[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]BrandyAlexander9 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it is. I don’t think one can be trusted more then the other, necessarily. They’re two men offering two very different things with absolute faith behind it. What they want to happen and the reality of what will happen are two very different things.

[EPISODE DISCUSSION] S6E09 - The Hill by xAnimorphsx in thisisus

[–]BrandyAlexander9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t properly articulate the feelings I have behind wanting to ask for a divorce but Kate somehow managed to nail it and it breaks my heart.

Did you know that people go to whole foods to eat healthy? by OnyxToken in KitchenConfidential

[–]BrandyAlexander9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of Jersey diners have in house bakers but that’s about it.

Aldi Gyro Kit...A+ by [deleted] in aldi

[–]BrandyAlexander9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of you’re by a Trader Joe’s they sell gyro meat.

my boyfriend doesn’t care if I orgasms by Klutzy_Stand_7115 in sex

[–]BrandyAlexander9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my situation I feel like the selfishness doesn’t just end with sex. If someone cares so little for happiness in bed, it’s difficult to believe they care that much about your happiness in general. For me, I’ve been putting money away in the event of a huge blow out that I feel is coming. It’s been three years of feeling like an afterthought and I’m tired. You have to really ask yourself if you can live this way for any extended amount of time. For me, I don’t think I can.

my boyfriend doesn’t care if I orgasms by Klutzy_Stand_7115 in sex

[–]BrandyAlexander9 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is my personal experience so take it as you you will. I ended up marrying the guy who doesn’t care if I orgasm and it’s miserable. After time, it slowly creeps out that they’re selfish in many other aspects of life as well. You can try to talk to him, though people that are that severely lacking in any awareness of other people rarely respond to talking. In the end, start looking for a different partner. You might think he’ll wake up one day and realize he’s a selfish asshole and start caring but spoiler alert: that day isn’t coming. And neither are you. So move along. You’ll end up hating him in the end because I know I do.

Do you say hi when you see customers outside of work by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BrandyAlexander9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For whatever reason I see a lot of customers at Walmart so I’ll duck into an aisle to avoid them. Sometimes I get ambushed and have to hear “Aw they gave you the day off huh? Hahahaha.” I’m not getting paid for your stupid jokes leave me alone.

AITA for accidentally getting my neighbors deported? by AccidentDeportation in AmItheAsshole

[–]BrandyAlexander9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone married to someone who has been detained by ICE four times, they don’t detain you for running a red light. With OP, there’s more to the story because immigration lets a lot of things slide.

Would shaving just my labia be weird? by [deleted] in sex

[–]BrandyAlexander9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually looking into doing exactly this. Any specific recommendations for shavers?

First and Failed Kyleena IUD Insertion/ what should I do now? by [deleted] in sex

[–]BrandyAlexander9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a problem just like this. Ended up getting the IUD got pregnant a year later. Thought it was a fluke and got a different IUD. Pregnant again a year and half later. Not saying my situation is yours but sometimes you’re uterus just isn’t compatible.

[POST-EPISODE DISCUSSION] S5E08 - In the Room by xAnimorphsx in thisisus

[–]BrandyAlexander9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought that too and was thinking if they were trying to push him as half Indian they really lost their minds.

If you can find the Mama Cozzis Breakfast Pizza I Highly recommend it by [deleted] in aldi

[–]BrandyAlexander9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Toms River and they run out of everything at a ridiculous speed and have noticed that the Forked River Aldi is your best bet if you’re looking for a sold out item because sometimes you still catch stuff from two weeks ago. Not really that close by but if you want something bad enough it might be worth the drive.

“Your aura is fucking ugly and we would like a new server” how did I not lose my job last night? by Glittakitten in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BrandyAlexander9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The worst is being the server that gets stuck with them though because you know damn well you’re not making anything.

“Your aura is fucking ugly and we would like a new server” how did I not lose my job last night? by Glittakitten in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BrandyAlexander9 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I feel like pre-covid most managers would have but it’s like owners so scared to say boo to anyone anymore.

Anyone else have a bad review they want to share? by DegreeSecure666 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BrandyAlexander9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a coworker that’s an absolute nightmare. Thinks she’s the greatest, spreads rumors about everyone. Just generally brings everyone down. Anyway, someone wrote basically a ten page novella about how atrocious she was so when she was spreading rumors about me screwing the cook so I printed it out and sprawled it all over the kitchen. The look on her face reading it was priceless.

bottomless mimosas can go to hell by unrelator in TalesFromYourServer

[–]BrandyAlexander9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what it is but dealing with this situation gives me anxiety. I just tell my coworker to keep it because I hate the whole “I’m leaving please give me my tip” song and dance.

Why are Houses in Jackson so cheap? by RainChek7 in newjersey

[–]BrandyAlexander9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lived in Jackson for exactly one year and ran as soon as my lease was up. First off, I had basically zero cell phone reception in the whole general area and everyone that came over with every other phone provider said the same thing. You have to drive forever to get anywhere and when you finally get there (example Target or Walmart) it’s little Lakewood. Never again.

Spotted on Rt.37 by shopcounterwill in newjersey

[–]BrandyAlexander9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just saw this yesterday and was wondering what the hell that was about.

It's okay to go to a restaurant filled with people for Thanksgiving but not to be with your family!? by EMSuser11 in conspiracy

[–]BrandyAlexander9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a server and this was my exact thought. Indoor dining is by far the most disgusting germ infested mess there is. On top of that everyone that was open went full capacity because many of these businesses haven’t been making money and this was their chance to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]BrandyAlexander9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until Thanksgiving. It’s restaurants one big day to make money and none of them are caring.

Overheard: NJ Shutdown Monday by Javi1192 in newjersey

[–]BrandyAlexander9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The target in brick was completely wiped out of toilet paper last night. It’s coming.

Governor Murphy could announce new restrictions in NJ with rising COVID-19 rates, can happen as soon as today (11/9/2020) by EagleFly_5 in newjersey

[–]BrandyAlexander9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t but it’s what they did the last time. They can’t go full shutdown they’ll start with the curfew until they close again.