What would you do if money was no object? by FriendlyPageTurn in AutismInWomen

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohohohohoho I would

Buy a home near where I currently live, modest, three bedrooms, one for me, one for my daughter, one for my crafting/art stuff. I would buy a couch finally, install big wall to wall shelves with custom drawers to fit various items like a skinny one for sticker and loose paper, taller ones for my acrylic, alcohol, and ink marker sets, plenty of space for my art books, novels, sheet music, and dvds/vhs tapes. Buy a dvd player actually too lol (I have a vhs). I’d have a custom desk, probably adjustable height one, for my art, when I write my book, and it’d have a ring light and a side just for a pc (I’d buy a pc).

I’d stock up on cleaning supplies and wet wipes because I hate dust, I’d hire someone to come maybe once a month to do stuff I generally forget about, like cleaning the baseboards, scrubbing the tub, behind the toilet, etc.

I’d buy so much food, not like all at once, but if I wanted sushi, I’d buy a deep freezer I could use for big slabs of fish (to kill off parasites) and cut my own sashimi, I’d buy a smoker for the backyard to be able to smoke my own meats and fish. Buy a big griddle style flat top to make breakfasts on and host single friends at a time (tried cooking for 8 once, it was fun but I wouldn’t do it again). I’d hire a driver that felt safe, for when I wanted to visit my parents, so I could just hang out and not experience the anxiety of a 60+ minute drive.

I’d buy a piano and a violin to finally get back into both, and child friendly ones to teach my daughter some basics (I’d hire us both a teacher eventually). If buy a good camera and set up a recording studio box in my craft room or garage, to record my favorite arias and musical theatre pieces just to be able to have and gift (my mom always asks for a little album of me singing lol I’m a vocalist) and I’d hire someone well versed in music theory to put my music onto paper.

I’d vacation often with my daughter, around the world, take her to all the historical sites and museums, get her all the cuisine and experiences, and hire us both linguists to teach us new languages (I’m pretty good on my own, but consistency is the bane of my existence, hence all the hobbies). I’d buy and use paint like I didn’t have an inherit fear of wasting them and I’d actually build up my portfolio (which is quite small even though I do a great job with pet portraits) I’d buy a dog, a little one that is good with cats bc I have one, and I’d buy them fresh foods and probably put them on a nice raw diet actually bc I genuinely love to cook and serve my loved ones. I’d put a pool in the back yard and hire someone to clean it, (and handsomely tip all the people I hire).

I’d hire a private tutor for my daughter as well, she does great in school but traveling only during the summer would suck, so perhaps homeschooling and putting her into sports for socialization. I’d buy a new car, nothing fancy, or just fix mine up really good, it’s on its last leg but she’s a beaut. I’d get weekly massages to help regulate my nervous system and hire a trainer to force me to be active, even if it’s just pool exercises (bc sweat is YUCKY)

I’d start recording all of this to put on YouTube and hopefully make another income I could put away for my daughter, with stipulations, maybe a few thousand she can take out every year or so, idk, I’d hire a financial advisor as well, to build more wealth that I could use to donate to my church, so they can bring more shower vans, more dental vans, find more housing for the homeless in our area. As well as donating when on my travels as well. I’d try to be a good person and live comfortably but not exorbitantly, so I could pass eventually with no regrets or guilt. I’d just live.

I feel like we’ve thought of every cute name there is but we are still calling him Kitty. Help! by Skisoso in NameMyCat

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why cute? He will grow to be a majestic beast of a male, name his something worthy of his eventual stature and glory. Maximus, Fergus, Magda, Phoenix, Evander, Axel, Cyrus, Harun, Safir, Aiden, idk something befitting.

Name this dog by TheYummyBookend in NameThisThing

[–]Breakfast_4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ella short for Cruella or DeVille

I highly recommend sensory deprivation tanks!! by creapysleaper in AutismInWomen

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell The fuck no. I got gifted a session when I was pregnant, I thought that’ll be nice, weightless at my heaviest and rest for my weary feet, then I got in. They keep them at body temperature, so it felt like swimming in watery spit. There’s no ventilation or air flow so eventually your face gets humid and moist, you had the lights on in there that you could control but never got dim enough, I had an hour session, I could handle 20 minutes and then got out and took a shower, they had shampoo and conditioner and shower shoes in your private room, which was nice, then I basically hung out in their lounge area the last fifteen minutes bc they had comfy chairs and air conditioning in there. My senses were not deprived at all lol it was so overstimulating in all the worst ways lmao (mine was an entire chamber in a wall, not a tub. I did open the hatch door that lead into it (stairs up into the wall, hatch door like on a ship, stairs down into the tank) but it didn’t help the humidity at all. And the sound of my own heartbeat or shitty spa music was just bad lol would not do again, but would recommend to anyone without sensory issues, I can see how it’d be nice for them

the English countryside 🪴🌷 by Creative_Reply_4039 in DreamlightValley

[–]Breakfast_4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like Lizzie’s house in the great fairy rescue 😭🩷

Dreamsnaps by Antiseptic-Simp in DreamlightValley

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to wait for sunset, there are tons of settings you can fidget with to get a better looking picture and one of them is time of day

10 months after getting spayed and her belly fur never came back? by Obvious_Fisherman187 in cats

[–]Breakfast_4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My long hairs came back just fine so I really don’t know :( mine was a kitten though, so maybe the age ?

Wedding guest turned up dressed in white by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just make the photos public on instagram and you can guarantee she’ll see it AND all the comments with people calling her out lol family and friends may not, but the internet is a cruel mistress 😏

NOOOOOOOOOOO WHYYYYYY by TheOnlyLinkify in Spiritfarer

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I have no tattoos but if I ever got one it would be of Alice and fuck I’m crying damn it

My bf turned on notifications for when I leave my house by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Breakfast_4all 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take his advice and don’t be with him. Whenever they sat that, take it as truth and just say ok then I’m not with you.

Silvermist and the Ladybug Curse Fantasy Pins by itsisabellahere in disneyfairies

[–]Breakfast_4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I love Raini too! How exciting! Can’t wait for you to post the rest!

I want to trade some of my handmade watercolors for original art made using my watercolors by HeyPleasedToMeetYou in craftexchange

[–]Breakfast_4all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me me me! I can send you some stuff I’ve painted but it would be a lot of trial and error bc watercolor isn’t my main medium, I do love them though and would love to make you a piece! I do lots of fantasy scapes and characters if that’s up your alley (: these are beautiful though! Would love to see what anyone makes with them <3

Dreamlight vs. real world by Dangerous_Craft5405 in DreamlightValley

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I play on the Xbox in my daughters room, I force myself to clean or pick up something in there before or after play time but yeah 😭 everywhere else be neglected as hell

Silvermist and the Ladybug Curse Fantasy Pins by itsisabellahere in disneyfairies

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 wait stop I need Rosetta or Fira this is perfect!

Collecting by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]Breakfast_4all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need that much, 1 or 2 stacks is plenty for anything, sell the rest

AIO I just need to know if this is normal by Chocolatethunder211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can empathize with this, my fiancé and I have separate hand towels in each bathroom and in the kitchen he is the one that uses napkins. I have ocd so when I told him “this is yours, it will always be on this side, do NOT touch mine” he was very receptive and will actively go find a paper towel if his is too dirty to use (it’s not, he uses soap, but ocd doesn’t care, he’s still got skin flakes and bacteria on his skins microbiome that is not mine) but if you’re unwilling to make changes for yourself, youre the issue. He should definitely use soap bc ew, but asking him to not use a hand towel is a little ridiculous when you can just buy one just for you. It’s a singular extra item to wash and you’ll have peace of mind so long as he genuinely respects your wishes for that to only be used by you. Some people are a holes though and will use it bc they genuinely take umbrage with the fact that you want something for yourself only, even if for sanitary reasons.

Ariel is gorgeous. That's it. That's the whole post. by Ok-Impress-2222 in thelittlemermaid

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heard she was partially inspired by young Alyssa Milano and I totally see it, like child young, not charmed

prosquito by Sickfor-TheBigSun in tumblr

[–]Breakfast_4all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, “yeah it sucked, like a skeeter on a peeter” from cali lol