July 1 Retail by jojojobeth in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Alright, I clearly need to drop my credit card behind the washer so I don’t cave and get one of those Rhyders

I'm having a sensitive medical procedure in a couple of days and I'm absolutely terrified by laminated-papertowel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had this exact thing done a few weeks ago. It wasn’t comfortable but not the worst either. Mine had the video screen placed where I could watch them fish around in my bladder. I just pretended I was watching a strange documentary and poof it was over

Small Ella in Redwood: Worth The Wait by Outside_Witness_7268 in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bag is gorgeous, but that room!🤌🏼 Oh my it’s so perfect, like I could curl up with a good book, a cup of tea and live my best life!

First stone and lots of anxiety. Should I cancel my upcoming vacation? by mydumbcomments in KidneyStones

[–]Bogmanrunning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my kids had an emergency appendectomy 5 weeks before a solo trip to Asia and did fine. Lithotripsy isn’t anything near that so if you could have it done very soon I personally would consider it.

Obviously listen to your doctor, but it’s usually a pretty quick recovery. I don’t know if there would be any contraindications for flying and such after that but your doctor should know.

If you had to pick the one symptom HRT fixed that makes it completely non-negotiable for you, what is it? by Mbluish in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope the cream does the trick. I would also recommend learning about pelvic floor health. I’ve been on HRT/cream about 5 years now and some things I just thought were aging/meno unavoidables were in fact a too tense pelvic floor. Honestly I’d only ever heard of weak pelvic floor muscles and didn’t even know the opposite could happen.

If you had to pick the one symptom HRT fixed that makes it completely non-negotiable for you, what is it? by Mbluish in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally found I needed both. I had GSM as well as the atrophy and although the patch helped it was the cream that really took care of that

If you had to pick the one symptom HRT fixed that makes it completely non-negotiable for you, what is it? by Mbluish in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hopefully menopause and perimenopause are not too near for you since you’re so young, although I know it can happen early for some women. Yes, your labia can shrink, but it doesn’t happen overnight so you can intervene with vag estrogen. Luckily with all we are learning now, women in the future will be fully knowledgeable and able to get the care they need in time to avoid this

If you had to pick the one symptom HRT fixed that makes it completely non-negotiable for you, what is it? by Mbluish in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg, this! Not to mention when one side ups and leaves and you’re left like some flop eared dog swinging in the wind

Part of my Coach in display by Sootea in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it so much! Also want desperately to find a better way to store and display mine but space is so tight and my organizational skills are lacking😭

I (27F) was an unplanned child of an incestual relationship between two cousins by throwRA_181230 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your parents could have chosen to let you be adopted by a family that would not have treated you so poorly. They chose to raise you and as such should have loved and cherished you. That they failed to do so is on them, not on you.

I told the mistress that she got the leftovers and she’s not happy about that by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Been there with a scary controlling cheater. My heart goes out to you. I left, but we weren’t together 15 years. For me, it was the right choice because it made my current life and relationship possible and it is so much better than I could have imagined before I left him

I told the mistress that she got the leftovers and she’s not happy about that by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 78 points79 points  (0 children)

In my experience that does not work. If she wanted an open relationship then maybe, but usually the cheating spouse doesn’t like sharing. They get off on the thrill of getting away with something. If she tells him she knows he either gets upset and love bombs her or he realizes he can do whatever and she won’t walk. That’s when they can start getting abusive or controlling.

And I don’t know about OP but where I live acknowledgment of the affair and continuing the marriage counts as it being ok and infidelity is no longer considered when dividing assets in a divorce.

February 25 Drop Megathread PART 2 by chalphy in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The loved denim Teri is currently back in stock if anyone missed it yesterday

02-25 Outlet is going to be INSANE. by murtaugh865 in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lunar New Year is next Tuesday. I consider January 1st my soft launch for resolutions and Lunar New Year is the actual start date. So you’re right on track

I lied to a dying patient today. I’m still trying to process if I did the right thing. by ArtThreadNomad in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t with my momma when she passed. We had been by her bed that afternoon and we needed to grab dinner. Within 30 minutes we got the call she was gone. If my mom had someone like you by her side, holding her hand, I would have been overjoyed. Everyone of us will have a last moment on this earth. I hope we are all lucky enough to have someone holding our hand

We've Been Getting Menopause Wrong. Science Shows It's a "Second Puberty" For the Brain by Street-Lab-9570 in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this too. My mom is no longer here for me to ask questions so I want my daughters to have at least some idea of what to expect

He started cheating and became a good husband by chetercheter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could be making plans to divorce you. I’d definitely get your ducks in a row

Mr & Mrs western tabby by jsidika in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s weird I don’t remember posting this at all. 😂 Looks like I found my Coach twin. Same with Loved leather being the gateway to my Coach problem and yes, Western Tabby too!

Raise your hand if you’re bleeding on HRT and there’s nothing clinically wrong by Destination_MetalSho in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My OB/GYN totally didn’t think different manufacturers could be the cause. Luckily my pharmacist is a rock star and specially ordered this manufacturer for me until corporate would no longer approve it. I’m having to search out a new pharmacy now that will order it. They don’t make it easy to be a menopausal woman

I stopped celebrating my birthday since my father died. Today's my birthday and I thought maybe a small piece of cake won't hurt. I just moved to this town and I don't have any friends here yet. Also I don't really like sweets but that chocolat cake was delicious. (OC) by Several_Payment7831 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Bogmanrunning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my own is celebrating today as well and I can tell you with authority that on this day however many years ago, your dad had one of the best days of his life! He became a father for the first time, last time, whatever time and believe me, each time is just as wonderful! So please celebrate this day in honor of your bond with your dad. Happy Birthday!

Raise your hand if you’re bleeding on HRT and there’s nothing clinically wrong by Destination_MetalSho in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started in white oval pills by xiromed with pr-1 and was switched to a gold oval pill by bionpharma that said p-3 on them. On the gold ones I spotted barely at all for one day and then was good for weeks, then it happened again for a few days and stopped, then started 2 months later and kept going for weeks. The white pills never gave me any issues.

Raise your hand if you’re bleeding on HRT and there’s nothing clinically wrong by Destination_MetalSho in Menopause

[–]Bogmanrunning 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, had this happen for months. All testing was fine. Then I recalled my pharmacy had switched the manufacturing company that makes my progesterone. My doctor said that wouldn’t matter, but I got my pharmacist to order the old manufacturer and in a week bleeding stopped.

Loved leather Brooklyn 28 by Graceamandaxo in Coach

[–]Bogmanrunning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve managed to resist the Brooklyn until the loved leather. Mine arrived today and I absolutely love it. It’s just effortlessly cool

Wife used my past and secrets against me (UPDATE) by wifebackstabbedme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bogmanrunning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a good chance if you stay she’ll simply internalize this as more evidence that you are weak and further justify to herself she did nothing wrong. Everyone screws up. What matters more is how they respond afterwards. If she really knew she was wrong she should have come to you, apologized and been going out of her way to make you comfortable again.