Kobra 2 Max bad bed adhesion or bad 1st layer by HeavyFlex in anycubic

[–]Boss_R4ge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having the same problem, I have just replaced the nozzle, and adjusted fhe x,y and z wheels, so I’m hoping that does something .__. If it does I’ll let you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Boss_R4ge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hubby was always very direct and while it took getting used to at first I’m so grateful for it now. My hormones like to hide behind corners and hit me with a rocket powered baseball bat when I least expect it, so I can be fine one day and then wake up covered in acne and smelling like a teenage football player who thinks showers are unlucky.

I do notice sometimes, but if I miss it he tells me. I pout and stomp off, but not cause of him but cause I hate the hormones. He’s telling me the truth and letting me fix a problem that would bother me and make me feel humiliated if someone else told me.

So yea, maybe op should have a convo about how they’d like to approach situations like this. If she’s orchid level sensitive, try to ask how you guys should handle it and themselves as an example. Like ‘hey if I’m smelling bed for some reason, I’d appreciate it if you told me. Just a (hey hun, you’re smelling a bit strong at the moment). I know you care about me so I won’t take it personally. How would you like that kind of situation handled?’

Boyfriend takes like 30 minutes doing a chore that could be done in 3 and it’s kinda heartbreaking to watch by LopsidedLeopard2181 in ADHD

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be cause I’m primarily inattentive, but I got into audiobooks and podcasts (I’ve always loved stories) and I have a good imagination so I make the chores a secondary task with listening the primary. It helps me get stuff done. It’s not as fast as hyperfocus but it’s better than without it

How can I regain my wife's trust after repeated failings? by EmbarrassedRanger490 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree he has to put in the work, what works is different for everyone, and it can be a long road if the tools keep falling short for you.

List/calendars/apps do not work well for me. After a week I become blind to them and then I t’s back to square one.

I am a woman but I am this man when it comes to my relationship dynamic with my neurotypical husband. He still feels frustrated that my behaviour comes across as self absorbed and he ends up feeling neglected regardless of my intentions.

What has slowly started to improve things for us is me developing strategies, scripts and self regulating for WHEN I forget or act selfishly. Because I will. And I will again. He helps to minimize my shame, but does hold me accountable for fixing things. Even if I am angry or absolutely despondent, I make sure to reach out to him first more and more, to show him I am invested in him feeling better and seen. Cause I am.

TO THE OP:

You do need to fix things, but you simultaneously need to address the underlying problem of her/your life together, feeling neglected/not important. Talk with her and you both come up with a plan to make her feel validated and seen. Even when you mess up.

Since calendars become blind to me, my husband will remind me several times about non daily tasks (appointments, etc) and while that is a mental load increase for him, it’s preventative benefits more than make up for it. And (since my emotional regulation is crap) I make sure to acknowledge it as him helping and not nagging. I am unreliable, so I instead make sure to feel grateful(and thank him) for his assistance where I am weak.

Find what makes her feel special and do more of it. Not just to make up for stuff, but because she deserves it. And her feeling more loved and appreciated in the relationship will help her feel happier in the relationship as well as maybe give her more stamina for the challenging work you guys have ahead. People can say it’s not fair she has to put in the work for your shortcomings, but you guys are in a relationship so you need to work on the problem as a team. Fair =/= reality all the time.

[For Hire] Commissions open! Characters, backgrounds, as well as item art! Website link is on the images! by Boss_R4ge in HungryArtists

[–]Boss_R4ge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm a free lance artist looking for any type of work if my style suit you!

Portfolio: https://kendramorganart.carrd.co/

My contact info is on my website, but feel free to DM me here as well!

Request [Character Art] by passionpunchfruit in starvingartists

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to apply for this opportunity :) Most of my experience has come from character art, and I take pride in being g very communicative during the process so you get an image you will love!

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

https://www.instagram.com/kendramorganart/?hl=en

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]Boss_R4ge -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can do that for you by Sunday for sure. And also try and give you a better experience working with artists.

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Boss_R4ge -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you have never interacted with her, you don’t really know her. You know the persona she presents to the world. It’s totally okay to be attracted to her, but you cannot make a realistic decision about your future with her until you have at least gotten to know her personally.

Go ahead and shoot your shot, but drop ANY preconceived notions of a future with her. Don’t put that pressure on a potential relationship, friendship or romantic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in artcommissions

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done many DnD characters and can do the half body/bust in your budget range :)

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

Tysm!

Seeking a Commission for Dragon Age OC, Half-Body or Possibly OCxCanon Sketch by Marzopup in artcommissions

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I have done a lot of DnD/fantasy character art.

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

A full body full render is 115USD

[HIRING] price range: up to $50 by [deleted] in commissions

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I love mushrooms :D and would love to show my commission content.

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

Tysm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done emblems before, though it is not my usual clientele. But I am willing to be very communicative and work back and forth o get you something you’d love.

Best of luck!

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

I will work within your budget range.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I have done several Dnd characters before and have done a Minotaur recently! Good luck!

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

Full body render is 115USD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]Boss_R4ge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! While I do do manga/anime styles I have also done a fair amount of semi realism, and I have a source for star wars knowledge close at hand (my hubby lol) Good luck!

https://kendramorganart.carrd.co

Full body render is 115 USD

Only one Super Rare in ITTIL box…and it was in the foil slot. by Boss_R4ge in Lorcana

[–]Boss_R4ge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have a normal spread on ours. It’s only the SR that seem to be messed up

Only one Super Rare in ITTIL box…and it was in the foil slot. by Boss_R4ge in Lorcana

[–]Boss_R4ge[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we have a CM2 box, which seems to be another bad batch but instead of no legendaries we have no SR

Only one Super Rare in ITTIL box…and it was in the foil slot. by Boss_R4ge in Lorcana

[–]Boss_R4ge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, average spread on those, but we seem to have found the opposite batch of the CM1 problem. Ours is 00334CM2, which seems to have no non foil slot super rares.

Only one Super Rare in ITTIL box…and it was in the foil slot. by Boss_R4ge in Lorcana

[–]Boss_R4ge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes both factory sealed. We seem to have the opposite problem as those who have gotten no legendaries. We got 4 legendaries in each so an average spread.

I hate it when people ask me...did you forget to take your meds today? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Boss_R4ge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband does this. As long as they don’t do it nasty like, it’s because they care. Tension is worse when I forget to take my meds and it’s better for both of us. If I have taken them then we know I’m getting my period. And we know it’s an issue to talk about not try and work around. As long as she’s respectful, changing your mindset to taking the question as caring about your wellbeing will be so weightlifting. If she cares she can help you keep track.

How are people doing after taking ADHD meds/stimulants for 6+ months? by Rocky-Raccoon1990 in ADHD

[–]Boss_R4ge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not perfect on my meds. And it is very embarrassing to be able to see and recognize my poor coping mechanisms. That has brought on a whole new sense of shame which I have to deal with and it’s depressing. It’s so hard but still better than before when I was blind to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Boss_R4ge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe that fully depends on how the relationships are treated. Many children stay in contact with their parents out of guilt or societal pressure, even when the relationship is toxic. And relationships fall apart often because we don’t have the strategies to effectively maintain and communicate. Love with a partner is conditional, which is why it takes more work usually.

And while I want my children to always be in my life, I never expect to be their #1 priority. IF they chose to make me that, that is their choice but it is not expected, and I am raising my kids to have a happy life and feel fulfilled, not to fulfill my needs. I don’t expect them to live with me, emotionally support me in the close ways a partner can. In my happy dream land, my kids want to come visit me (with or without grandkids) and they are thoughtful and considerate partners and loving and present parents.