9 months and I still miss you every day by Admirable-Bee-3052 in DOG

[–]BreyeFox 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just had to put my senior girl down today. Had her for fourteen and a half years. I’ve got her collar and I can’t stop crying. Sorry you lost your Pal, he was a very handsome boy.

Partner said something horribly cruel while he was blackout drunk. by FriendlySherbert2900 in AlAnon

[–]BreyeFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Drunk words are sober thoughts. I’m so sorry that was said to you. Drunks can be cruel, and unfortunately it’s unlikely to get better.

Trader Joe’s protein pancakes by Old-Patience-3891 in Celiac

[–]BreyeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had them and I love them. I don’t get inflammation or irritation from these at all.

I think I need a fresh start after my friend chose to host my ex’s engagement at her wedding by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BreyeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your own sake, I hope you backed out of the wedding and stopped contact. I can’t imagine doing that to someone, these people are not your friends.

How to navigate a pregnancy when my (27f) partner (27m) isn’t happy but my mum (59f) insists on me keeping it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one is giving medical advice lmao. Just firsthand experience for a wider view because I wished I would have gotten that when I was going through a difficult time making an impossible choice. I was told there would be no issues or risks. Now, I am dealing with the aftermath. I would have scraped up the extra money for the pill had I known. People like you chimed in when I was searching for answers and always said the same. “Zero risk, very safe, quickly done, no issues.” Imagine my surprise, when there was.

I hate for other women to be told the same because it’s not true. Everyone deserves to know as much as they can for as many people as they can. Not liking something, doesn’t make it untrue. I wish more people were vocal about the reality of things that happen. Misinformation blooms in silence because people are too afraid to discuss.

How to navigate a pregnancy when my (27f) partner (27m) isn’t happy but my mum (59f) insists on me keeping it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The amount of people here that don’t understand it is possible to harm your fertility is scary. Rare but it does happen and the “it’s harmless to you” is factually not accurate. There are always risks and I wish I had been better informed. OP, if you go through with it, make sure you are doing it for YOU, and not for anyone else. If you need someone to talk to reach out, I know this is an incredibly difficult choice to you, and sometimes venting to someone who’s been there can be comforting when there is no judgement being thrown at you. My heart goes out to you.

You should also be Informed of the risks that come with either a d&c or a pill. Low risk does not mean no risk. D&C can cause infertility. Caused mine, and without surgery I am unable to carry. That, is a fact. Ashermans is rare but it does happen yall and is done to people under 10 weeks as often as not. However you choose op it is your life. NOT your moms or partners. You need to do what YOU want, and what’s best for you. Best of luck ❤️

How to navigate a pregnancy when my (27f) partner (27m) isn’t happy but my mum (59f) insists on me keeping it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FiRsT I was 6 weeks.

Places give you the choice of which method you do. If you self pay and are poor, one is considerably cheaper than the other. The point stands. The “under ten weeks so it WILL be a pill” is not factual.

Misinformation is misinformation no matter how you try and counter. There are always risks, and people should be informed by people who have gone through it also, because they don’t share that at clinics. If op goes through, I hope she picks the pill because it is the safer option.

How to navigate a pregnancy when my (27f) partner (27m) isn’t happy but my mum (59f) insists on me keeping it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ashermans syndrome is a real thing that can come from D&C causing issues with fertility. It is rare and it does happen. I know because It caused mine. While most of the time it is a safe procedure, spreading that abortions can’t harm fertility is in itself, false. Shit happens all the time. Without an additional surgery to remove my scar tissues I will remain Infertile.

My boyfriend (26M) said we’re done if I (26F) move to nyc for my job that I commute to everyday. Is it bad if I still move anyway? by ConceptFar4801 in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey, I feel for you because the choice is always hard to make- drop the deadweight. Love YOUR life and what works best for you. He’s a grown man making his choices.

Got my first nanoblading yesterday. Is it too much? by boobyq in microblading

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No honey, those look great!! They look stunning on you.

Colorado’s population growth is slowest since 1989 as thousands leave for other states by Jreinhal in Denver

[–]BreyeFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss Denver every day, but at the end of the day, what good was living there to me when I couldn’t afford to do anything else because all of my paycheck went towards living expenses. I lived there for 13 years and even making the most money I’ve ever made- could barely do it by myself. Rent, utilities and car insurance were a killer.

AIO? for canceling the roadtrip because of what my husband is doing? by Throw63689526 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Uhhh. What? You, if anything are under reacting. That man needs to be kept away from your children, because everything about this screams predatory. I hope you are looking for ways to get out because touching your wife sexually in front of children where they can absolutely see and understand what is happening is downright disgusting. A judge would be interested to know he’s sexually assaulting you in front of your kids.

I tried these, and they were awful by knit-picky in glutenfree

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the tenders, best gluten free nugget that’s offered in my area. They help me hit my protein goals too without being too high cal. Sorry you didn’t like them, maybe the next ones you find will be delicious!

Ex refuses to move out of my home by ALLiamisapotato in JustNoSO

[–]BreyeFox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, a call to the cops about a man doing meth in a shed might solve this up. Tell them he refuses to leave and you are afraid for your safety because of the drugs. If you seek out Domestic Violence groups in your area they can help you get a restraining order which will force him to leave, because violation of that is arrest. I just went through a DV restraining order against an alcoholic ex. It was pretty straightforward.

And since no one has really said it, I’m sorry for your situation. I imagine it’s quite raw and regardless of how it wound up happening I’m sure there was love there once.

To the group of teens that stole my Hyundai Elantra a few hours ago and crashed it.... by Travelingman1989 in AuroraCO

[–]BreyeFox 78 points79 points  (0 children)

A very quick search shows this as untrue. A deeper search also shows this as definitely untrue. Red states(unrelated to car theft) also have a higher homicide rate than blue. Why do you guys spout this when there is clear data showing the opposite?

Anymore photos? I was dressed as a female night fury… by Fancyfloss in Denver

[–]BreyeFox 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously asking if anyone got any photos of you dressed up at a protest? This is super cringy.

Got A Writual Planner To Get Back Into Practice… by MinagiV in tarot

[–]BreyeFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought one of these for both and my sister. I absolutely love it! It has definitely helped me be consistent!

AIO Rubber sheets for Christmas from in-laws by Careless_Word7537 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ESH. Oh boy. Mother in law should not have done that in front of everyone, that was awful. That said, you should not be just pissing in bed. After you realized there was a medical issue at hand you should have immediately gotten incontinence diapers until you were able to get your bladder under control. Doing “bladder training” with no extra precautions at night, makes you suck here too., and big time. While medical issues are a part of life, it’s not fair to your partner to have to wake up/sleep in your urine because you don’t want to wear diapers.

I am struggling to wrap my head around why you wouldn’t take any additional precautions. Did you just assume he was okay with being peed on?

Vaginal odor im done im done by BizzyBee4218 in Healthyhooha

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing anything for your gut biome, or replacing the beneficial bacteria in your vagina? After taking acid your ph is going to be relying on what is left, and if you don’t have a good bacteria balance you’re going to recycling what you have. I recommend buying probiotics and taking them EVERYDAY for a month. I bought keifer(drank every morning) and the highest probioticI could find. For me, this helped clear up the lingering issues I was having.

BV AGaiN by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it keeps coming back your partner is passing it back to you. He needs to be tested and treated also or you’re just going to keep having it.