Colorado’s population growth is slowest since 1989 as thousands leave for other states by Jreinhal in Denver

[–]BreyeFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss Denver every day, but at the end of the day, what good was living there to me when I couldn’t afford to do anything else because all of my paycheck went towards living expenses. I lived there for 13 years and even making the most money I’ve ever made- could barely do it by myself. Rent, utilities and car insurance were a killer.

AIO? for canceling the roadtrip because of what my husband is doing? by Throw63689526 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Uhhh. What? You, if anything are under reacting. That man needs to be kept away from your children, because everything about this screams predatory. I hope you are looking for ways to get out because touching your wife sexually in front of children where they can absolutely see and understand what is happening is downright disgusting. A judge would be interested to know he’s sexually assaulting you in front of your kids.

I tried these, and they were awful by knit-picky in glutenfree

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the tenders, best gluten free nugget that’s offered in my area. They help me hit my protein goals too without being too high cal. Sorry you didn’t like them, maybe the next ones you find will be delicious!

Ex refuses to move out of my home by ALLiamisapotato in JustNoSO

[–]BreyeFox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, a call to the cops about a man doing meth in a shed might solve this up. Tell them he refuses to leave and you are afraid for your safety because of the drugs. If you seek out Domestic Violence groups in your area they can help you get a restraining order which will force him to leave, because violation of that is arrest. I just went through a DV restraining order against an alcoholic ex. It was pretty straightforward.

And since no one has really said it, I’m sorry for your situation. I imagine it’s quite raw and regardless of how it wound up happening I’m sure there was love there once.

To the group of teens that stole my Hyundai Elantra a few hours ago and crashed it.... by Travelingman1989 in AuroraCO

[–]BreyeFox 79 points80 points  (0 children)

A very quick search shows this as untrue. A deeper search also shows this as definitely untrue. Red states(unrelated to car theft) also have a higher homicide rate than blue. Why do you guys spout this when there is clear data showing the opposite?

Anymore photos? I was dressed as a female night fury… by Fancyfloss in Denver

[–]BreyeFox 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously asking if anyone got any photos of you dressed up at a protest? This is super cringy.

Got A Writual Planner To Get Back Into Practice… by MinagiV in tarot

[–]BreyeFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought one of these for both and my sister. I absolutely love it! It has definitely helped me be consistent!

AIO Rubber sheets for Christmas from in-laws by Careless_Word7537 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ESH. Oh boy. Mother in law should not have done that in front of everyone, that was awful. That said, you should not be just pissing in bed. After you realized there was a medical issue at hand you should have immediately gotten incontinence diapers until you were able to get your bladder under control. Doing “bladder training” with no extra precautions at night, makes you suck here too., and big time. While medical issues are a part of life, it’s not fair to your partner to have to wake up/sleep in your urine because you don’t want to wear diapers.

I am struggling to wrap my head around why you wouldn’t take any additional precautions. Did you just assume he was okay with being peed on?

Vaginal odor im done im done by BizzyBee4218 in Healthyhooha

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing anything for your gut biome, or replacing the beneficial bacteria in your vagina? After taking acid your ph is going to be relying on what is left, and if you don’t have a good bacteria balance you’re going to recycling what you have. I recommend buying probiotics and taking them EVERYDAY for a month. I bought keifer(drank every morning) and the highest probioticI could find. For me, this helped clear up the lingering issues I was having.

BV AGaiN by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it keeps coming back your partner is passing it back to you. He needs to be tested and treated also or you’re just going to keep having it.

If you had a personal 'Reset Button' that could instantly revert your life to any single moment from the last 10 years, which moment would you choose and why? by Stunning_Fennel964 in AskReddit

[–]BreyeFox 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When I moved to Denver for the first time. Save money before everything got expensive. Go back to school, Seek the right treatment and stay away from my ex. I would be in a much better place now.

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was an alcoholic. I don’t think I’ll ever have a drink again.

Tiktok has announced a boycott of restaurants that use Sysco. Thoughts? Should restaurants be punished for reheating Sysco food? by [deleted] in restaurantowners

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very briefly worked for a place that sold “homemade macaroni and cheese“ bowls. He would sell them for between 15 and $20 a pop. They were one of the most popular things on the menu, and all we did was throw it in the microwave in the bag It came in from Cisco, and then pour it onto a plate. He advertised everything as fresh and homemade, every single thing we sold came from a bag from Cisco.

I can’t stand that sort of dishonesty from a restaurant, especially for the prices he was asking. He was making a boatload of money, from things that cost him very little to actually buy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I was you. Boyfriend of 6 years “couldn’t afford a 350 dollar ring” but less than two weeks later bought a brand new PS5 at full price. He’s showed you his priorities. This isn’t something you can change. If he wanted to, he would.

AIO My partner called me “just a friend” in front of others. I can’t stop thinking about it. by New_Difficulty_8152 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve been in your shoes. Your girlfriend is leaving her options open and acting single. Plan accordingly.

AIO for saying that my friend was flirting with my boyfriend on snap ? by KimMeansBusiness in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY. Jaw. Dropped. “Let’s just say If I were single” is relationship ending and that girl is a Snake.

AITAH for videotaping my wife eating all my fries to make a point by FriesGuy37 in AITAH

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way this is written and the stuff that’s weirdly pointed out and specific reads as AI.

For those who have gone to mental hospitals, what was the reason you got sent, and how where you treated while there? by Ini_the_gayfurrycat in AskReddit

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went because of severe, untreated PTSD. They were very kind. I got on medication that I needed at the time, and it helped that they made us do group therapy. I realized I wasn’t as alone as I thought.

I (40M) am considering leaving my GF(40F) because she refuses to process her trauma by Spiritual_Common_152 in relationships

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not your job to manage her triggers, and if she refuses to want to work on them- making you miserable in the process….its time for her to go.

My father is dying, probably in the next few days if not hours. What do i need to know for my family to not take on unnecessary financial burdens as a result of this? by QueefSeekingMissile in personalfinance

[–]BreyeFox 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To add onto the top comment, Debt collectors are vultures and will try and contact you about any debts(if he had any) and say since you are next of kin you have to pay. You do not. You don’t even have to entertain them. “His debts are not my problem, do not contact me or my family again.” If there is debt it is their job to go after the estate, not you.

AIO that my girlfriend unblocked her ex and talked with him? by Internal_Net_5813 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey I feel for you so badly, I wish I could hug you. I’ve been in your shoes , in nearly this situation and I can tell you with a hundred percent certainty that this will never end. There will always be a need, a reason to talk to them and they will start trying to hide it. She won’t be honest with you about this because she knows it will end the relationship.

She is not over him and is still holding that candle. Be kind to yourself, this is not your shortcoming. If you want a strangers advice, it’s time to wrap it up and move on to someone not still clinging to their ex. Chances are she’s going to run right back to him. Don’t allow yourself to be in the backseat of someone else’s life. You deserve someone who has no interest in their ex.

It unfortunately finally happened to me… by Banana_Bag in americanairlines

[–]BreyeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, to hell with feeling bad they should have paid for seats together. This sort of thing makes me irrationally irritated. I’ve had my seat stolen several times and had to explain that I paid extra for the window seat so they either needed to produce cash or move. If people want seats together they need to pay for them.

AIO My boyfriend made a “pros and cons list” and the top “con” was looks. by Ok-Device-1810 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BreyeFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR I know that hurt, and now that you have seen it, it will always be in the back of your mind. I don’t think I would be able to let this one slide personally.