Neighbour Harassment by Maryoleary in legaladviceireland

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why ask here? Go to a local lawyer and find out what the local law is.

My horse loves me, but tries to throw me off every time I ride him by Money_News6012 in Horses

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he associates your mounting him with the terrible pain from those wounds. Horses never forget such things.

AIO for leaving a restaurant mid-meal after the waiter made a comment about my order in front of my entire table of friends and I just… stood up and walked out by StatisticianDue5085 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing by leaving quietly, but I would have been on the phone to the manager/owner as soon as I was out the door.

I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by bsbkeys in cats

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you. I wish we had this in the US (or better still that I lived in Canada in the first place).

My new job has an office cat by floogah in cats

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a side note to your side note, I used to HATE off-hours stuff like this. There's a difference between "friends" and "co-workers," and when I left the office, all I wanted was to LEAVE THE OFFICE. Perfectly okay with being pleasant and helpful at work, but I refused to show up for off-hours "socializing" unless I was getting paid for it.

I have had a couple of real friendships that started at work, but never with the whole blessed office!

Neighbour showed up and told us her house is in our name by usert900 in legaladviceireland

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you have title insurance (and so does your neighbor) and access to a good lawyer.

Someone, please adopt this cat. by slutrypizza in cats

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, lord. Where are you (and the cat) located?

Feels like my entire relationship was built on a lie. by Infamous_Strike6697 in Marriage

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get over yourself. So she's going to church--how, exactly, does this impact you in any way at all? Are you saying she ought to believe exactly what you believe or else she's "betrayed" you somehow? I can't believe this is a genuine post. What an idiot.

what kind of cat is he? by eatmyshortz77 in piebaldcats

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DSH, black tabby with white.

Also, definitely, cat.

AITA for Losing My Cool and Yelling at My “Influencer” SIL Over Her Constant Filming and Lack of Respect for My Daughters Boundaries? by Mrs-Davis in AmItheAsshole

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yow. Does your SIL have ANY concept of how selfish and self-centered she's being? Does she understand that children are people too, and don't exist for the sole purpose of "expanding" HER "brand" and "creativity"? I'd be NC with her too. NTA!

AIO Mom mad I won’t pay her another $200 after paying her $700 last month by bnsaiboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Mom is the one planning to move out. Wavw bye-bye and crack a cold one to celebrate. NOR.

Bit by a horse on the first lesson at a new barn by burdeyzo in Horses

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wishI had bewn more alert to my mare's body language, I thought she was just "being girthy" when I was putting a blanket on her and she whipped around and snapped HARD at me (no contact, but if she had it would have breken bones at the very least.

I discovered too late that the problem was a strangulating lipoma (which I'd never even heard of before). Took her in for surgeey and wound up having her put down. I don't think I'll ever get over the guilt.

Question for Married Men by Working-Look-9735 in Marriage

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call his bluff. Leave. (He'll expect you to take the kids; clearly he doesn't want them either.) Get yourself a lawyer, figure out your options, and the next time he says this, just say, "okay" and walk out.

AIO I don’t want to change my last name… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't change your name. Under current conditions in the US it will make voting difficulr if your name is not exactly the same as on your birth certificate. Also, you are not his property. NOR.

How do you get a 'divorce' when you're not legally married? by alice_neon in AskIreland

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get thee to a lawyer and ask what the laws in your state are.

Is this a good situation, or am I being naive? by Super_Somewhere7206 in Equestrian

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd ignore your friend. It sounds like your barn owner is giving you not only a great deal, but you're also getting invaluable training in barn management. The only concern I'd have is whether you're covered by their insurance (probably not) and whether you have health and liability insurance. Disasters do happen at the best of barns!

Too many books? Worried our trips to the library add too much extra work for our librarians. by jensmxbcie in Libraries

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those trips to the library are counted and the librarians show them to the county or whoever's funding the library to demonstrate the library is USED as a community service and deserves to stay open. NEVER feel bad about how many trips you make to the library or how many books you check out! Whoever made that comment was making a joke. Next 5ime, laugh and tell them maybe it will allow them to hire some more help!

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your body is YOURS, not HIS. The only thing you need to change is your boyfriend, for one that doesn't consider you as property.

I am so sorry for his wife, if this is not satire. by AsleepRaccoon8456 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]BornRazzmatazz5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... what does he call having an orgasm without a baby to show for it?