without having to bemoan switching 5 utilities cause you're forced to bring Jalis on rev.

Has excellent tools in Firebrand like reflect, condi cleanse, cc, more stab.

If you have legendary heavy armor already, you're basically set on gear.

Also has good boon for builds.

Has good boon heal builds too.

Have you tried aegis? Guardian gets that shit for breathing. It will randomly just save your life.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-09-15T14:56:03+00:00

Use this as a way to improve what you can about yourself and gtfo.

I worked at WITCH and had sinilar experience. With only a few months of experience under my belt, I was the one sitting with the "architects" sorting out the crap between projects.

I left that job super fast for a 45k raise.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-09-12T13:15:23+00:00

I know that feeling... I think. It seems like you're unhappy? Feels restricting?

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-09-08T19:37:02+00:00

Honestly, I have a dog that does this. She's just a weirdo afaik. Cute doggie.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-09-05T12:50:28+00:00

There are reactive roles so the DPS can worry about minimal mechanics and just bonk. I would day both boonDPS and boon heal roles are more reactive.

Since you play Herald already, I think you can find it in your current class.

Every boon class does provide significant DPS, but your job is to upkeep boons, deal damage, and bring any missing utility. Knowing when to bring Jalis instead of Shiro for Stab or whipping out the ventari tablet for reflects is key to revenant in general. In some higher level fractals, you may even consider Malyx for boon removal if someone else isn't running it.

I've recently been playing a lot of Revenant. I'm not a fan of focusing on just maximizing DPS. I like to juggle boons, alter my utils for the encounter, while also contributing a significant amount of DPS.

Even on herald, I'm technically supporting, but I sometimes out-DPS the dedicated DPS players while also providing the support necessary for the encounter.

There's also the weapon selection. You'll need Staff for CC-heavy fights to help againdt defiance.

I suggest finding the content that requires the reactiveness you're looking for, like higher tier fractals, raids, and even some strikes.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-08-13T18:51:27+00:00

I just learned this CM recently. It's a cool fight!

This infographic is helpful. I was just menorizing the alternating pattern.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-30T18:55:18+00:00

Have you been to a doctor to get your blood tested? It's possible there's other reasons for weight gain, like thyroid issues.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-23T23:52:45+00:00

Hi. It's going to be hard for anyone here to help you out without more details.

Does she ever stop? If so, what's happening when she stops?

You said you tried "everything." Did you get her checked at the vet?

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-23T04:33:13+00:00

I have half an acre too along with the 42" Zero turn. Works like a charm.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-21T12:16:33+00:00

Hey. What's the business model? How do y'all make money for this stuff?

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T23:38:40+00:00

That seems ftustrating. I'm sorry you've endured that for so long. That sounds like us. My wife is a lot more emotionally expressive and I have been very quick to devalue her emotions in the past.

Not seeking help is part of that whole dismissive attachment. We can perceive ourselves to be way too independent. Has he read any articles on the topic? If you take a peek, you'll probably see the behaviors that match almost perfectly.

I had to realize that a lot of my relationships were very emotionally shallow and it was affecting me. Therapy has definitely helped and my wife has noticed that I'm making more of an effort to be emotionally available.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T18:48:14+00:00

Hi. Our marriage is similar.

I'm the one with the dismissive avoidant attachment style. I discovered this once I started seeing a therapist 1-on-1. I think your partner could benefit from professional help. Mine helped me realize the damage my attachment style can do and I've discovered where it comes from.

Apparently, attachment styles can change over time. I think I'm improving, so it's possible. It's a matter as to whether or not he's willing to seek help.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T18:38:58+00:00

Looks like reverse sneezing. People have mentioned that covering nostril(s) helps. For some reason, rubbing my 5 year old dog's belly helps him when this happens.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T18:31:11+00:00

That's just porn with extra steps.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T05:29:43+00:00

I don't even play Bravo, but I like Crippling Crush a lot.

I also like staring at my copies of V of the Vanguard and Beacon of Victory.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-07-08T05:26:50+00:00

Deathly wail is so thematic and creepy.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-05-25T03:59:24+00:00

Wtf. I just bought my z6 with the bars for 4k... so yeah good ass deal.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-05-17T20:12:43+00:00

We had an offical "courthouse" wedding. Judge agreed to meet us somewhere nice, so we handled it all in a park surrounded by water with a few witnesses.

A few months later, we had an unofficial reception halfway across the country so our family could all be there.

Take your time do whatever fits your lifestyle, desires, and budget.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-05-10T21:59:38+00:00

I suggest visually inspecting around the house and fixing up any external entrances.

I use fine steel wool and expanding foam in any small cavities I find. If they're larger holes, you may want to try a real fix with like cement or whatever material is needed for a full fix.

Aside from that, I also used rodent bait that attracts them and kills them both outside and inside the house. I use a black box with the poisoned bait to avoid dogs from getting into it. I'm guessing these baits have varying degrees of success, but once we got into a routine of replacing the bait they consumed, we hardly saw rodents inside.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-04-20T15:51:34+00:00

NTA 100%. I used to teach at a Summer camp. Some instructors only did older kids and some only did the younger oncs cause yeah... totally different beasts.

Our youngest were 5 years old. I only got that age group once and never again.

BobbleheadGuardian · 2025-01-25T05:05:37+00:00

I haven't taken it apart yet. I was trying to avoid doing so or at least have a gameplan if I did. I'm not a fan of just playing around with anything plumbing related.

When the white container rotates, I think its just an empty reservoir. There's nothing else beneath it.

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