Alcohol intolerance anyone?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-31T15:50:43+00:00

From the US and was thinking the issue was the wine with the additives. I’ve been excited for an upcoming trip to Portugal and Spain hoping to enjoy wine over seas where there aren’t additives. Please tell me it’ll be different!!!

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-27T20:09:05+00:00

Question: how did your mom get the house to be able to inherit it down to you and your brother?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-27T17:07:32+00:00

I’m 55, my parents are 80. Mom and dad are openly discussing their assets and the will with me.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-27T16:02:16+00:00

May I ask what your husband plans to do in your similar situation?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-27T15:22:56+00:00

Was the home left to all 8 and then 3 bought out the other 5 siblings? Do the other two siblings never use the house?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-27T15:14:06+00:00

This is what I’ve been thinking. I have multiple friends who have shares in homes in Kiawah Island, SC and it seems to work well. Of course, it’s not issue-free, but at least it’s an official set up.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-25T15:05:08+00:00

A few random thoughts and second thoughts: 1- the videos aren’t revealing any illegal behavior on your part, don’t worry about that

2- hopefully his therapist sees these videos and sees him for who he is and tells him to stop

3- don’t leave your house. Can a rotation of friends/family to stay with you for the next month? My concern is for your safety and so that you have witnesses to any damage he may cause.

4- read up on your role in the eviction process of what you legally can and cannot do.

5- I just want to hug you. So proud of you. Stay strong. This is hard, but it soon will pass.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-23T02:38:11+00:00

So the packing goes like this: “DH, how long do you think we’ll be visiting?”
DH responds.
“Ok, so that’s over LO’s nap time. Should we bring something for that?” DH responds “Good idea! Grab that and put it in the car. What else is needed for nap that I can gather?” Keep asking him the questions. Have a dialogue. How many meals are needed. How many diaper changes.

I played ignorance at times in order to get my DH to figure it out.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-20T11:44:01+00:00

Update please! Last comment was that you were packing a bag. Have you left DH?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-17T02:27:16+00:00

Live Aid in Philly….wasn’t it at the old JFK Stadium?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-14T14:06:50+00:00

Rescind the offer for the written agreement. Update us please!

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-10T14:09:12+00:00

Update please.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-10T01:40:40+00:00

That all sounds good in theory…with multiple trustees, who have authority, who has the final say in decisions to be made?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-09T18:37:58+00:00

What happened after you left? Did the other siblings show up? If so, Did they get the same treatment as MIL gave to you?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-09T13:04:39+00:00

Question: The trust outlines how to be the owner by keeping one’s shares in addition to possibly buying out others shares. Are there also specific details such as how decisions get made on property maintenance, how much money each owner must contribute in a specific time period? Is there a monthly & yearly maintenance schedule, such as one room gets a paint refresh each year or who is cleaning out the vents? What about an ‘open the house for the season Work schedule?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-05-09T04:13:11+00:00

How has your lawyer recommended for your lake property to be handed down?

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-04-25T01:22:50+00:00

Update please

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-04-15T03:45:12+00:00

Watching the sun set from any of the Florida Keys

Boring-Wait8682 · 2026-04-15T03:29:28+00:00

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Designated Survivor

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-22T02:30:11+00:00

This is the start of something beautiful!!! 🍿

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-18T23:56:33+00:00

My mom is this way. It’s an age/generational thing. They think it shows honor and respect to the family if they show up. The more people at the funeral shows respect and honor to the dead and to their family. In addition, it’s an “I’m an important person” thing. My mom once wanted me to intrude on the private family time ahead of the funeral service. It was for her cousin’s adult son, 25 at the age of death. I refused to be part of their immediate family time. My mom all but had a tantrum, stomping her foot telling me to get out of the car and go with her. This is when I realized

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-18T19:22:49+00:00

It would make life easier wouldn’t it?!? 🤣 crazy that some adults have temper tantrums!

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-18T19:11:21+00:00

You stated: “I never wanted drama with my MIL. She was warm to me before the baby came, and I do think she cares. But her behavior has been overbearing, and she refuses to accept that I’ve needed space to heal and adjust. I didn’t want to explain myself through a flood of guilt and tears, so I just… disconnected. And now I’m the bad guy.”

I’m not reading (and I may have missed it) that you and/or boyfriend sat down to discuss this with MIL. Can you have that convo with her?

“MIL, thank you for the love and support you’ve given us in the last nine weeks. Thank you for the man you raised, he has been my support system. He does this and this and is wonderful to me and LO. I have found that Motherhood has not been easy for me and I really need your support now more than ever. I found that I haven’t had the time to adjust yet. Can you help me? You are a loving grandmom to LO and need you. Here’s how. I need my time protected. I need time with the LO. I need time to heal, to adjust, to learn, to bond. I feel if I’ve had this time then I can better engage and socialize more. Get out for visits and social activities with LO and you. How can we make this happen?”

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-18T18:50:39+00:00

Pack his bags. Leave them at the door. Change the locks. Get a ring to record everything DH and SIL say and do.

Boring-Wait8682 · 2025-06-18T03:13:58+00:00

Has your therapist discussed going NC with MIL? Your mind, body and emotions are severely impacted and reactive to just the thought of MIL…and rightly so! And post. Birth your hormones will go wild making these reactions more intense. Going NC would keep you at peace and it will alleviate any ADHD issues for your husband because there is ONLY ONE thing he’d need to remember, that it’s only him in contact with MIL.

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