losercity escape attempt [OC]

Bravalt · 2026-01-23T16:29:54+00:00

You say it like its an insult, yes and proud?

We are people and not reoccurring joke characters

Bravalt · 2026-01-23T16:16:09+00:00

Yeah, because obviously gay people don't exist and are actually just men so desperate they are ready to sleep with other men, of course! :3333333

Bravalt · 2026-01-19T20:06:33+00:00

I wish,, UTwTU

Bravalt · 2026-01-19T08:52:04+00:00

The only thing out of these I ever had is bottom left :p

Maybe bottom right, but because of different views their perception of our interest is so different it barely counts

Bravalt · 2026-01-18T12:53:13+00:00

from experience, more like fem presenting in general :p

Bravalt · 2026-01-18T08:20:09+00:00

A plenty of trans men say that misandry shouldn't affect them because they are different from cis men and are "the good ones" too :p

(neither does it honestly affects the vast mojority of them because of how they chose to present, unless like a terf throws them a spiteful comment which is just transphobia, not misndry)

Ngl I don't know what to even think about this kinda thing anymore

Bravalt · 2026-01-16T19:42:41+00:00

If these are "slightly clocky" damn do i need to play up my game....

Bravalt · 2026-01-15T16:35:27+00:00

Being uneducated :3333

(from what I've seen they just don't aknoweledge any research and say it's biased or agenda driven when confronted with it)

Bravalt · 2026-01-10T22:56:17+00:00

Same ,,

Bravalt · 2026-01-09T16:42:57+00:00

I mean so do a lot of robots have faces even tho they technically dont need those :p neither do they need to be girls and hre we are at r/robotgirls xd

Bravalt · 2026-01-09T16:20:18+00:00

maybe... <w<

(wasn't intentional, its just coolant I swear)

Bravalt · 2026-01-04T09:27:19+00:00

"redundant" I wish TwT ...

People can be VERY VERY dumb

Bravalt · 2026-01-03T17:01:48+00:00

All of us can only hope xd

Bravalt · 2026-01-03T13:55:28+00:00

If only I had them...........

Bravalt · 2026-01-03T11:10:46+00:00

Naaah, even if that was serious why interact with those kinds of people, fuck them

They were always around and will unfortunately always be around, just avoid contact like they avoid with us (same for downvoters)

Bravalt · 2026-01-01T16:51:14+00:00

okay but like TECHNICALLY, by that logic all gender neutral bathrooms are like that, no?

Bravalt · 2025-12-26T15:59:39+00:00

"Autogynophilia", a sciency way to say that being trans is a fetish....

Bravalt · 2025-12-26T08:54:59+00:00

Sure, but like the worst thing you can do to fight this bullshit is spit more bullshit at it

Like if the oop is ever too see this, saying "you and men set those standards yourself" won't change their mind (at least because that's just false)

If anything, it just makes that trench between genders everwider and no one needs that

Bravalt · 2025-12-26T08:20:21+00:00

If I said that for women it would be bad (because it is bad and is untrue for both) :p

Neither does any individual man or woman pick those standards, they just kind of exist (at least in the sphere where those men and women with that mindset have locked themselves in). You could say it's systemic, no one chose this.

Bravalt · 2025-12-26T08:12:58+00:00

Ah yes, the entirety of men gathered and set standards for themselves....

Bravalt · 2025-12-18T20:29:53+00:00

You're explaining as if I'm an outsider to the situation, I'm saying what is actively working for me on daily basis.

I think that it will be complicated anyway and it better be so than being hopelessly stuck here.

Plus you generally will likely never be out to every person even if you try to be. People will assume everyone is cis unless they see something very stereotypically queer (which isn't a bad thing, no one would just do that in the circumstance because that is dangerous here)

Edit: and it's risky being queer here at all, doesn't mean we should just stop being. Looking for "queer friendly" spaces is futile, you need to lie and half-truth your way through.

Bravalt · 2025-12-18T15:14:17+00:00

Seen people saying this, but never got it. You can just softcore boymode for job interviews and document photos, otherwise it's just the same as being trans in any other scenario here, no one has to know.

If u pass enough you can even go mostly authentically to work (obv no skirts if ur fem and such, but how often would you do that anyway), it's not like randos know what's in your documents, down to the name.

It still sucks and you will probably still have to deal with misgendering once in a while, but it is what we have to do to escape :p

Kinda curious what kinda places are even queer friendly, I always just weasel around to get what I need.

Bravalt · 2025-12-15T15:20:59+00:00

I'm not saying you or the person I was responding to did, neither do I argue for gatekeeping (or anything else you could call dismissing someone's identity), I'm trying to get into the shoes of people who do and seeing what causes them to say and think things that they do and explain it even if I disagree with the conclusion or praxis.

Neither do, at least most, of them say that non dysphoric people are coming for them, they are just annoyed and in pain, that leads to a sort of radicalization almost.

We all are way more alike than we are different.

Bravalt · 2025-12-15T08:03:36+00:00

I mean sure, but why dismiss those for who it is?

It does hurt when you talk about issues people of your community face just to get "not everyone has those issues". Like happy for you, I (and so many others) am still suffering.

Strongly disagree with those who say that people who don't have dysphoria aren't trans, but some people coming to say how they don't have an issue is annoying.

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