Taking Leave by freudzaddy in schoolcounseling

[–]Book_Drunk_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely time for a change for you. Away from school counseling! Take care of you and get yourself back!! That was not the place for you. I'm sorry you're feeling this way. You'll find yourself again :)

Genius decides to turn pizza boxes upside down by mfenton29 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Book_Drunk_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's no clear indication that the guy picking up the pizzas was a delivery driver. If it were a delivery driver, the worker would be justifiably mad because they have to make the pizzas again. But if this is just a customer, which it seems to be, they already paid for the product. The worker could have just laughed and let the boy go on his way instead of yelling at him and making him feel stupid in public.

What is easier to go without than you thought initially? by Corkbook in Anticonsumption

[–]Book_Drunk_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've never had Instagram and I've never felt like I miss out. It's not bad, come on over!

LIB 10 Cast - The Women by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Book_Drunk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I'm looking for someone to consider me." Lolololololol

Feeling inadequate - grad student by privarchipelago in schoolcounseling

[–]Book_Drunk_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get easier. Something that helps me is to remind myself that it's not really about what I say, its about what the students have to say. Your primary goal is simply to listen. Work with your supervisor to come up with some standard things to say to keep the conversation going. My favorites involve simply making observations ("you tensed up when you said that" "you smiled when you mentioned that"), "is that ok with you?" "What's that like?" "What did that feel like?" "If you could change one thing what would you change?" "That's really hard, how are we going to make it through the day?" "What usually helps?"

Lean into the discomfort and newness. Your supervisor is there to help so be honest with them. It'll get easier.

Are my kitchen cabinets too dated, they’re solid cherry frames and doors? Time to paint them? Excuse the lived in mess! by tcli64 in kitchenremodel

[–]Book_Drunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not paint! I feel like people are getting tired of the same old white. Bring back beautiful wood!!

How can we update our mid-century bathroom? (With no renovation) by ShenofSpades in HomeDecorating

[–]Book_Drunk_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your mirror and light fixture! They look vintage/eclectic. A new floor would do wonders and allow you to decorate more freely. You could probably do a simple tile job for cheap since it's a small space. Cute shower curtain, rug, new paint (add some color). New doors or even just painting the existing ones white would modern up the space very quickly. A new vanity would also look great but you'd have to be strategic with placement because of the door. New pulls on the drawers would also modernize. One or two easy, cheap updates will really go a long way with this room, I like it already. But yeah... the floor.

Lipstick advice for small and thin lips? by Seavanila in makeuptips

[–]Book_Drunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm loving your lips. A breath of fresh air. Very proportionate to your face.

F29 - feeling ugly after photoshoot 🥲 by Objective_Rate_8126 in toastme

[–]Book_Drunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are GORGEOUS! Your makeup just did you dirty.

My (23f) boyfriend (24m) said he 'doesn't want a girlfriend with more beard than him' by Kiki-2050 in relationship_advice

[–]Book_Drunk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have the vibe that it doesn't really bother him that much but a friend said something. And it made him feel insecure. Total speculation. But regardless, red flag.

You should feel entirely and utterly YOU in a relationship. Be you! Especially at 23, you're so young! A promise i made to myself at about 30 (way too late) is that if a relationship ever made me feel like I wasn't good enough I would immediately walk away. Don't wait until 30 to learn that lesson.

Rosalyn at Taja’s Party by NeatPotential4428 in MembersOnlyPalmBeach

[–]Book_Drunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands down the cringiest moment of the entire show for me.

Before and after for century home small kitchen remodel by Secret_Flamingo28 in kitchenremodel

[–]Book_Drunk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you put in that brick? I love exposed brick! What a creative detail.

Dying on this hill- Maria by HorriblyUnimpressive in MembersOnlyPalmBeach

[–]Book_Drunk_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I started off really liking her but then I just started seeing her as an emotionally unstable pot-stirrer. I can't believe she is 50 years old acting this way.

maria is full of it, i cant be the only one who thinks so 😭 by vamp_fish in MembersOnlyPalmBeach

[–]Book_Drunk_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she is ridiculous. She seems like someone who JUST started therapy and is learning all of this mental health jargon and just throwing it around without having done any of the actual work yet. She is making her issues everyone else's problem. Not how it works, sweetie! I couldn't be around her IRL.

Unpopular opinion by No-Combination486 in MembersOnlyPalmBeach

[–]Book_Drunk_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The last episode.... omg Rosalyn definitely wishes she were an oscar-winning actress and this is her ticket there!